HoneyBee12 33 Posted October 15, 2017 Share Posted October 15, 2017 I have this guy friend who has been giving me hints ( I am not sure if he is a flirter in general). At random times he will message me with a Hi or ask me what I am doing.. I will then respond him.. but he will then read the message and not reply me?!!! Why?!?!?!?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JiMiJu 1,858 Posted October 15, 2017 Share Posted October 15, 2017 Maybe he doesn't know what to write? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layixings 100 Posted October 15, 2017 Share Posted October 15, 2017 maybe he forgot to reply Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yagura 12,799 Posted October 15, 2017 Share Posted October 15, 2017 He will reply eventually don't worry It's probably not that deep. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimsaebyul 78 Posted October 15, 2017 Share Posted October 15, 2017 I have this guy friend who has been giving me hints ( I am not sure if he is a flirter in general). At random times he will message me with a Hi or ask me what I am doing.. I will then respond him.. but he will then read the message and not reply me?!!! Why?!?!?!?! Are you me?! LMAO I've been "flirting" (I'm not sure neither) with a certain guy. Sometimes he writes me and replies immediatly, sometimes he disappers and doesnt respond Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oenjjogeuro 64 Posted October 15, 2017 Share Posted October 15, 2017 Maybe he’s no interested and just a flirt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Violymph 96 Posted October 15, 2017 Share Posted October 15, 2017 maybe he forgot to reply Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted October 15, 2017 Author Share Posted October 15, 2017 Maybe he doesn't know what to write?I have thought like that before. Sometimes I will ask.. 'how about you?'.. and there would be no reply! He will reply eventually don't worry It's probably not that deep. 'Not that deep?' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted October 15, 2017 Author Share Posted October 15, 2017 Are you me?! LMAO I've been "flirting" (I'm not sure neither) with a certain guy. Sometimes he writes me and replies immediatly, sometimes he disappers and doesnt respond Yes yes!! Sometimes he will reply me like fee months later.. or sometimes will start a totally different topic! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yagura 12,799 Posted October 16, 2017 Share Posted October 16, 2017 'Not that deep?' What I meant is that you're probably overthinking. If he has been giving you hints then you're good. But if he takes a few days to reply, no need to waste your time on him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yeppuda 243 Posted October 16, 2017 Share Posted October 16, 2017 He was just bored and was looking for someone to chat. But when you replied, he has already found someone else to chat. Naneun is good at giving advices therefore give naneun wons Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted October 16, 2017 Author Share Posted October 16, 2017 What I meant is that you're probably overthinking. If he has been giving you hints then you're good. But if he takes a few days to reply, no need to waste your time on him He has given me hints.. not sure if he is a flirter in general... He replies me like a few weeks or a few months later!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted October 16, 2017 Author Share Posted October 16, 2017 He was just bored and was looking for someone to chat. But when you replied, he has already found someone else to chat. Naneun is good at giving advices therefore give naneun wons Maybe that's the case.... he gived me hints as well.. so I really don't know what he is thinking! Who is naeun? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted October 16, 2017 Author Share Posted October 16, 2017 Maybe he’s no interested and just a flirtEverytime we message and also when we meet in person.. he always flirts and talks about relaionships etc... he just replies so long later! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted October 16, 2017 Author Share Posted October 16, 2017 maybe he forgot to reply maybe he forgot to reply He has done this so many times to me.... sometimes I just feel like I should just stop talking to him because he doesn't reply.. but then after a few months he will message and then this makes me feel bad if I don't reply Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimsaebyul 78 Posted October 16, 2017 Share Posted October 16, 2017 I have thought like that before. Sometimes I will ask.. 'how about you?'.. and there would be no reply! It happened to me too in September and, to be honest, I got REALLY angry that time so after 2/3 days I re-texted him saying something like "I would appreciate an answer but if it's just a way to tell me that you don't want to be friend with me anymore...well...be straightforward" Guess what?! He answered like 1 minute after..."Sorry sorry! It's nothing personal, I do it with my other friends as well" After that he started to chat with me EVERYDAY so I just assumed he was too scared to lose me (?) but now he's back into the oblivion and I don't know what to do... What I'm trying to say is that you should Try to clarify that not getting an answer to an innocent "How are you" it's plain rude.