Pulcat 57 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 So this thing just happened yesterday too. Same as the day where my ex messaged me and said he wanted to see me (If you don't know it look at my previous thread) So let me start.. I met this guy before and he said that he likes someone who he can talk a lot with and drink coffee with and etc. I first met him last year. At the time that we first met we actually talked about stuffs and blah blah blah. Then suddenly he touched me and etc. You know where it ends lol. So that thing just happened continuously like he would just contact me at night when he's horny but being so naive i would go and meet him and do stuffs with him and etc. Being so naive at that time. I think that were lovers.. which is not Im a person who doesn't want to be used as a Sex Tool and i want a relationship with commitment. So as time goes by i realized the shitness. I broke contact with him and moved on with my life. Then yesterday(Yes! The same day that my shit ex bf contacted me) he messaged me, so i actually became curious who the person is. So he told me who he is and i asked him "what are we before?" he answered me with "We have a brotherly relationship. Since you didn't even say anything that you want a lover" That time i got hurt and i realized that I've been used as a Sex toy. And how can a brotherly relationship have sex? That time i asked him to meet me to have a talk. But well yea we met and i can see that he became so different. He started kissing me violently and you know... so i just surrendered i just didn't say anything. The reason why i let those things happen to me is. I thought that were lovers and yea i like that guy. I don't want to be used. I want to have a relationship with commitment. I want to break free! Help! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sungel 181 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 So this thing just happened yesterday too. Same as the day where my ex messaged me and said he wanted to see me (If you don't know it look at my previous thread) So let me start.. I met this guy before and he said that he likes someone who he can talk a lot with and drink coffee with and etc. I first met him last year. At the time that we first met we actually talked about stuffs and blah blah blah. Then suddenly he touched me and etc. You know where it ends lol. So that thing just happened continuously like he would just contact me at night when he's horny but being so naive i would go and meet him and do stuffs with him and etc. Being so naive at that time. I think that were lovers.. which is not Im a person who doesn't want to be used as a Sex Tool and i want a relationship with commitment. So as time goes by i realized the shitness. I broke contact with him and moved on with my life. Then yesterday(Yes! The same day that my shit ex bf contacted me) he messaged me, so i actually became curious who the person is. So he told me who he is and i asked him "what are we before?" he answered me with "We have a brotherly relationship. Since you didn't even say anything that you want a lover" That time i got hurt and i realized that I've been used as a Sex toy. And how can a brotherly relationship have sex? That time i asked him to meet me to have a talk. But well yea we met and i can see that he became so different. He started kissing me violently and you know... so i just surrendered i just didn't say anything. The reason why i let those things happen to me is. I thought that were lovers and yea i like that guy. I don't want to be used. I want to have a relationship with commitment. I want to break free! Help! Honestly you need to stand up for yourself you shouldn't let yourself get used like that it's not right it's bad for your self esteem. Break all contact with him and start fresh and new, there's someone out there for you who will love you and treat you right, I promise!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dream Boy 3,048 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 Should've been classier sis. Sex only after 3 months of dating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Symphonyâ„¢ 11,329 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 How was you being use as a sex toy? He never said you two were dating. He didn't use you because you both were horny so you use each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pulcat 57 Posted April 6, 2014 Author Share Posted April 6, 2014 How was you being use as a sex toy? He never said you two were dating. He didn't use you because you both were horny so you use each other. I told him before that i want a relationship. So i thought when i told him that. Were already in one... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanityless 327 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 Girl, next time push him away and leave. I've never dealt with sober guys wanting to take advantage before. But at parties drunk guys usually see me as a target and want to kiss me, so I only poke their foreheads slightly hard and they fall flat on the ground. What I'm trying to say is that you need to push him away... in whatever way you need to do it, even if it means a Hyoyeon styled punch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Symphonyâ„¢ 11,329 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 I told him before that i want a relationship. So i thought when i told him that. Were already in one... If he didn't say you were than you wasn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 Well he didn't dtr and all you were doing was having sex.......that was obvious you weren't in a relationship boo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pulcat 57 Posted April 6, 2014 Author Share Posted April 6, 2014 So you were banging a guy that wasn't single. You deserve all the heartache and pain then..Hes single... Before even at this time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Symphonyâ„¢ 11,329 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 Hes single... Before even at this time. I know i reread it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rouga 414 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 just say you have AIDS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pulcat 57 Posted April 6, 2014 Author Share Posted April 6, 2014 I know i reread it.Geez Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bang 5,318 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 AVOID CONTACT WITH HIM! if he keeps coming at you, the next contact there should be between you two is a BRICK UP HIS HEAD! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinypuffling 943 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 Stay away from him. Also guard your body better. No one should be touching you if you don't want it. If you do get some action, it should be something/someone you don't regret Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TaeyeonHK 4,444 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 Girl, next time push him away and leave. I've never dealt with sober guys wanting to take advantage before. But at parties drunk guys usually see me as a target and want to kiss me, so I only poke their foreheads slightly hard and they fall flat on the ground. What I'm trying to say is that you need to push him away... in whatever way you need to do it, even if it means a Hyoyeon styled punch. Just don't let him report you lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ezgiT 3,098 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 Girl, next time push him away and leave. I've never dealt with sober guys wanting to take advantage before. But at parties drunk guys usually see me as a target and want to kiss me, so I only poke their foreheads slightly hard and they fall flat on the ground. What I'm trying to say is that you need to push him away... in whatever way you need to do it, even if it means a Hyoyeon styled punch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thigh-high feminist 15,771 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 Now you truly know that he only wants you for sex so there is no reason to visit him unless you want to be used. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shavon Jovi 219 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 are you a boy or girl? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
awolfska 950 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 you can totally stop this by moving on. i understand you like him, but if he doesn't seem to like you enough to commit, then there's no use wasting your youth on him. if he really cares for you, he'll come around. however, at this point in time, it's wiser to cut your loses and move on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pulcat 57 Posted April 6, 2014 Author Share Posted April 6, 2014 are you a boy or girl?im a guy âœŒï¸ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unicornwifeylay 52 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 You should learn to say NOOO! Its clear that he wants someone to smash don't give him that opportunity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shavon Jovi 219 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 im a guy âœŒï¸ then say Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
í† ë�¼ 534 Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 Should've been classier sis. Sex only after 3 months of dating. I didn't even wait one night. It really depends on the people involved. A year later and I got 2 diamond rings and a car. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GUILD 3,195 Posted April 7, 2014 Share Posted April 7, 2014 AVOID CONTACT WITH HIM! if he keeps coming at you, the next contact there should be between you two is a BRICK UP HIS HEAD! That's a great way to get sent to jail. I didn't even wait one night. It really depends on the people involved. A year later and I got 2 diamond rings and a car. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
í† ë�¼ 534 Posted April 7, 2014 Share Posted April 7, 2014 I laughed too hard at your response. I found my soul mate, so maybe I shouldn't talk. *zips lips* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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