YNRA 1,082 Posted November 27, 2017 Share Posted November 27, 2017 i have been away from my college for over a week but i have to go back tmmrw. also last time i went back only for 3 days so it was i just went to class then came back to my hometown so its like ive been away from my college social life for 3 weeks and im SO much happier without it like i feel really great being in my house away from college people and "friends" but i have to go back there for 3 weeks and i dont know what to do. should i just avoid literally everyone and be a hermit for 3 weeks. i just cant deal with those people anymore. i just want to go to class and be left alone. especially from my roomates, i dont even want to have to say hi when passing them on the way out the door im so sick of everyone and having to maintain a social life there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PurachinaDisuko 3,721 Posted November 27, 2017 Share Posted November 27, 2017 If you wanna be a hermit b/c it makes you happier, go for it!!!! if your "friends" start asking what's up with you, be straight with them and tell them you don't wanna bother with any for a while, how you feel happier with this new "lifestyle" or something Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiseLikeACrowTit 862 Posted November 27, 2017 Share Posted November 27, 2017 i have been away from my college for over a week but i have to go back tmmrw. also last time i went back only for 3 days so it was i just went to class then came back to my hometown so its like ive been away from my college social life for 3 weeks and im SO much happier without it like i feel really great being in my house away from college people and "friends" but i have to go back there for 3 weeks and i dont know what to do. should i just avoid literally everyone and be a hermit for 3 weeks. i just cant deal with those people anymore. i just want to go to class and be left alone. especially from my roomates, i dont even want to have to say hi when passing them on the way out the door im so sick of everyone and having to maintain a social life there. Did you talked to ur parents about the pressure you feel in college?, that ppl you share your room with and all the nasty sheet they do ?; and if you don't comeback to college what do you plan to do?, seeking a job?; is there a posibility you have a room on your own in college ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YNRA 1,082 Posted November 27, 2017 Author Share Posted November 27, 2017 Did you talked to ur parents about the pressure you feel in college?, that ppl you share your room with and all the nasty sheet they do ?; and if you don't comeback to college what do you plan to do?, seeking a job?; is there a posibility you have a room on your own in college ? my parents know cause they go in our apartment sometimes. i dont share a room but i have to share the bathroom and kitchen. i cook all my meals so i have to see them when im in the kitchen. i am coming back to college but i have a 5 week break. i am going to try and get a room change next semester! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamayam 1,081 Posted November 27, 2017 Share Posted November 27, 2017 Time to make a new identity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Umji's butt minder 796 Posted November 27, 2017 Share Posted November 27, 2017 If you aren't comfortable,you should do as you like. You are old enough to make up your own mind. No one should be able to make up your mind for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiseLikeACrowTit 862 Posted November 27, 2017 Share Posted November 27, 2017 my parents know cause they go in our apartment sometimes. i dont share a room but i have to share the bathroom and kitchen. i cook all my meals so i have to see them when im in the kitchen. i am coming back to college but i have a 5 week break. i am going to try and get a room change next semester! Do that; sometimes you have to deal with this awkward sheet in life, like actually interacting with ppl you hate to the guts ( me in highschool), but it's something you have to pass, they can't be an obstacle for the things you want in life, although if it's a situation so horrible that makes you ill, I would consider to drop out, or something Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khyler 293 Posted November 27, 2017 Share Posted November 27, 2017 should i just avoid literally everyone and be a hermit for 3 weeks. Yeah you can, just go to class, sit/eat alone and just do your things. When you go home, just stay in your room with your computer as far as it help you maintain a decent mental health for college. i dont even want to have to say hi when passing them on the way out the door im so sick of everyone and having to maintain a social life there. But you should at least say them hi when passing or if someone comes to talk to you, speak up a little bit. Of course you don't want to comeback to college after such a long break lol it's like the same thing for most people. Also you need to find better friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted November 28, 2017 Share Posted November 28, 2017 I tried being a hermit a couple years back, it gets boring after a while...make some nice friends and have fun with them. You need some activity too, just go to the gym or smth even if you don’t want friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sungjins 676 Posted November 28, 2017 Share Posted November 28, 2017 I do understand you, having an active social life isn't for everyone...it's not really for me either. I go to classes and I have friends who I hang out with when I'm there, but once the class is finished I'll usually go straight home. If you pass your roommates and really don't want to say hi, you could give them a brief smile to make things less awkward and just go about your business. Spend less time in the communal areas too but don't hide away from there completely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shooter 1,172 Posted December 1, 2017 Share Posted December 1, 2017 as cheesy as it sounds, do what makes you happy ​ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choi 211 Posted December 3, 2017 Share Posted December 3, 2017 I had some toxic college friends during my first year that I dropped, and had to unwillingly be a hermit. It gets boring and lonely after a while if you're sad. It could be okay if you have hobbies to pursue or aim for top grades Sent from my SM-G930F using OneHallyu mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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