denalichen 403 Posted April 12, 2014 Share Posted April 12, 2014 I would like a guy’s perspective about dating women who are 10 + years older than you. Let’s say she’s totally worthy – attractive, great personality, you get along well, etc. Would you date her seriously, or treat her like a learning experience, or avoid her romantically or (fill in the blank)? Do you think she is so old that there are cobwebs down there? Is it too scary to contemplate? Another thing, do you think negatively about women who like younger men? For example, an older man dating a younger woman is a stud. An older woman with a younger man might be considered immature or desperate or freakin' horny. Does a woman have a beauty expiration date? Please share your thoughts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Affection90 2,412 Posted April 12, 2014 Share Posted April 12, 2014 i'm not into women, so.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meems 229 Posted April 12, 2014 Share Posted April 12, 2014 Love is blind and age doesn't matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junkrat 5,683 Posted April 12, 2014 Share Posted April 12, 2014 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mgl 5,919 Posted April 12, 2014 Share Posted April 12, 2014 Since I'm already a bit old, 10 years older might be a bit too much to have a serious relationship since it would be harder to have kids with her. If it's just to date, then I would be totally fine with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SATANIC SLUT 2,971 Posted April 12, 2014 Share Posted April 12, 2014 isn't a cougar a middle-aged woman who dates college-aged men? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seultoria 211 Posted April 12, 2014 Share Posted April 12, 2014 Maybe at my age (23), 10+ years would be fine. I mean, I wouldn't pass up the chance to bang Kim Tae Hee, who is ten years older than me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azia 148 Posted April 12, 2014 Share Posted April 12, 2014 interesting ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
denalichen 403 Posted April 12, 2014 Author Share Posted April 12, 2014 I'm a little surprised, I thought the age gap would make a difference. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lips ruby blue 285 Posted April 13, 2014 Share Posted April 13, 2014 I'd love it. An older woman with a younger man might be considered immature or desperate or freakin' horny. Making a problem of any of the above would be very hypocritical of me, anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twin<3333LovesMango 682 Posted April 13, 2014 Share Posted April 13, 2014 I'm a little surprised, I thought the age gap would make a difference. To answer your question....I would use it as a learning/sexual experience. I don't think I'm emotionally mature enough to handle an older woman. That being said I think the reason older women hitting on younger men is more frowned upon is due to many different reasons. One major reason is because allot of people (both men and women) feel like women can get any man they want with little effort. Even at a young age women have a much bigger pool of men to chose from then men with women. Men more or less grow into more desirable mates so women both younger and older see them as potential lover and LT mates. Obviously this isn't fact and some people would say it's steeped in archaic misogyny but it's something that is thrown around allot. People also say that women don't age as well as men do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
denalichen 403 Posted April 13, 2014 Author Share Posted April 13, 2014 I'd love it. Making a problem of any of the above would be very hypocritical of me, anyway. That cracked me up. To answer your question....I would use it as a learning/sexual experience. I don't think I'm emotionally mature enough to handle an older woman. That being said I think the reason older women hitting on younger men is more frowned upon is due to many different reasons. One major reason is because allot of people (both men and women) feel like women can get any man they want with little effort. Even at a young age women have a much bigger pool of men to chose from then men with women. Men more or less grow into more desirable mates so women both younger and older see them as potential lover and LT mates. People also say that women don't age as well as men do. I think older women would understand that about younger guys and maybe she wants to explore as well. You know many women are trained from childhood to not express themselves. That's why I was wondering if people generally think older women only want one thing from a younger guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twin<3333LovesMango 682 Posted April 13, 2014 Share Posted April 13, 2014 That cracked me up. I think older women would understand that about younger guys and maybe she wants to explore as well. You know many women are trained from childhood to not express themselves. That's why I was wondering if people generally think older women only want one thing from a younger guy. I would say for the most part yes. While I'm sure there are plenty of older women that are dating men 10-15 years younger than them I think most cougars do it because it's their last chance before their looks fade away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shootzz 26 Posted April 13, 2014 Share Posted April 13, 2014 If she's hot and have money then yes I would FK HER and date her, age don't mean shit to be honest... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elle 118 Posted April 13, 2014 Share Posted April 13, 2014 If ever I would,he‘ll be like minor like early middle school minor so no.I dont want to be in jail. but maybe 30 years from now,I ll change my mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
denalichen 403 Posted April 13, 2014 Author Share Posted April 13, 2014 I would say for the most part yes. While I'm sure there are plenty of older women that are dating men 10-15 years younger than them I think most cougars do it because it's their last chance before their looks fade away. I was thinking more like she finally came out of the shell of repression and she's feeling crazy. Older guys just aren't the same as younger guys, different priorities I mean, and don't seem as spirited as younger guys. Maybe she's just not ready to lay down and die. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
denalichen 403 Posted April 13, 2014 Author Share Posted April 13, 2014 Since I'm already a bit old, 10 years older might be a bit too much to have a serious relationship since it would be harder to have kids with her. If it's just to date, then I would be totally fine with it. And she might already have kids. If you want a family of your own, then you two would probably have different goals in the relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickenfan 1,144 Posted April 14, 2014 Share Posted April 14, 2014 I'm not a dude so pardon my intrusion but from what my guy friends tells me, they don't really care if the woman is older, as long as she's hot and has a down to earth personality. Now if we're talking about 10 years, I think realistically the larger the age gap the hotter the girl/woman has to be for the younger guy to want her tbh. Since we're on a KPOP forum, Take Dara, who is 30 this year, looks like a 25 year old at best and seems to have a cool personality. I bet a lot of younger idols in the 20-22 age range would love to date her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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