Frenchkiss 1,888 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 So someone sent me this video of the mother arguing and hitting the girl who made a meme out of her daughter This is the meme The mother kept saying "don't you ever touch my daughter " " you all don't ever touch my daughter again" here's the video https://m.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=127&v=qspFQkhWF4M Do you think it was right for her to do this ? Obviously everyone will make fun f the daughter even more and she'll probably has to transfer to another school.. but I would have done the same honestly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rich witch 20,592 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 idk if ass whooping is the way to go but i'd def come for that girl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tickle Star 1,460 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meh. 1,857 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 Idk, never a parent before. Tho as a student before, Imma smack that jerk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego ista 1,344 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 Don’t need to hit anyone but I’d chew her out and move the daughter either way no child of mine is getting bullied Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regality 955 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 Someone bully my kid, you bet Ima beat their ass for doing so idgaf Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim hyojung is love 7,319 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 I would’ve hit her too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hee_woo 5,194 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 I don't support violence, but well, she kinda deserved it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Jaejoong 1,701 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 Something like that happened to me as well when I was in middle school , mom didn't hit the girl but she interfered and stood up for me against her in front of my colleagues,although I really appreciated how worried she was about my feelings, I wish she didn't do that, I was perceived as a spoiled weak child who can't stand up for herself , and even-though that girl stopped bullying me,it wasn't genuine, it was just bcoz she feared my mom, not me, she didn't understand her mistake so it didn't make me feel better. Both neglectful and protective parents ruin children's self confidence, if I were in this mother's place and had my child bullied that way , I'd urge my child to stand up for herself without my direct interference, life is not easy and she'll surely face many jerks along the way,I can't always be there for her so she gotta learn how to deal with difficult situations,and I'll always morally support her and encourage her. ( On the other hand I'll surely speak to this kid's parents and make them see the flaws in the way they raised her ). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oodles 13,187 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 I would’ve hit her too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geez 1,587 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 Well, if the girl's mother had teach her daughter properly, she wouldn't feel like doing it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 Something like that happened to me as well when I was in middle school , mom didn't hit the girl but she interfered and stood up for me against her in front of my colleagues,although I really appreciated how worried she was about my feelings, I wish she didn't do that, I was perceived as a spoiled weak child who can't stand up for herself , and even-though that girl stopped bullying me,it wasn't genuine, it was just bcoz she feared my mom, not me, she didn't understand her mistake so it didn't make me feel better. Both neglectful and protective parents ruin children's self confidence, if I were in this mother's place and had my child bullied that way , I'd urge my child to stand up for herself without my direct interference, life is not easy and she'll surely face many jerks along the way,I can't always be there for her so she gotta learn how to deal with difficult situations,and I'll always morally support her and encourage her. ( On the other hand I'll surely speak to this kid's parents and make them see the flaws in the way they raised her ). Its difficult to understand from a parents perspective, but maybe your mum did that, because she couldn't stand to see you suffering. Its a natural reaction to want to protect someone you love and care about. Its not important what the bully really thought though, because at the end of the day, if someone is that terrible to hurt someone for their own satisfaction, they won't understand what anyone tells them. They only think about themselves. You don't need their validation, you just need them to leave you alone. Also, you are not a weak person if you have someone to stand up for you. At least it lets you see how you would handle things if it happened again. Also, sometimes its not always easy to tell a child to stand up for themselves, because the bully may escalate it further if they are not intimidated. Of course every case is different, but sometimes its not that simple to deal with it alone all the time. As for the woman hitting the bully, its not really ideal to do that (even if she deserves it) but hopefully she understands that you shouldn't provoke anyone, because you don't know how they might react. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xingyi 189 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 I think it's better to go for the parents, I mean, they can't control their bitch after all and most just say 'it's just a kid's thing' well no. Parents are responsible of this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aziza94 84 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 if I was the mother I would have done the same here story from my own life : I was hit by girl when I was going back to school , I knew the girl address and told my mam that that girl hit me , my mam went with me to that girl house , I was expecting my mam to hit the girl like how the girl hit me , but instead my mam kept laughing and befriend the girl mam , I was so pissed off and since that day I start becoming violent and would hit people back even if it mean death to me , cuz I knew telling my mam wouldn't get me my right back . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tictactoc 39 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 Yes mama! Hit that bully! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bindblue 146 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 I would have done something too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Jaejoong 1,701 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 Its difficult to understand from a parents perspective, but maybe your mum did that, because she couldn't stand to see you suffering. Its a natural reaction to want to protect someone you love and care about. Its not important what the bully really thought though, because at the end of the day, if someone is that terrible to hurt someone for their own satisfaction, they won't understand what anyone tells them. They only think about themselves. You don't need their validation, you just need them to leave you alone. Also, you are not a weak person if you have someone to stand up for you. At least it lets you see how you would handle things if it happened again. Also, sometimes its not always easy to tell a child to stand up for themselves, because the bully may escalate it further if they are not intimidated. Of course every case is different, but sometimes its not that simple to deal with it alone all the time. As for the woman hitting the bully, its not really ideal to do that (even if she deserves it) but hopefully she understands that you shouldn't provoke anyone, because you don't know how they might react This is why I said it didn't make me feel "better", you'll always feel better when the one who did you wrong apologizes to you. In my case ,I didn't feel worse, but I didn't feel better, it's just that she didn't come to me again,however I was left with the feeling that I was a joke, I kept asking myself questions like, why did she choose me outta all people,if she was horrible she'd be horrible with everyone why pick only me ? am I that vulnerable? etc etc. I felt reassurance when mom stood up for me but not strength, and this is what I believe, is the most important element in building up a child's personality.I felt grateful I have someone I can rely on in difficult times when probably some other kids wish they had a considerate mother like me, however flowers don't grow in paved roads,it's true it's not easy to deal with it alone , that's why I said , if I were the mom, I'll still make sure to back up my child, support her emotionally, without necessarily getting directly involved, even if she doesn't make it, I'll make sure she understands that she's not at fault and that the bully is a scumbag with issues. I actually saw many examples of this in real life, of how some parents taught their children how to fight back verbally and physically, and it helped them build self-confidence and even acceptance of failure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milkcafe 3,438 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 it's not right, but that said i don't blame her. i'm not a parent, but if i ever became one you can bet that i'd move heaven and hell for my kid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neosoul 546 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JihyoStoleMyHeartAYAYAY 22,189 Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zroi 87 Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 She deserved it tbh. Non violence can be just as vicious. I don't think violence is the answer but... The girl deserved it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layixings 100 Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 it's not right to hit a child. violence is not the solution. there are quite a lot of other solution such as sending the kid to counselling etc. if i'm a parent one day, i would've been so mad af but not to the extent where i hit someone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LisaVandercunt 19 Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 You do not put your hands on someone else's child. Is it that hard to understand? If I were the bully I'd file a police report for assault against this woman. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackBlink 29 Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 Someone bully my kid, you bet Ima beat their ass for doing so idgaf Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Non. 2,559 Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 Someone bully my kid, you bet Ima beat their ass for doing so idgaf Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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