i dont wanna take ballet classes but my mom is forcing me and tells me to "suck it up"

[Yakio]

I've been a ballet dancer since I was 4 y/o and right now, i'm having no fun taking ballet classes. My mom keeps making the excuse that when I go back to italy she's gonna put me in this ballet academy that I do not give 2 fucks about saying that i'll "enjoy it more"

 

Whether I take ballet classes in italy or where I currently live i'll still find it boring and hate it with all my guts

 

It really pisses me off.

[anxiety]

When my father forced me into basketball I broke my arm but that's not good advice to give so...... idk good luck

[Sana Minatozaki]

That sucks, you should have a serious conversation with her . It's not good when parents force their own dream jobs to their kids

 

 

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[Marshmallows]

Maybe your mom wanted to be a ballerina or dancer herself so now she is trying to live her dream trough you.

I think you should just talk to her and make her understand that she can't force you to do something you don't enjoy.

[Yakio]

That sucks, you should have a serious conversation with her . It's not good when parents force their own dream jobs to their kids

 

 

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Maybe your mom wanted to be a ballerina or dancer herself so now she is trying to live her dream trough you.

I think you should just talk to her and make her understand that she can't force you to do something you don't enjoy.

 

The problem is I already talked to her,and she tells me the same thing over and over again.

[Sana Minatozaki]

The problem is I already talked to her,and she tells me the same thing over and over again.

You can talk to your ballet instructor maybe?

 

 

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[Caiii]

Just talk to her. Just say that all the time you're going to spend being depressed in practice could be put to create better moments. Like hobbies and stuff you love lol.

[ember]

Oh man, stuff like this is so irritating. I personally can't win against my mother initially; I have to keep going and just generally be sucky and palpably unenthusiastic and a bad sport and eventually wear her out to the point she lets me quit. 

 

Aka when she made me do stuff like drama ugh 

[Ureshige]

If your mom is still persistent, just fail at it miserably until she realizes how much of a waste she's spending on your ballet lessons.

 

Other than that, talk it out until she's sick of it.

[incurable LOONAtic]

Don't do things against your will. Even if others force you to. Because if you do, they'd just be pushing you around until...

you say enough 

[almostdone]

suck it up, you will thank her later