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#1 vocabulary

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Posted 07 December 2017 - 03:14 AM (Edited by Goddess of Eggs, 07 December 2017 - 03:15 AM.)

I keep thinking my ideal relationship is with a guy older, like an older brother. Like seriously older.

But I keep getting attracted to boys a few years younger than me????

Omg OH why??? What about fellow OH females? Do you get attracted to younger boys too?

Edit: omg the title should be ‘why do I keep getting attracted to younger boys’ instead but I’m on mobile so I’ll see if I can edit the title later


#2 GirlBye

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Posted 07 December 2017 - 03:14 AM

never

 

i like older guys




#3 mochacapp

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Posted 07 December 2017 - 03:16 AM

My ex-boyfriend and my crushes are either same-age or 1-2 years older.

Even my bias is the same age.




#4 NІNІ

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Posted 07 December 2017 - 03:19 AM

I can't relate... I've never been really attracted to someone younger than me lol
Max my same age


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Posted 07 December 2017 - 03:22 AM (Edited by U R Messy AF, 07 December 2017 - 03:26 AM.)

I don't really think too much about age as long as I like the person, they're not jailbait, and the age gap isn't a massive one. Liking someone younger's not the end of the world.




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Posted 07 December 2017 - 03:27 AM

I liked people younger than me (three years younger, lol), but it had nothing to do with age, it was a personality thing. I usually get a bit turned off when i find out they are younger, but it goes away quickly. As long as it's legal, it should be fine. 




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Posted 07 December 2017 - 03:30 AM

I have a younger brother so I can't see the appeal. Not counting male idols, is it your parental instincts? What makes you attracted? Their age? Their 'less-mature' vibe?

 

I'm the opposite because I'm always attracted to guys at the most 5 years older ;-;




#8 Green Willow

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Posted 07 December 2017 - 03:34 AM

this is an actual problem i am struggling with. i like younger boys but it's not acceptable for me because even 2yrs back they are in high school. it's not that they are high schoolers but that boys around that age are just attractive to me. i don't want any sexual advances and it's not like i'm interested in 15yr olds, just (very) late teens. still i'm trying to find ways to mature myself just to be on the safe side and not end up like those creepy female HS teachers. not their being teachers especially, just that they are usually 20 something women.


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Posted 07 December 2017 - 03:40 AM

I can't relate because i'am always attracted with older boys, sorry.

I think it's maybe because younger boys fits your ideal type more than older boys, without you noticing?
And tbh i think age doesn't matter, there's many older boys that always being childish and many younger boys who behave more mature than their age.


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Posted 07 December 2017 - 03:42 AM

Can't relate. Boys younger than me or even those around my age remind me that I have a younger brother and an older brother who acts like he's younger than me. So I usually get attracted to older guys.




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Posted 07 December 2017 - 03:45 AM

A few years younger really isn't that big of a deal. I'm 17 and think the main thing that turns me off from guys younger than me is that they're immature since guys mature really slowly. Though, I always felt like I'd be a cougar when I'm in my 30's. Anyway, I read somewhere that relationships often work better when the woman is older than the man.




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Posted 07 December 2017 - 03:54 AM

nope




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Posted 07 December 2017 - 04:03 AM

Same lmao


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Posted 07 December 2017 - 04:16 PM

cant relate xD but there are mature guys who are younger..than guys my age




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Posted 07 December 2017 - 11:45 PM

I don't really think too much about age as long as I like the person, they're not jailbait, and the age gap isn't a massive one. Liking someone younger's not the end of the world.




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Posted 08 December 2017 - 10:21 AM

Godd I feel u gurl. I find that younger guys have a somewhat 'cuter' appeal to me? It could be maternal instincts coming in the way but i find their energy really appealing. Hahahaha never fails to put a smile on my face rlytearpls.png




#17 Punished_Venom_Dokkaebi

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Posted 08 December 2017 - 02:14 PM

Because younger guys are more likely to be a blank slate, so that you can shape them into your ideal man.




#18 vocabulary

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Posted 09 December 2017 - 07:33 AM

Godd I feel u gurl. I find that younger guys have a somewhat 'cuter' appeal to me? It could be maternal instincts coming in the way but i find their energy really appealing. Hahahaha never fails to put a smile on my face https://onehallyu.com//public/style_emot...


Oh god that is exactly how I feel sis. Their energy OTL


#19 rosyuuri

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Posted 09 December 2017 - 04:00 PM

eh i mean i like older guys but sometimes if the guy is older then i dont really mind its kindof cute lol 




#20 Suzy Quatro

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Posted 10 December 2017 - 03:01 AM

As most of you girls are young I think is normal for you to like older boys but after certain age some girls don't care about that anymore lol.







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