PastelPetals 726 Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 I need help umm so my one friend that knows I am gay really wants to date me and I have had to explain to him that I am just simply just not interested he just sent me this video of a person having this huge mental breakdown and he sent me a message saying "this is how I will act if you date somebody other than me" What should I do? The thing is I am super in the closet so he could out me if he wanted and he has sent me some guy having a meltdown saying that is how he will act if I don't date him and it's making me uncomfy. Help!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moon 3,717 Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 wait are you a girl or a boy? tell him you don't like the way he's behaving and if he doesn't stop you will stop being friends with him. If he threatens you show you're no afraid even tho you might be. That can make him back up. If you have anything that you can use against him, use that too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PastelPetals 726 Posted November 11, 2017 Author Share Posted November 11, 2017 wait are you a girl or a boy? tell him you don't like the way he's behaving and if he doesn't stop you will stop being friends with him. If he threatens you show you're no afraid even tho you might be. That can make him back up. If you have anything that you can use against him, use that too Girl and I will try that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pleasure 2,956 Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 u can date whoever u want tf tell him that and if he acts like that again block him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paopufruit 815 Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 wait so he knows you're gay but he's still trying to date you?? sis you need to tell him that he's making you uncomfortable Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PastelPetals 726 Posted November 11, 2017 Author Share Posted November 11, 2017 wait so he knows you're gay but he's still trying to date you?? sis you need to tell him that he's making you uncomfortable I knowww I am very shy about these things you know? I will try Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Repeat 1,397 Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 Wow this guy is not your friend! he's trying to manipulate you. Get away from him ASAP. On the plus side if he's this crazy acting then hopefully no one will believe him if he tries to revenge out you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teal 2,285 Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 why are you friends with someone who treats you this way op? its beyond not cool. you have to cut him off, you don't have to explain that you're gay to the world if you're not ready to tell anyone that yet. but you do have to stand up to him and tell him his behavior is unacceptable coming from anyone especially a friend and you will stop being his friend if he puts pressure on you like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baeks Flat Ass 1,172 Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 dont fall into his trap Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kyanite 579 Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 Cut him off. You're not obligated to date him just because he asks you to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Umji's butt minder 796 Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 He has deep issues of his own, you need to be careful, but firm. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paopufruit 815 Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 I knowww I am very shy about these things you know? I will try you got this op i believe in you!!! cut him out of your life! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheap thriâ„“â„“s 2,846 Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 that guy is not your friend, why would he make you feel guilty about not liking him back? definitely not a friend, cut him off Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loonathehoe 4,579 Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 You don't even need to be gay. If you don't like him and he doesn't understand then drop him, he's straight up being a manipulative asshole. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haus of Tzu:Lai 5,450 Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 I would reinforce the fact that you are not interested in him and not interested in dating currently. Tell him that sending those videos are totally inappropriate - it's making you uncomfortable and that it hasn't/won't change your mind about the dating situation. If he's a real friend and cares about you as he claims, he shouldn't be putting you in this position, by pressuring you and the emotional blackmail. It's just not on. Personally I would tell him that and cool off the friendship for the time being. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ember 8,327 Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 You don't even need to be gay. If you don't like him and he doesn't understand then drop him, he's straight up being a manipulative asshole. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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