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Why am I pretty much only physically attracted to Asian girls? Is anyone else here like me?

Asukii8

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I'm an 18 year old white guy, and ever since I was 5 or 6 years old 90% of the girls that I've been attracted to have been Asian girls. I remember that my first crush was an Asian girl (when I was like 5 or 6) and all of my crushes in childhood were Asian except for 1 white girl. In high school, all of the girls that I was physically attracted to were Asian girls except for one girl. I was never interested in the popular "hot" white girls that most of the guys liked. When I'm looking for pics of hot girls on the internet, I always tend to look for Asian girls.

 

Why am I like this? I feel scared to admit it to some people because there's a stigma against guys who are into Asian girls, and I'm even expecting some backlash from this post. People say that that white guys like them because they're perceived as "submissive". This is not true, as I have liked Asian girls well before I could even comprehend this stereotype. I'm also a submissive guy and I prefer dominant girls anyways. I also just don't believe the stereotype to begin with.

 

Are any of you guys on here like this? Is there a particular race that you've always had a preference for when it comes to physical attractiveness?

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Don't be afraid to like what you like..I'm female.

 

I like Black guys/Middle Eastern/Asian guys the best...well I'm black myself but I'm not ashamed of who I like, and you shouldn't be as well. 

I'm not ashamed, just afraid that some people will call me racist or something (when I'm not).

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You're not the only one. I grew up around White/Black/Indian/Arab people, but I'm Asian and since i grew up around them I never got interested in those girls, the magic rubbed off so one day i suddenly liked Korean girls, like out of the blue, and now i have a preference for Korean, Chinese girls the most.

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If you're around many asian girls then I think it would be normal, like in my case it was quite the opposite as there were a lot of blondes in my school but ultimately I just like pretty girls lol.

I live in a town with a very high Asian population haha

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tbh you can't help who you are attracted to. I'm pretty much attracted to anyone who is my style and grew up liking latino, black and south/east asian boys, and my current boyfriend is korean lol. people wouldn't say you have a fetish if you dated all white girls (who were of different nationalities for example), so don't care what others think 

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I'm also only attractive to asian guys or foreigners from countries like Pakistan etc.. And I'm not ashamed or something. But I think people are gonna think that my relationship/love is fake, because of kpop. They'll be like "Oh, that's probably because you like kpop and stuff that you only want an Asian" 

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Was also into Asian guys, but then I've noticed that there's no basis for me to be so exclusive 'ONLY EAST ASIAN' I became weird at some point while I thought they're the most attractive...completely untrue since any guy from any race can pull wonderful looks. And character should matter, that's my conclusion after having crushing on Asians (btw I still prefer them)

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As an Asian girl I feel as if some guys have taken interest in me for the sole reason of me being Asian. I'm put-off by that as I feel fetishized and not appreciated as a person, but just an "Asian." Whenever a guy has shown interest in me I always question if he likes me for who I am or if he has a fetish. It's tricky.

However, my boyfriend is white and I've almost always been attracted to white boys in my life, growing up in a white neighbourhood. You can't change who you like. It's fine as long as it's your preference, and you're not yelling "I love Asians!!!" out loud (that has happened)

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