luxuriouss86 185 Posted October 10, 2017 Share Posted October 10, 2017 Every time I don't hang out with others that much, they just ignore me, block me every where on Social media and ignore my messages social media, phone calls and text messages after they leave the church and all because I never spend time with them. I don't know what topic to talk about with them and idk what to do with them. They never invite me to Socialize with them. They all live in Raleigh and I live in Cary. I never get a chance to hang out with them because they're busy with school and work. I can pet sit their pets when I transfer to NCSU in fall 2019. i can take my papers with opened-ended questions on it and ask them open-ended questions to get to know more about them. Some times when I don't the papers with open-ended questions on it, I don't know what to ask them about them like their dislikes, likes, hobbies and favorite things. So I don't have a car to do stuff with them. I have some money in my account. When I transfer to NCSU, i might be able to hang out with them when they're free. I hate being by myself. I'm a Extrovert and I should be hanging out with large group of people every two weeks or so. some of them just tell me not to talk to them, ignore me and be rude to me out of nowhere when I didn't do anything to them. how do I get closer to them? How do I get them to invite me to hang out with them? how do I get them to stop treating me negatively? how do I get them to stop being so rude to me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tide 14,243 Posted October 10, 2017 Share Posted October 10, 2017 tell them this song is about being closer to God nd how it help cure u of ur sins Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrazzyJazzy 4,132 Posted October 10, 2017 Share Posted October 10, 2017 Introduce them to our Lord and Saviour Billy Ray Baekhyun and the Cult of Suhos Armpits. Why would you wanna hang out with them? They sound boring as heck and kinda rude. Edit: why'd I get negged? I'm telling it how it is. What kinda friends block you and ignore you? Mess. Yall are tryna tell me thats not a toxic friendship? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Ayy Big Gay 8,172 Posted October 10, 2017 Share Posted October 10, 2017 i can take my papers with opened-ended questions on it and ask them open-ended questions to get to know more about them. ¿¿¿¿¿¿¿¿¿¿ Bro lmao You take papers with you that you jolted down questions on, and ask them those questions? That is reaally weird, man, not to be rude. You seem socially awkward and I get that, but this can be off-putting. You are their friend, not a reporter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ClevelandKpopFan 45 Posted October 10, 2017 Share Posted October 10, 2017 Really....they don't sound very Christian. Find new friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luxuriouss86 185 Posted October 10, 2017 Author Share Posted October 10, 2017 i can take my papers with opened-ended questions on it and ask them open-ended questions to get to know more about them. ¿¿¿¿¿¿¿¿¿¿ Bro lmao You take papers with you that you jolted down questions on, and ask them those questions? That is reaally weird, man, not to be rude. You seem socially awkward and I get that, but this can be off-putting. You are their friend, not a reporter. oh.. ok ill forget the papers. I might forget what to ask them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milkcafe 3,438 Posted October 10, 2017 Share Posted October 10, 2017 Really....they don't sound very Christian. Find new friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♥SNS-Shinomiya♥ 420 Posted October 10, 2017 Share Posted October 10, 2017 Frankly, if they are not friendly towards you in church....fuck em. But if you really want to thier interest and see if you can contribute Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EXODADDIES 460 Posted October 10, 2017 Share Posted October 10, 2017 Don't even try to get closer to them. Find some new hoes to hang out with. The friends you are hanging out with are such fake hoes. If i was you I would just find new friends, they aren't worth your time. If I was you in your situation, i would have dumped them a long time ago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeggoStar 5,695 Posted October 10, 2017 Share Posted October 10, 2017 If you need to take a paper with you to ask questions that means conversations won't start naturally and it could makes things very awkward. I'm starting to think you don't have a lot in common with them and you want to be friends just for the sake of being friends, despite them showing rude signs they don't want to be friends with you. Forget that and focus on making friends around where you live now, let things happen naturally and don't force it too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arex 2,495 Posted October 10, 2017 Share Posted October 10, 2017 You should find some new friends that will include you, and that you can natrually talk with Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miky 2,878 Posted October 10, 2017 Share Posted October 10, 2017 Find new friends,it's clear they don't want to hang out with u and forcing yourself on them it won't work... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiseLikeACrowTit 862 Posted October 10, 2017 Share Posted October 10, 2017 Sis you sound desperate, rescue urself first, they don't deserve ur time and effort, join a kpop community somewhere near ur are (Blackpink in ur area👿), and hang out with ur kind, religion is a dead end street, they'll learn that in time, u got te exclusive from me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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