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted October 16, 2017 Author Share Posted October 16, 2017 It happened to me too in September and, to be honest, I got REALLY angry that time so after 2/3 days I re-texted him saying something like "I would appreciate an answer but if it's just a way to tell me that you don't want to be friend with me anymore...well...be straightforward" Guess what?! He answered like 1 minute after..."Sorry sorry! It's nothing personal, I do it with my other friends as well" After that he started to chat with me EVERYDAY so I just assumed he was too scared to lose me (?) but now he's back into the oblivion and I don't know what to do... What I'm trying to say is that you should Try to clarify that not getting an answer to an innocent "How are you" it's plain rude.. I just tell him... you don't reply my messages and then he would just laugh it off Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pleasure 2,956 Posted October 16, 2017 Share Posted October 16, 2017 it seems like he only talks to you when he's bored, I wouldn't talk to him anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted October 16, 2017 Author Share Posted October 16, 2017 it seems like he only talks to you when he's bored, I wouldn't talk to him anymore.Also. Whenever we meet up.. he is always asking if I am in a relationship and remind me he is not in one.. I just don't know what he is thinking! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oenjjogeuro 64 Posted October 17, 2017 Share Posted October 17, 2017 He’s just bored and playing with you but you seem not to want to understand that. Just ask him if he likes you and if he doesn’t then oh well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted October 17, 2017 Author Share Posted October 17, 2017 He’s just bored and playing with you but you seem not to want to understand that. Just ask him if he likes you and if he doesn’t then oh well I feel played as well.. like to achieve him needs or something haha Last time he was asking if I liked anyone.. and was giving me hints and things.. I just don't know what he is thinking or wanting to do! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sungjins 676 Posted October 17, 2017 Share Posted October 17, 2017 some guys just play with you like that and you should avoid him if he keeps doing that seriously. I was really falling for a guy and he would go months without replying to my messages but every time he replied months later with some lame excuse I forgave him and then he'd do it again. he even told me he loved me at one point lmao and then went and ignored me for like 4 months. he takes advantage of that kindness and willingness of you to keep up the conversation whenever he wants. it might be hard but you've got to let him go, just delete the chat. or be forward with him and ask what he actually wants? does he actually like you or is he bored? if you ask him bluntly he'll have no other choice but to answer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted October 18, 2017 Author Share Posted October 18, 2017 some guys just play with you like that and you should avoid him if he keeps doing that seriously. I was really falling for a guy and he would go months without replying to my messages but every time he replied months later with some lame excuse I forgave him and then he'd do it again. he even told me he loved me at one point lmao and then went and ignored me for like 4 months. he takes advantage of that kindness and willingness of you to keep up the conversation whenever he wants. it might be hard but you've got to let him go, just delete the chat. or be forward with him and ask what he actually wants? does he actually like you or is he bored? if you ask him bluntly he'll have no other choice but to answerYea maybe I should just ask him bluntly...But usually he just laughs it off!! Omg.. He says he would only do it to me.. So I asked him straight: "Why am I the only person you do it to?" Because I wanted a straight response.. but he just laughed it off!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sungjins 676 Posted October 18, 2017 Share Posted October 18, 2017 Yea maybe I should just ask him bluntly...But usually he just laughs it off!! Omg.. He says he would only do it to me.. So I asked him straight: "Why am I the only person you do it to?" Because I wanted a straight response.. but he just laughed it off!! He's playing waaay too much with you. You should say how you genuinely don't like it when he acts like that. Or, give him a taste of his own medicine and ignore him when he messages you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted October 18, 2017 Author Share Posted October 18, 2017 He's playing waaay too much with you. You should say how you genuinely don't like it when he acts like that. Or, give him a taste of his own medicine and ignore him when he messages youI feel like he has played with me for so long!I have tried giving him a taste of his own medicine... Maximum time has been like 8hrs... Which is nothing compared to his months without reply! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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