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[Completed tvN Drama] 'My Mister' - Lee Sun Kyun, IU, Lee Ji Ah, Park Ho San, Song Jae Byuk, Jang Ki Yong, Kwon Nara


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Jian and grandma's special moments together makes me cry so bad... ;~; With all the developments in the recent eps, I'm kinda scared about what will happen to Jian once everything that she's done so far gets exposed. I just want her to be happy please!!! sidenote: Kibeom's short appearance in tonight's ep makes me miss the spy combo a lot ;____;

 

also, iM SO EXCITED FOR NEXT WEEK'S EPISODES!!!

 

our jian is going to get introduced to the neighborhood drinking family + it looks like junghee is gonna be kind to her! she's finally going to get an unnie in her life y'all!!! ;~;

 

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omggg that OST, it wasn't lee sung kyun looool it was some guy call ko woo rim (he looks so young!! and seems classically trained) 

 

 

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Jian and grandma's special moments together makes me cry so bad... ;~; With all the developments in the recent eps, I'm kinda scared about what will happen to Jian once everything that she's done so far gets exposed. I just want her to be happy please!!! sidenote: Kibeom's short appearance in tonight's ep makes me miss the spy combo a lot ;____;

 

also, iM SO EXCITED FOR NEXT WEEK'S EPISODES!!!

 

our jian is going to get introduced to the neighborhood drinking family + it looks like junghee is gonna be kind to her! she's finally going to get an unnie in her life y'all!!! ;~;

 

 

 

so I just watched the ep raw and maaate .. the scenes with grandma ripped me apart. she needs to be nominated or something cos she's a standout actor in this drama. the scene where she places her forehead on dong hoon's hand honestly broke me. and when she holds jian before she leaves, i mean, so much is said in their silent moments .. i feel like all her wanting jian to move on from her turbulent past and her gratefulness towards her and sorrow at how life turned out and her love for her are all conveyed through the smallest of gestures ..

 

the final scene was too much. i know she had a plan in mind i know she knew how dong hoon would react if she pushed him hard enough .. she was banking on it for the person tailing to get the shot .. staying down longer than needed to make sure he would get a photo ..  but it was sad to see how he did what she expected .. that he did hit her down.. she confessed part in truth and part for her elaborate plan but boy it killed me man it really did

 

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Jian has been through so much and is so jaded, but there's this innocence/pureness about her these days? (of course only when she's alone/with Donghoon). It's like she was forced to mature too fast that her childhood innocence just got pushed down deep, deep inside. It was only when she started having someone whom she seemingly can count on that that childlike vibe slowly emerged. Her eyes are so expressive. Idk, I just find IU's acting so, so nuanced. After this if someone ever dares to say Jieun can't act I'm gonna keel

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The latest episode is just so good. Especially every scenes with the grandma, so touching. She really deserves an award.

 

Btw Donghoon really considers divorcing with his wife, since it seems he just can't accept her anymore. And I think both mains do have feelings for each other, so I really want them to end up together. But I guess Korea don't like that.

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I just watched the last 4 episodes in one go and tears were shed...

 

The end of episode 10... warstarplz.png

 

... and the middle of episode 10 and the beginning. And episode 9... and 8 and 7.

 

 

And now I'm listening to the OST non stop because I'm a masochist.

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hmmm I don't necessarily agree ... In this instance yes because it's a bit tragic to go after a married man but if we're talking Jian being in a relationship generally, right now at this point in her life, I don't think it would matter that she wasn't "healed".

 

I never really questioned it before when people said you need to love yourself before you enter a relationship I just agreed with it in thinking yes that sounds right but in actuality it really doesn't. Messed up people get into relationships all the time and yes sometimes that causes a deterioration in them because you're dealing with demons but most the time I feel love and relationships with another human can only be a good thing. There's nothing wrong in allowing someone's love to help you heal too - doing it alone - when you've been alone for so long isn't always the answer.

 

This was more generally as a real life scenario not me asking for a love line ahah

 

anyway, do you guys agree with the tweet? let's debate.

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hmmm I don't necessarily agree ... In this instance yes because it's a bit tragic to go after a married man but if we're talking Jian being in a relationship generally, right now at this point in her life, I don't think it would matter that she wasn't "healed".

