redheart 7,440 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 what's the problem with this new generation? like really what's wrong with y'all thinking that in western countries we live in some sort of wonderland where rape and slut shaming disappeared and man and women became totally equal? like have you been so sheltered, or since you've never been exposed to these things, you don't care cause it never happened to you personally? I live in a huge city like it's 3rd biggest city here in France yet sadly every single one of my female friends have at some point in their lives and most of the time early in their life, suffered from a sexual assault EVERY SINGLE FUCKING ONE like let that sink in don't you find it horrible? and in all of these cases the guy got away with it because my friends felt ashamed, they never talked about with their relatives There was a documentary about sexual assault and cat calling on tv yesterday and I truly felt ashamed of this new generation you had young people in middle school, and high school saying that a girl should expect to suffered some kind of assault if she wear something too revealing whereas some people in their 50 had no problem with it you have girls in high school being afraid to wear a dress and a long one too because there are boys in their school going around in their corridors assaulting every girl that's not wearing pants Listen don't come around talking about I'm a fucking SJW or I'm victimising women like I'm done with that shit people pull to stop conversations from happening, these thing make me so angry because I have so many friends that's been affected by it So every time I hear things like feminism is only needed in middle eastern countries, or rape culture doesn't exist it just makes me wanna punch you dumbasses in your dumb ass face just because it's never happened to you doesn't mean it doesn't exist you may not agree with the way some women chose to fight these things but at least try to understand before discrediting them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cheese_it 8,304 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nsfw 5,496 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 I've been groped more times than I can count Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tropicamong 24,752 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 I agree. It really is darn frustrating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haze 10,915 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 what's the problem with this new generation? like really what's wrong with y'all thinking that in western countries we live in some sort of wonderland where rape and slut shaming disappeared and man and women became totally equal? like have you been so sheltered, or since you've never been exposed to these things, you don't care cause it never happened to you personally? I live in a huge city like it's 3rd biggest city here in France yet sadly every single one of my female friends have at some point in their lives and most of the time early in their life, suffered from a sexual assault EVERY SINGLE FUCKING ONE like let that sink in don't you find it horrible? and in all of these cases the guy got away with it because my friends felt ashamed, they never talked about with their relatives There was a documentary about sexual assault and cat calling on tv yesterday and I truly felt ashamed of this new generation you had young people in middle school, and high school saying that a girl should expect to suffered some kind of assault if she wear something too revealing whereas some people in their 50 had no problem with it you have girls in high school being afraid to wear a dress and a long one too because there are boys in their school going around in there corridors assaulting every girl that's not wearing pants Listen don't come around talking about I'm a fucking SJW or I'm victimising women like I'm done with that shit people pull to stop conversations from happening, these thing make me so angry because I have so many friends that's been affected by it So every time I hear things like feminism is only needed in middle eastern countries, or rape culture doesn't exist it just make me wanna punch you dumbasses in your dumb ass face just because it's never happened to you doesn't mean it doesn't exist you may not agree with the way some women chose to fight these things but at least try to understand before discrediting them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fat Ass Keâ„“â„“y Price 316 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 · Hidden by SINphony, October 3, 2017 - No reason given Hidden by SINphony, October 3, 2017 - No reason given I HAVE BEEN GROPED THREE TIMES BY THIS BTS STAN AINT NO ONE TOOK ME SERIOUSLY AND IM A GUY Link to comment
Vtzu 1,500 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 It's alarming that there are people who think it's cute to compare instances of rape to a culture that people were raised to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xRibbonsx 1,804 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 Way worse in my country tho, both men and women have this diseased 'she deserved it' mentality, they make me sick. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redheart 7,440 Posted October 3, 2017 Author Share Posted October 3, 2017 It's alarming that there are people who think it's cute to compare instances of rape to a culture that people were raised to do. oh I've seen you in that other thread and your comments are literally giving me cancer just saying if you think you're being edgy or cool do us all a favour shut your big fat mouth and go educate yourself a little bit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hosh 1,349 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 i totally agree Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loonathehoe 4,579 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE IDIOTS IN THE BACK PLEASE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
north 515 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 Preach it sis! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flashfox 3,149 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 its really sad honestly, some ppl are really pathetic and have no shame and respect for others at all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vtzu 1,500 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 oh I've seen you in that you other thread and you comments are literally giving me cancer just saying if you think you're being edgy or cool do us all a favour shut your big fat mouth and go educate yourself a little bit Lmao, you don't need to be edgy to know comparing rape to a culture is stupid lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haze 10,915 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 Lmao, you don't need to be edgy to know comparing rape to a culture is stupid lmao Well granted you know they teach you that rape culture is in fact very real in any given sociology course level, you're the dumbass here. like the user said above, keep your edgy and misinformed opinions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ot9 732 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 you have girls in high school being afraid to wear a dress and a long one too because there are boys in their school going around in there corridors assaulting every girl that's not wearing pants When I was in high school we would wear kilts (similar to skirts) and some girls would be told to get longer kilts or to stop "rolling their skirts up" because theirs are too "short". Like fuck you. Cause guys can't control themselves we have to oblige to your shit? