EasySteezy 860 Posted September 12, 2017 Share Posted September 12, 2017 When people say things like, "why are you on tinder? You're good looking enough to meet someone in real life." It's as if they think you can't meet weird people irl. I have met more weirdos at bars or clubs than on tinder. Dead serious. What's up with all of the hate on apps anyways? Apps are far better than meeting people irl because irl you have to deal with questions like are they into me? Are they just being friendly? Are they straight? Are they gay? With tinder at least you know if they are into you because they clicked like on you if you guys matched. I've been clubbing a lot lately and it just made me more confused on the app hate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Essay 825 Posted September 12, 2017 Share Posted September 12, 2017 did you and you bf breakup or is this just a passing thought? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasySteezy 860 Posted September 12, 2017 Author Share Posted September 12, 2017 did you and you bf breakup or is this just a passing thought? A little over a month ago. I've just been very absent from the internet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
husky_boy 71 Posted September 12, 2017 Share Posted September 12, 2017 True but tinder also annoys me sometimes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Essay 825 Posted September 12, 2017 Share Posted September 12, 2017 A little over a month ago. I've just been very absent from the internet tbh it seemed like you were unhappy anyway its probably for the best enjoy being uncommitted Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JiMiJu 1,858 Posted September 12, 2017 Share Posted September 12, 2017 Yeah, different things work for different people. No need to hate apps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterOfCider 692 Posted September 13, 2017 Share Posted September 13, 2017 I think a lot of the issue with apps comes from the anonymity of them. Sure you can meet crazies irl, but at least you can say you know what they looked like and that their name is what they claimed. I also think another part of the problem is that people see those apps as just a chance for casual sex meaning that nothing of substance can come from them. I don't really agree with the second reason, but it's something I've heard tossed around, so make of it what you will. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sana Minatozaki 3,305 Posted September 13, 2017 Share Posted September 13, 2017 in my country only weirdos and old people use dating apps so yeah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted September 15, 2017 Share Posted September 15, 2017 I still think it sucks, or at least it isn't for me but I guess the experience can vary a lot from person to person. I do like to know people online, made a lot of friends that way but I've had better experiences knowing people irl, and that's weird given I'm not very social or outgoing but I think I do better in one on one conversations. So that's just me, I prefer to make friends or get to know new people online and go out to meet someone to date/get laid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frenchkiss 1,888 Posted September 15, 2017 Share Posted September 15, 2017 try other dating apps, the last I used was "happn" and I'm currently dating a guy from there.... everyone thinks of tinder now as a random sex App Unless that's what you want, and in that case you go girl Sent from my iPhone using OneHallyu mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-masayume- 3,749 Posted September 15, 2017 Share Posted September 15, 2017 It's probably because there's a certain stigma surrounding Tinder, ppl usually connects Tinder with causal sex without finding a serious partner. But you can do that irl too without apps. You're good looking enough to meet someone in real life. This sentence makes no sense though, it's not like you don't take into account anyone whom you've met irl when you use Tinder, lol. Or that people using Tinder can't necessarily meet anyone irl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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