 

I never really questioned it before when people said you need to love yourself before you enter a relationship I just agreed with it in thinking yes that sounds right but in actuality it really doesn't. Messed up people get into relationships all the time and yes sometimes that causes a deterioration in them because you're dealing with demons but most the time I feel love and relationships with another human can only be a good thing. There's nothing wrong in allowing someone's love to help you heal too - doing it alone - when you've been alone for so long isn't always the answer.

 

This was more generally as a real life scenario not me asking for a love line ahah

 

anyway, do you guys agree with the tweet? let's debate.

OH is a thing of the past. 

 

Discord is where the party is at. 

 

 

hw to be nice, I'll debate. 

 

if it's a real life scenario, I don't agree with that tweet.

 

A healthy relationship can help someone come to their own too as It may allow them to start loving themselves and give the emotional support needed for the transformation. 

 

for some, if they are going to wait for that moment when they feel fully confident in their own skin, well, they might have to wait a loooooooong time because that moment may never come.

 

Doubts and insecurities are part of everyone's character. Some just knows how to live with their demons better than others, and a (healthy) romantic support may be just the thing someone needs in order to get that boost of confidence, even if temporarily. 

 

It's good to be fully independent, but life is easier when you share your load. 

 

if you don't believe the psychology behind love, you better believe the science. There are physiological changes when you fall in love which makes you a happier person ( for that period in time) 

 

 

Now, for JiAn, i don't think she even knows what she's feeling at the moment.

IMO, DH's a moral platform that can show her the right from wrong, like a mentor, but like a lover............... that would ruin everything he stands for as a character. 

They do have great chemistry , it's just that imo if DH does establish a romantic rs with Jian, that will make him just as bad as his wife (so it's ok for him to cheat but not ok for the wife?? ) . Their relationship has been stale for long but they are still married and the 'd' word has not come up in a discussion yet, so while he's still righteous, he's not going to allow himself to see JiAn as a woman.  

 

 

IMO JiAn needs family support, one that can teach her how to be an adult and I see DH as being that. ofc there's love there, it just may not be romantic. And I don't see it being that way either. 

So, the best thing for her is to be 'familyzoned'. 

 

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^^^^

going to reply to above properly when i'm home but dont say that about OH. I love this place I swear if you all leave for discord i'll be so sad and alone here ... talking to myself ...

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going to reply to above properly when i'm home but dont say that about OH. I love this place I swear if you all leave for discord i'll be so sad and alone here ... talking to myself ...

...... or... you can join me on discord? .. 

 

I'll be wherever you'll be. Because ...

 

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I can't seem to quote so I'm going old school with copy paste pfft

 

"A healthy relationship can help someone come to their own too as It may allow them to start loving themselves and give the emotional support needed for the transformation. 

 

for some, if they are going to wait for that moment when they feel fully confident in their own skin, well, they might have to wait a loooooooong time because that moment may never come.

 

Doubts and insecurities are part of everyone's character. Some just knows how to live with their demons better than others, and a (healthy) romantic support may be just the thing someone needs in order to get that boost of confidence, even if temporarily."

 

exactly this! it's strange how the internet morphs into one way of thinking sometimes and it becomes a mantra for all of tumblr / twitter. all I see is "learn to love yourself before anyone else" and yes, I understand the thought behind it but when you really think about it, as inarticulate as this is, its kinda silly and very reductive of human relationships in general. idk i think the entire internet is really peeing me off lately with its homogeneous thought and ostracising for mistakes (not this particular tweet)

 

"Now, for Ji An, i don't think she even knows what she's feeling at the moment.

IMO, DH's a moral platform that can show her the right from wrong, like a mentor, but like a lover............... that would ruin everything he stands for as a character. 

They do have great chemistry , it's just that imo if DH does establish a romantic rs with Jian, that will make him just as bad as his wife."

