vocabulary 890 Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 I keep thinking my ideal relationship is with a guy older, like an older brother. Like seriously older. But I keep getting attracted to boys a few years younger than me???? Omg OH why??? What about fellow OH females? Do you get attracted to younger boys too? Edit: omg the title should be ‘why do I keep getting attracted to younger boys’ instead but I’m on mobile so I’ll see if I can edit the title later Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GirlBye 27,959 Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 never i like older guys Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mochacapp 1,978 Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 My ex-boyfriend and my crushes are either same-age or 1-2 years older. Even my bias is the same age. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NINI 16,268 Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 I can't relate... I've never been really attracted to someone younger than me lol Max my same age Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
U R Messy AF 7,087 Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 I don't really think too much about age as long as I like the person, they're not jailbait, and the age gap isn't a massive one. Liking someone younger's not the end of the world. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Full Sun 4,656 Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 I liked people younger than me (three years younger, lol), but it had nothing to do with age, it was a personality thing. I usually get a bit turned off when i find out they are younger, but it goes away quickly. As long as it's legal, it should be fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IceSmile 895 Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 I have a younger brother so I can't see the appeal. Not counting male idols, is it your parental instincts? What makes you attracted? Their age? Their 'less-mature' vibe? I'm the opposite because I'm always attracted to guys at the most 5 years older ;-; Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Willow 1,638 Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 this is an actual problem i am struggling with. i like younger boys but it's not acceptable for me because even 2yrs back they are in high school. it's not that they are high schoolers but that boys around that age are just attractive to me. i don't want any sexual advances and it's not like i'm interested in 15yr olds, just (very) late teens. still i'm trying to find ways to mature myself just to be on the safe side and not end up like those creepy female HS teachers. not their being teachers especially, just that they are usually 20 something women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cupcake. 1,356 Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 I can't relate because i'am always attracted with older boys, sorry. I think it's maybe because younger boys fits your ideal type more than older boys, without you noticing? And tbh i think age doesn't matter, there's many older boys that always being childish and many younger boys who behave more mature than their age. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CupcakeThoughts 108 Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 Can't relate. Boys younger than me or even those around my age remind me that I have a younger brother and an older brother who acts like he's younger than me. So I usually get attracted to older guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pinkinks 2,158 Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 A few years younger really isn't that big of a deal. I'm 17 and think the main thing that turns me off from guys younger than me is that they're immature since guys mature really slowly. Though, I always felt like I'd be a cougar when I'm in my 30's. Anyway, I read somewhere that relationships often work better when the woman is older than the man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pleasure 2,956 Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 nope Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrs.otter 8,299 Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 Same lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arineunha 352 Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 cant relate xD but there are mature guys who are younger..than guys my age Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 I don't really think too much about age as long as I like the person, they're not jailbait, and the age gap isn't a massive one. Liking someone younger's not the end of the world. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monday 5 Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 Godd I feel u gurl. I find that younger guys have a somewhat 'cuter' appeal to me? It could be maternal instincts coming in the way but i find their energy really appealing. Hahahaha never fails to put a smile on my face Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChungJoJo 31 Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 Because younger guys are more likely to be a blank slate, so that you can shape them into your ideal man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vocabulary 890 Posted December 9, 2017 Author Share Posted December 9, 2017 Godd I feel u gurl. I find that younger guys have a somewhat 'cuter' appeal to me? It could be maternal instincts coming in the way but i find their energy really appealing. Hahahaha never fails to put a smile on my face Oh god that is exactly how I feel sis. Their energy OTL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
idylluv 12 Posted December 9, 2017 Share Posted December 9, 2017 eh i mean i like older guys but sometimes if the guy is older then i dont really mind its kindof cute lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 As most of you girls are young I think is normal for you to like older boys but after certain age some girls don't care about that anymore lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelloEarth 37 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 Dont do it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bom 2,161 Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 Never been attracted to someone younger until recently.. I'm 23 and he's 18. He's my best friend's brother, he's so good looking honestly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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