taeyeoni 670 Posted October 12, 2017 Share Posted October 12, 2017 Hello, I've always had this habit of smiling, one-sided flirting, yes..one-sided flirting with many different guys. its pointless though, i did it for the daily dose of romantic excitement, external validation i didn't realize how bad it was, i guess it was because i never thought it was wrong.. but it is, i have to be fine without the validation, without the need to flirt, i need to be a real person and a complete person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arthur Morgan 3,556 Posted October 12, 2017 Share Posted October 12, 2017 alot of girls and probably more guys are validation chasers, its normal i can easily find out just by going '' I love your pants/shirt/etc, but its a bit too blue''. if that alone gets them to go ''wdym??" ''too blue how?'' or smth along those lines then im like she of one of them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted October 13, 2017 Share Posted October 13, 2017 I like girls who are like that, it's easier to approach them and it's a nice vibe to be friendly towards others. Even if you're not flirting or seeking validation I think it's a nice gesture. I'm only like that if I'm in a very good mood otherwise I'm the opposite, lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taeyeoni 670 Posted October 13, 2017 Author Share Posted October 13, 2017 I like girls who are like that, it's easier to approach them and it's a nice vibe to be friendly towards others. Even if you're not flirting or seeking validation I think it's a nice gesture. I'm only like that if I'm in a very good mood otherwise I'm the opposite, lol. thats true, i guess my problem is my intentions behind it, i should continue being friendly, so long as it is not to flirt or for validation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enki91 91 Posted October 13, 2017 Share Posted October 13, 2017 I like girls who are like that, it's easier to approach them and it's a nice vibe to be friendly towards others. Even if you're not flirting or seeking validation I think it's a nice gesture. I'm only like that if I'm in a very good mood otherwise I'm the opposite, lol. I can only agree with that. Wouldn't say there's anything wrong with flirting when you're single, unless it's for bad or exploitive reasons, which doesn't seem to be your intention. And who knows, that little bit of attention might aswell make the other persons day, even if they don't show it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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