Hyooga 10,307 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 I know we're all in K-Pop and we all have our faves. But I wonder if I'm the only one who would like to never meet my bias in person or be introduced to them from a personal point of view (except through concert or a fan event)? This sort of triggered me because of the sasaeng stuff recently like fans wanting to get flight info or the Kakao Talks of idols. K-Pop and stanning is a hobby of mine. I kind of like the whole ignorance is bliss concept, and just absorbing the content and entertainment, as well as the performances/music. But I realize once this "fantasy" is broken for me, I couldn't stan anymore (will still probably like their content, but not in a stan pov any longer...and lbh, being a stan is fun) I used to follow a popular youth reality show when I was in highschool (around 2005) and ended up stanning one of the contestants (and boy did I stan him hard - to the point I was part of online message boards and fan projects for him). Fast forward a couple of years later he ends up in my college statistics class. Was also friends with some of the people I knew in uni. Now that we know each other, my ass will never admit I was his diehard stan (he's still active on TV back in my home country, so there's that). I personally find fan-idol dynamics really fun, there's so much love & care on both sides but still with a mystery that keeps it exciting. I don't know. I'd honestly rather remain a fan of my faves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nsfw 5,495 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 hell nah my biases have probably done some fucked up shady shit i mean onew used to be my bias so i mean Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pufferfluffer 68 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Ayy Big Gay 8,172 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 Yes You're the only one in the whole world So lonely Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
junmyeonsnoodle 1,074 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 I would never ever ever want to meet my bias. I would melt of mortification. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pirine 4,209 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 Yeah I agree, there are some idols I would want to be friends with, but not shinee. I just really enjoy being their fan. I cant really fangirl over them if Im super close to them. Plus I have a hard time listening to people I know's music -- its cringey for me even if its good lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digiwon 5,843 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 With Monsta X - no I love them but I'm satisfied the way it is With Zitao - hell yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pinkinks 2,158 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 I would love to be friends with my bias, but I know I'll never actually be close with him irl. Maybe it's just another aspect of being a fan, to imagine how you might get along if you actually met them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loonatrash 2,441 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 I would want to be friends but just casually Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ducky2322 439 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 I low-key see some of my biases being fake af so Idk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hosh 1,349 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 i'd like to be friends with them if we were introduced outside of the idol-fan context. i'm fine with the fantasy being shattered, i can just obsess over another group lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hyooga 10,307 Posted October 20, 2017 Author Share Posted October 20, 2017 i can just obsess over another group lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hosh 1,349 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 i know it's sad but i'm a multifandom ho and i'd rather be friends with my faves than obsess over them from a fan pov...maybe not all of them, but i'd definitely want to be friends with 17 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KimiKazoo 241 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 I personally like worshiping them and see them as these special angels that can't possibly be real. If I see them as real then I would need to face the the other real things as well (ex. pick their noses, fart, scratch their butts, have bad breath, smelly feet... you get the idea) So, I would not want to be their friends. They can stay within the realms of my fantasy world. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jinsouljin 36 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 im the other percent that would love to be friends with my bias. i’m not really the ‘fangirl’ type. i’m not really concerned about their imagine outside of the tv for them. they’re human too, but if it’s something horrible i wouldn’t be friends with them. i probably wouldn’t get along with some members of my favorite groups anyways lol Sent from my iPhone using OneHallyu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daria~ 13,886 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 I low-key see some of my biases being fake af so Idk ^^^^^^^^ I’d like to meet Seulgi tho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SientjeL1 1,682 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 I would love to meet my biases, but I would always be scared that if we had the chance to become friendly, we wouldn't get along at all Sent from Dawon's bed ;^) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MatsuoBasho 674 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 I like the distance between fan and idol, I'd never thought of wanting to meet them on a personal level either! Maybe like a nice chat when you accidentally bump into them and leave feeling like your day has been fulfilled/refreshed, that would be nice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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