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My flatmate is sexually harrassing me


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She told me 3 weeks ago she is now into a girl phase.

 

Ever since then she has made tons of sexual jokes about my tits, ass, sexual life, etc. She keeps on touching/poking me, feeling my pipes (!!?!?) while I repeatedly tell her not to, prying into my love life, questionning my sexuality saying I cannot be 100% heterosexual unless I try it out, list goes on and on and on. She just does NOT understand that no means no and stop means stop.

 

Three years ago she felt me up under my shirt while I was sleeping and traced my bra straps (on my bday party). My bff told me she's had a HUGE crush on me for the PAST FOUR YEARS and that her ex bf broke up with her cuz she was in love with me.

 

Yesterday I was on the phone with a friend. She came to sit next to me on the couch and turned on the tv to put on the yuletide christmas log channel. Then, she stayed there staring at me and pretending to sleep to "spend time with me" while I was working on my laptop. After 40 minutes I switched the channel to Netflix and put on a Friends episode super loud so she'd stop pretending to sleep to just stay there, but she smiled and kept on faking. I got up and left for my room and she coincidentally "woke up" and called for me. I ignored her.

 

Tonight she texted me saying she was at this cafe cuz she expected to find me there, so to not look for her in the flat (I wouldn't even look for her anyway)

 

I went back to my parents' place tonight and am looking into moving out because this is really taking a toll on my mental health.

 

If it keeps up after I move out I might put a restraining order on her ass tbh I am so done with her crazy shit.

 

/rant

 

Anyways how are y'all darlings doing tonight?

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you should talk to someone about it! that's fucking insane

I told my close friends (same circle of friends as hers) and my parents. My parents want me to stay there because I'll have to pay rent til July. I flat out told them no. Thinking about calling my landlord.

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I told my close friends (same circle of friends as hers) and my parents. My parents want me to stay there because I'll have to pay rent til July. I flat out told them no. Thinking about calling my landlord.

what if you explicitly tell her to back off? like legit talk to her and tell her its not cool

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what if you explicitly tell her to back off? like legit talk to her and tell her its not cool

I've done that about 40-50 times already. When she kept touching and poking me to get a reaction out of me last week I armlocked her and pushed her on the ground just so I could leave

 

I sent her a message telling her I left because of her behavior and that it's unacceptable, I'm looking for a new place and don't plan on discussing my opinion about her attitude with her ever again.

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I've done that about 40-50 times already. When she kept touching and poking me to get a reaction out of me last week I armlocked her and pushed her on the ground just so I could leave

 

I sent her a message tellingnher I left because of her behavior and that it's unacceptable, I'm looking for a new place and don't plan in discussing my opinion about her attitude with her ever again.

 

It sucks that you're being forced to move out, but I guess its for the bets. hope you find another good flat, though

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I am tbh

 

All my friends are all going WTF because we never thought she was such a psycho

 

Wondering when my shit karma will end

Do you live with the friends that think she's a psycho? Maybe you guys can all try to get her to move out if she doesn't straighten up

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