Thatoneuser 3,235 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 I think if you are really over that person you should let your friend do what they want. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YNRA 1,082 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 i guess if its someone you didnt really care for much like if you dated for a week but if its someone you were with seriously then no Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JihyoStoleMyHeartAYAYAY 22,189 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 If he/she wants. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PanWink Is Real 13,912 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 what kind of question is this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thatoneuser 3,235 Posted November 14, 2017 Author Share Posted November 14, 2017 what kind of question is this? An invasive one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thatoneuser 3,235 Posted November 14, 2017 Author Share Posted November 14, 2017 i guess if its someone you didnt really care for much like if you dated for a week but if its someone you were with seriously then no I agree with this to a point. But because you are no longer with that person you do not have control over their romantic life and in the end if they want to be with someone you shouldn't stand in their way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
denizen mars 5,911 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 my only ex is an abusive loser so I'd emphatically warn them away from him otherwise... I think attempting to get over any lingering jealousy and be a better person is important Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PanWink Is Real 13,912 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 An invasive one I think I would let them date if that makes my friend happy but I would be hurt tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oshititsnotme 145 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 well in my country there goes one group of girl gang have the same ex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YNRA 1,082 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 I agree with this to a point. But because you are no longer with that person you do not have control over their romantic life and in the end if they want to be with someone you shouldn't stand in their way. no you shouldnt but also i would drop that friend because i couldnt be friends with someone dating an ex i was seriously in love with Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zaiku 883 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 I don't want to be in the way of two people finding happiness with each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amber is a llama 316 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 Depends. I wouldn't care about the ex but I would care about the friend.So it will mainly depend of the reason that me and my ex broke up... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thatoneuser 3,235 Posted November 14, 2017 Author Share Posted November 14, 2017 no you shouldnt but also i would drop that friend because i couldnt be friends with someone dating an ex i was seriously in love with I think I probably would do the same tbh. Although I would allow them, I know a little part of me would be hurt and look at that friend differently. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pineapple 7,592 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 If they really dislike themselves enough to want to experience dating some of the messes that are my exes now, then all the power to them. I'd feel bad for them though tbh. If it was actually a seriously still liked ex I would hope that it would end in a stalemate of the friend not wanting to do that to me, and me being at peace with them pursuing something that makes them happy. They're an ex for a reason after all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue_Knight 1,542 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 I'm fine with my friend dating my ex, but I would never date my friend's ex. Imagine how awkward it'd be when the three of you are in the same room. *insert owl sound.mp3* Edit: But if my ex cheated on me with that friend, then we're not friends. I'd happily drop a snake. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluebells and Snowdrops 3,566 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 If I am over him, she can do whatever she wants. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mccuish 1,935 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 I'm fine with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ncting 1,061 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 if they were snakes, i wouldn't let them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eternal glow 6,196 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 Idk how I could possibly have a say in who other people date so yeah, I would. BUT, I think if they were a good friend, they would at least go about it in a way that doesn't hurt you (eg: when you're totally over that person or whatever). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sly fox 2,041 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 Why do I have a say in who my friend dates? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elscian 5,139 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 Why do I have a say in who my friend dates? [2] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ideonsshi 936 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 depends. if my ex was shitty i would tell her to be careful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Franny 11,098 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 yes. like I care lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
in good taste 213 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 :( I'd say yes on the outside but I'd be reall hurt by it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Willow 1,638 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 love is like hate - it makes you blind. they're on two sides of the same coin. if she/he dropped the ex for good reasons and vice versa ofc i would tell her/him no but i would know she wouldn't listen. i would only tell her/him so she/he can't go wailing to me about how no-one has warned her/him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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