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redheart 7,440 Posted October 3, 2017 Author Share Posted October 3, 2017 Lmao, you don't need to be edgy to know comparing rape to a culture is stupid lmao https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_culture you have all the references down on the page you can check and learn some things you're welcome Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redheart 7,440 Posted October 3, 2017 Author Share Posted October 3, 2017 When I was in high school we would wear kilts (similar to skirts) and some girls would be told to get longer kilts or to stop "rolling their skirts up" because theirs are too "short". Like fuck you. Cause guys can't control themselves we have to oblige to your shit? I've been groped more times than I can count this is just awful I don't know how long it will take before the people in power realise that the length of the skirt isn't the problem and adress the core issue that is causing all this bs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vtzu 1,500 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 Well granted you know they teach you that rape culture is in fact very real in any given sociology course level, you're the dumbass here. like the user said above, keep your edgy and misinformed opinions. OK, keep your SJW opinions <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WonderJoyous 10,634 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 I've been cat-called often ever since I was 12 and I had this very disgusting experience in a bus where I was standing and some ramdon man tried to stick his body to mine as much as possible to the point where I could feel the tip of his... Yeah, and there was plenty of space on the bus so he was clearly doing it on purpose, I got away from him at the first chance I got, is one of the most awful experiences i've ever had. My high school was only 4 houses away from mine and since I was extremely shy I didn't really have that much of a social life so my family didn't worry too much about me in that sense, but i'm gearing up for university at the end of this month after a gap year and my mom has been continuously telling me all possible ways of avoiding a rape or sexual assault during my stay in the school i'm going to: "It doesn't matter who it is do not say yes to a guy offering to take you home", "you will probably have to sit on the floor a lot and you'll have to walk so always wear pants or shorts but never skirts", "guys stare, do not stare at them back", and she always finishes it with the same sentence "There are tons of rapists in the world so you have to take care of yourself". Because i'm an introvert to an extreme I did not had many instances where I would have to be constantly out while being in high school except for my last year, and again high school was only 4 houses away, but university is far away and although I have matured and I feel like I can take care of myself she constantly worries about me and yes, is very alarming indeed, I am sure i'm not the only one who gets constantly told this by their family (especifically mother) and when you have to take care of yourself as much as possible for the sole reason of being a woman you see that there IS a problem, there are a lot of people who still puts the blame on the woman in rape cases and is extremely upsetting. Rape culture is a very real thing and everyone needs to educate themselves about it, especially women because we are the ones who are the most vulnerable when it comes to it because we are always at risk of getting assaulted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haze 10,915 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 OK, keep your SJW opinions <3 Expected, that's the usual response when people can't back up their statements lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haze 10,915 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 I got cat-called often ever since I was 12 and I had this very disgusting experience in a bus where I was standing and some ramdon man tried to stick his body to mine as much as possible to the point where I could feel the tip of his... Yeah, and there was plenty of space on the bus so he was clearly doing it on purpose, I got away from him at the first chance I got, is one of the most awful experiences i've ever had. My high school was only 4 houses away from mine and since I was extremely shy I didn't really have that much of a social life so my family didn't worry too much about me in that sense, but i'm gearing up for university at the end of this month after a gap year and my mom has been continuously telling me all possible ways of avoiding a rape or sexual assault during my stay in the school i'm going to: "It doesn't matter who it is do not say yes to a guy offering to take you home", "you will probably have to sit on the floor a lot and you'll have to walk so always wear pants or shorts but never skirts", "guys stare, do not stare at them back", and she always finishes it with the same sentence "There are tons of rapists in the world so you have to take care of yourself". Because i'm an introvert to an extreme I did not had many instances where I would have to be constantly out while being in high school except for my last year, and again high school was only 4 houses away, but university is far away and although I have matured and I feel like I can take care of myself she constantly worries about me and yes, is very alarming indeed, I am sure i'm not the only one who gets constantly told this by their family (especifically mother) and when you have to take care of yourself as much as possible for the sole reason of being a woman you see that there IS a problem, there are a lot of people who still puts the blame on the woman in rape cases and is extremely upsetting. Rape culture is a very real thing and everyone needs to educate themselves about it, especially women because we are the ones who are the most vulnerable when it comes to it because we are always at risk of getting assaulted. It honestly pisses me off when people think we're overreacting in regards to catcalling, or that we should "appreciate" the gesture. sorry we don't view it positively when we've been catcalled and harassed as children and teenagers far enough in one life time to be sickened by it as adults. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joon 8,222 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 Sadly, most women I know in my life have also been subject to sexual assault, including myself. It’s a real problem no matter where in the world you come from. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faces 5,832 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 When I was in high school we would wear kilts (similar to skirts) and some girls would be told to get longer kilts or to stop "rolling their skirts up" because theirs are too "short". Like fuck you. Cause guys can't control themselves we have to oblige to your shit? i was in an all girls school and they said that to us too so i doubt it has anything to do with men. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redheart 7,440 Posted October 3, 2017 Author Share Posted October 3, 2017 i was in an all girls school and they said that to us too so i doubt it has anything to do with men. nobody is saying it's men's fault it's the structure of our societies and education that is inherently wrong I used non gender specific terms in my post nowadays women are just as harsh as men when it comes to shaming women Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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