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Would you be mad if your boyfriend/girlfriend added their ex on social media?


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My best friend and her boyfriend got into an argument. She added her ex on instagram and started talking to him. I saw the convo and it was casual (how are you doing..). 

 

Her boyfriend asked her to stop talking to her ex and to delete him but she said no.I tell her that her boyfriend is right and that she shouldn't be doing that even tho I know she's not up to something sneaky. 

 

Now she's upset with me for not having her back..

 

What do you guys think? 

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Both yes and no. If my boyfriend had been completely open about his past, and assured me that she was a part of his past, and not his present, I would probably allow it (but I would ask to see their convos once in a while, just to make sure).

But at the same time, I can see where your friend's boyfriend is coming from. It can be kinda weird if your SO starts talking to an ex again, especially if they broke it off on good terms.

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no. if you can't trust your partner, there's some kinks you need to work out in that relationship

he could just tell her up front that he's curious as to why she's choosing to talk to her experience specifically and outline his insecurities regarding it

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It really depends. I know some people who were friends for years and dated, but realize they're better just being friends, so someone can still be friends with their ex without having romantic feelings for them.

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I've always thought that the person doesn't really matter, it's what I'm doing with them that does. The boyfriend telling your friend to delete her ex is too much. I don't blame him from being suspicious of her--even people with good intentions can be mistaken as doing something shady--but if he saw that she's just having a casual convo with her ex, he should back off a bit. 

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no. if you can't trust your partner, there's some kinks you need to work out in that relationship

 

he could just tell her up front that he's curious as to why she's choosing to talk to her experience specifically and outline his insecurities regarding it

 

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