Lurker in the Abyss 3,269 Posted April 4, 2014 Share Posted April 4, 2014 The things is that there is something wrong with the situation of my Boyfriend and I. My boyfriend has this friend in his organization, this friend of him is about 2-3 years above his education level. And this friend of him keeps clinging on him like asking for assistance or something. Such as designing tee- shirts, making letters for organization and stuff that the person could do. This friend of him keeps clinging on him like crazy, and ask simple stuffs that they are able to do. At first it was kinda new to me but then until the time goes on it began to annoy the hell out of me. This friend of him clings on my bf like crazy to the point that this friend of him asked to stay overnight on my BF's dorm even though that the house of this friend is just near the university. My Bf declined about it. I opened it on my BF then my BF started to ignore that friend of his as it was unsettling, until then this "friend" of his began posting something on facebook wall statement about destroying relationship, third wheel or something. My BF noticed that and he asked the person to stop it but then it got worse. That friend of his began stating that he was about to have a relationship with him but I intervened. FUCK. YES GUYS, ITS A HIM. My bf and I began talking about it and we started to ignore him but that person keeps annoying US. Any advice? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriel Celeste 2,261 Posted April 4, 2014 Share Posted April 4, 2014 bitch slap him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oompa loompa 1,921 Posted April 4, 2014 Share Posted April 4, 2014 Just focus on your bf and you. Be sweet, make him jealous.. lolol. but srsly, as what above said. slap him. Let him know what's yours and only exclusive for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kokotoro 388 Posted April 4, 2014 Share Posted April 4, 2014 Block him on FB and forget about him permanently. But I suppose he could be bothering you in many different ways. Just make sure to keep evidence (like threats, if there are) in case he got batshit crazy so you can sue his ass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted April 4, 2014 Share Posted April 4, 2014 I mean just have u and ur bf ignore him. Ur bf obviously doesn't wanna be friends with the guy anymore. Just delete him from fb Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fgt 1,210 Posted April 4, 2014 Share Posted April 4, 2014 ignore, block, etc... goodness, posting things on Facebook like that... what a loser Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lurker in the Abyss 3,269 Posted April 4, 2014 Author Share Posted April 4, 2014 I mean just have u and ur bf ignore him. Ur bf obviously doesn't wanna be friends with the guy anymore. Just delete him from fb We do go to the same university though and that friend obviously finds a way to bother us, like that one time when he used an excuse that they have a organization meeting but in reality they dont. :( Block him on FB and forget about him permanently. But I suppose he could be bothering you in many different ways. Just make sure to keep evidence (like threats, if there are) in case he got batshit crazy so you can sue his ass. If I can I would sue him definitely. Even though we block him on fb we meet at the university. Just focus on your bf and you. Be sweet, make him jealous.. lolol. but srsly, as what above said. slap him. Let him know what's yours and only exclusive for you. bitch slap him Thats nice. I wanna slap him real hard though. Its kinda hard when you know that you wouldnt fight against a man. :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pulcat 57 Posted April 4, 2014 Share Posted April 4, 2014 Talk to him 1 on 1. But Prepare your self he might want to wrestle with you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted April 4, 2014 Share Posted April 4, 2014 Looks like he's jealous Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted April 4, 2014 Share Posted April 4, 2014 Block him on FB and forget about him permanently. But I suppose he could be bothering you in many different ways. Just make sure to keep evidence (like threats, if there are) in case he got batshit crazy so you can sue his ass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lurker in the Abyss 3,269 Posted April 5, 2014 Author Share Posted April 5, 2014 Block him on FB and forget about him permanently. But I suppose he could be bothering you in many different ways. Just make sure to keep evidence (like threats, if there are) in case he got batshit crazy so you can sue his ass. Looks like he's jealous Talk to him 1 on 1. But Prepare your self he might want to wrestle with you Thanks, It took me a lot of courage to talk to him and guess what he said? He said that I was getting ape shit on him getting on my BF and he said that I am a FLIRT for having my BF. WHAT KIND OF LOGIC is that? Im seriously getting frustrated. My bf said that were going to talk to him tomorrow in person. :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kokotoro 388 Posted April 5, 2014 Share Posted April 5, 2014 Thanks, It took me a lot of courage to talk to him and guess what he said? He said that I was getting ape shit on him getting on my BF and he said that I am a FLIRT for having my BF. WHAT KIND OF LOGIC is that? Im seriously getting frustrated. My bf said that were going to talk to him tomorrow in person. :( Talk to your friends, too, really. Tell them how crazy he is. Maybe he'll back down once he sees that people know. But seriously, he's nuts. Be careful, he might try something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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