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I have a very small penis (2.5 inches). I've been freaking out about this for years and don't know how to deal with it.

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I've noticed it since I was about 14 and I'm 19 now. It's literally just 2.5 inches, I've never heard of anyone that I know having a penis this small. It's so small that it's shocking. Even just having 4.5 inches would make me so much happier, because that's pretty small but not almost inhumanly small. I'll probably be the smallest guy that any girl that I have sex with will ever meet. I'm super worried about how a girl would react when seeing it. I'm a virgin atm and I've never had a gf. I literally feel like crying about it and I'm afraid that a girl would laugh, feel dissapointed, or even leave me because my penis is so small. Should I tell them beforehand or something? Should I just ignore the problem and pretend that I don't care about it to them? Wtf should I do?

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If anyone laughs at you, you've dodged a bullet. There's a lot more to sex than just piv, best part is to explore each others bodies and find what works for you. Also I think you would see someone, so that you can build your confidence and there are a lot more people like you, just look up for accounts online.

If anyone laughs at you, you've dodged a bullet. There's a lot more to sex than just piv, best part is to explore each others bodies and find what works for you. Also I think you would see someone, so that you can build your confidence and there are a lot more people like you, just look up for accounts online.

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as japan's saying goes....small is just :dave:

 

 

but man i feel bad for ya but i don't understand the desire of having a big penis. it's not because i'm a girl because i don't understand the desire to have big boobs either.

 

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You'll be OK. It won't matter if you find a girl that you can connect with at an emotional level and it also won't be that big of an issue when you can make up for it in other ways (foreplay, toys, etc.). If she leaves you or laughs at you just for having a small dong then you've dodged a bullet so yay koreanpop

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your title :skull:


 


but i'll be serious. penis size is something a lot of men worry about, mostly because we live in a culture where penis size is a testament of masculinity and sexual prowess. it sounds like you have a micro which, honestly, isn't something to be ashamed of. you are more than your penis and your sexual worth and ability is more than that too.


 


first off, be upfront. don't pretend to have a big dick especially because you don't. secondly be ready for rejection. unfortunately, a lot of people have this idea that having a smaller penis makes you less desirable and capable. thirdly, when you don't experience rejection, be open. due to your small penis size, you probably don't want to rely only on PIV. your partner might be up for it, and when she is, have fun, but know there are so many different types of sex. learn to use your hands and mouth. give sexual massages. use toys. have fun and explore kinks and foreplay. lastly, and this is advice for now, i've read lots of stories about women and their sexual experiences. there are lots of times when women admit the best sex they've ever had is with guys who've had average sized penises, some even admit to having enjoyable sex with under-average guys. i suggest you read up on those positive stories to understand what made those sexual experiences so positive for those women, and build your confidence that way.


 


rather than change yourself, work with what you got. respect yourself, respect your partner, and have fun.


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You will face challenges, and people will be judgemental about it. No way to sugar coat that OP, people can be awful. Anyone who would ever make fun of you for it isn’t a person worth being around.

 

Sexual compatibility is important but there ARE people who don’t have requirements for their partners size. And 2.5 inches is capable of penetrative sex. Many men go on to have fulfilling sex lives who face even larger (honestly, no pun intended) challenges than you do. They even have children who are conceived naturally.

 

Even if you do have a partner that craves penetrative sex and needs more in the size department, there are toys like penis extenders or even strap one that could fulfil needs, if needed. But the vagina isn’t that deep so you might be surprised me with the amount of pleasure a small penis can provide a woman. Not all women are stimulated the same and you might not even need to resort to toys or surgery. The biggest obstacle would be positions imo.

 

Some women or men don’t even care that much about penetrative sex and prefer oral. I know that oral is personally a favorite of mine, I like penetrative sex for the intimacy and sometimes that alone can lead to orgasms for me (sex is not only physical after all!) but from a pure physical pleasure standpoint, oral is where it is at.

 

I don’t want to say sorry for you OP because I don’t think this is something you should be ashamed of. It is what it is.

 

If it’s encouraging to you OP, I prefer small dicks. I don’t like by cervix being hit and most of the pleasure I get from penetration is near the opening for me (tbh I prefer that stimulation over the gspot which still isn’t very deep!) oral is more fun if I am not gagging too :)

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