 

veeeeery true very true. if he was to entangle himself romantically with her, it would undoubtedly undermine everything she's "fallen" for. and on the point of you mentioning how jian probably doesnt even know what shes feeling - I'm inclined to agree. never has she come across someone who's fought so hard for her it would be strange for her not to fall for her "Mark Darcy" as Jung Hee described him .. I think part of her has fallen for him, but in a world where kindness hasn't been a tangible force, what else is there to expect? I would assume she will always have a soft spot for him but will soon be able to discern what she's feeling exactly once she meets his family and friends who will show her the same kindness he has

 

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And Blue <3 I would follow you and your crazy ass to the depths of the internet so I will be discording at some point ... chuplz.png

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so I've spoken about this OST and this scene endlessly, endlessly, endlessly. It stands as my favourite, i think? There are so many things I loved about it all which I've mentioned but DO YOU KNOW WHEN SOMEONE ELSE FEELS THE SAME AND YOU JUST WANT TO LOVE THEM FOR IT. 

 

Anyway, here is Bah-Doo talking about the same thing:

 

https://www.bah-doo.com/an-episode-8-moment-my-ajusshi-my-mister-ost-part-5/

 

I'll post my fave parts and I've linked the article if you want to read it above

 

"It is an important part of the drama and was conceptualized from the beginning of the script because it depicts sad love and feelings of being lost. Almost the entire song was played in the 8th episode which is the part that we have been playing on repeat by literally rewinding that part of the episode to listen to again. Yes, we are like that."

 

yep. same. even youtube.repeat.com came out. 

 

" Cut to Dong-hoon walking alone on the street, but he can’t continue himself and rests on his legs as if the weight of everything is on him at that moment. Ji-ahn watches the phone, a wave of concern across her face as she hears him somewhat sobbing. But then she also hears Dong-hoon compose himself enough to say, “fighting,†which are the same words Ji-ahn told him earlier. The song ends with Dong-hoon straightening himself up and continuing down the street.

 

Ah, I just loved that scene so much! It was a moment where O and I just looked at each other like, what in the world did we just watch? How did this scene manage to be so bare and yet so full of so many things? It just hit that chord. The last scene that I loved this much was in Oh Hae-young Again when she jumped into the air awaiting to be caught. I loved that scene so, so much, too and guess what…it’s from the exact same writer as My Ajusshi. I mean, what?!? Shall I just bind myself to her for all of eternity?"

 

!!!this was really it. nothing spectacular or magical or dramatic happens but you are moved as if it did. it's the OST i've instantly chosen as my most cherished cos the emotion just washed over me.

 

The Lyrics:

 

When I first came from the star far far away to this world
I heard a little voice telling me to give love and come back
Blossom one million flowers that only blossoms when I am in love
The roses of love which blossoms only when you are in true love
Without without without hating
When I give give without conditions
One million one million one million flowers blossom
Then I can go back to my beautiful star which I miss
Without without without hating
Just give give without conditions
One million one million one million flowers blossom
Then I can go back to my beautiful star which I miss

 

What is real love, I had painful tears.

It was such a painful world where I passed by many lovers
Many years passed I finally found a love that I can give my entire life to
A love that suddenly appeared like rain
Without without without hating
When I give give without conditions
One million one million one million flowers blossom
Then I can go back to my beautiful star which I miss
Without without without hating
Just give give without conditions
One million one million one million flowers blossom
Then I can go back to my beautiful star which I miss

 

Now, even if everyone leaves, my love will still continue

This is the relationship from the star that I was waiting for so long
With you, we can blossom more and more flowers
We become one and can go back to that eternal star
Without without without hating
When I give give without conditions
One million one million one million flowers blossom
Then I can go back to my beautiful star which I miss
Without without without hating
When I give give without conditions
One million one million one million flowers blossom
Then I can go back to my beautiful star which I miss

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"Dong hoon looking for Kwang-il echoes the scene when he showed up with a fruit basket at his brother’s bully. He can’t stand for anyone bullying his family and by now Ji-an’s practically family in his eyes.

Throughout the show we see that Dong hoon takes whatever thats thrown at him, until someone crosses the line and touch his family. I always feel a sense of triumph when he rataliates to protect people who matters to him."

 

"1)When Dong-hoon was talking to the janitor about Ji an's past, he'd mentioned that she didn't know about 'forfeiture of inheritance'. That means she wouldn't have had to pay off her mother's debt, right? Which means that her life would be drastically different, it's heartbreaking.

2) I noticed that we are gradually seeing Ji An's face more directly, and the office scenes show more color in her face. I also noticed at the beginning of this episode that the way Dong-hoon walks seems different, like he doesn't look as defeated and has better posture. I really love those extra details the director and actors make to show character development."

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