How do you get over someone?

[eternal glow]

Title says it all. How have you guys gotten over someone you liked/love? I started a different thread in this section last week asking about something and I got really helpful and friendly responses from people. I hope this hasn't been posted already but I tried checking and nothing came up...please let me know if a similar topic has already been made  

[Grape Soda]

It takes time and many distractions. Try to keep yourself busy with many different task

[LeeTheBee]

It's not something that you read in a book or you learn from someone else, it's all experience. Sometimes you forget about them in a month, and sometimes you don't get over them at all. Either way, you learn from it.

[Dickâ„¢]

Simple, by finding someone new

[nomchomchikapompom]

Simple, by finding someone new

was just going to say that lol

 

that's how i kinda got over this crush (since he has a gf) so i started liking a new guy lol

[gayness]

time

[Legacy1223]

Make music 

[Symphonyâ„¢]

Think about all the horrible things they did and what you didn't like about them.

[lips ruby blue]

nvm

[desu]

get sum new d

[TaeyeonHK]

Love Hyoyeon.

[Си�у Пак]

Time.

[fgt]

Think about all the horrible things they did and what you didn't like about them.

 

^

 

+ remove everything about them from your life (some people don't like this because they like to keep photos, etc, but really, it keeps an attachment by doing that)

 

+ doing things w/ other people (some people like me have urges to make out and etc once single)

 

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I did those things the last time, and it helped. I still love him (kinda back together), but it cut my grief in half and I had a lot less worries.

[eternal glow]

Love Hyoyeon.

Already do <3

 

time

 

Time.

Of course time is needed. How to pass that time??

 

Simple, by finding someone new

Was thinking of this but I'm concerned I'll only be 'using' that other person to get over someone else...

[Си�у Пак]

 

 

Of course time is needed. How to pass that time??

 

It depends from people to people, but in my case I just continued my life while pretending everything was okay, and then one day I fell in love again, and everything was forgotten...

 

Good luck

[Cleopatra25]

You replace those feelings with food. 

Just kidding. 

 

You should talk to someone or go find a hobby to take your mind off things.

[eternal glow]

It depends from people to people, but in my case I just continued my life while pretending everything was okay, and then one day I fell in love again, and everything was forgotten...

 

Good luck

Aww, I'm glad everything's good for you! Thanks!

[redbutton]

it takes time.. a year ago i broke up with my ex-bf of 6 years.. time heals.. make new friends.. don't think too much about it.. try out new activities and listen to good music! snsd's run devil run was my jam during the break up period.. lol..

 

life is short..just don't stay in your room and feel sorry for yourself.. you deserve a better life.. with or without him/her.. if you are not ready for a new relationship, don't push it.. enjoy life as it is.. .

 

[Gloupsidou]

get sum new d

[PALEMOCHI]

i dont even know..

[PALEMOCHI]

Think about all the horrible things they did and what you didn't like about them.

 

what if they didnt do anything horrible to you? and you actually did the mean thing to them?

[eternal glow]

what if they didnt do anything horrible to you? and you actually did the mean thing to them?

What if they said some unjustified horrible things that they claimed they didn't mean and then proved to you that you did mean something to them??? This is complicated...

[Sana Muñequita Linda]

Be surrounded by people who understand your situation (or at least have empathy for you) and who support you. Friends, family... It's not the same than getting over someone alone . But keep in mind that you also have to be autonomous and not too much dependent of your appreciated ones, you have to be grateful to the fact that you can count on them. And don't be awkward, okay? Good luck.

[chickenfan]

You have to accept the fact that it's going to take some time. I don't know how long, but with time you'll get over that person. Perhaps you'll always have a piece of that person with you, but after a while, you'll be able to move on with your life. Good luck!

[Bang]

Well it depends

1) Getting over someone after breaking up from a long relationship :Time heels it SLOOOWLY.

2)Getting over someone who didn't give a damn about you ; it hurts at first, but then you'll realize stuff.

3)Getting over a crush or someone you would have never had a chance with anyways