Are you bullied in your primary, secondary or tertiary years?

[Qiong]

I encounter it specially in my highs school years...

 

 

I remember when I was in primary, few of my classmates are bullies, they targeted those who doesn't know how to fight back. I'm one of them, I'm the quietest in our class, a very very introvert one. I only observes my classmates,..it was like i don't even exist in the classroom, they describe me as a ghosts. Then it comes the day I feared the bullies targeted me, they swear, throw papers at me during class which the teacher ignores it. I even feel most of my teachers annoyed at me because I'm so quiet & I'm only in the corner looking outside the window. 

 

Every day it's like that.

 

 

When I finished my Primary, I thought it's the end of my sufferings, but when I got in High School, it become the worst. Very worst, one day I got depressed, I cannot tell it to my parents, because they keep fighting & I don't want to add burden on them. The same as always some of my classmates throw crumble papers on me even hard books. They even call me Sadako because of my long hair covering my face., but I said to my self it's okay because I'm not the only one who bullied there,.. I just only angry with my other teachers who don't take an action due to that the bullies are rich. One day the bullies dragged me and my friend in the back of gym, they swear at us and hit us until my friend pass out,..our clothes dirty and all., that day I don't cry, I don't know, I don't feel anything but hatred. At night I went to kitchen and took a knife and put it in my bag. 

 

 

My parents shocked when they saw me with all the bruises in my body, but I remained silent,..I don't cry.

 

One day, the bullies are ready to hit me again. I don't stand it anymore, I stood up and got the knife in my bag and step in my chair and jump on her, I banged her head in the floor (she's lucky cause it's wood) and ready to struck her the knife but my classmate stopped it. But I saw the fear in her eyes and she cried hard. I got up, the bullies step back, my other classmates shocked, they don't believe what they saw. The school call my parents and they send me to counselor,..I don't speak to the counselor because she is a gossiper. Rather I went to the library and the librarian comfort me. To cut the story short,  the bullies stopped teasing, hitting, etc. me.

 

 

In my college years, I feel happy because I don't experienced bullies, I have a few friends but I can trust them.

 

 

I accidentally encountered my bullies sometimes when I visit my hometown, they are not the same as when we are in high school, of course the say sorry & I forgive them,..the sad thing is, few of them encountered difficulties in life, like separated, impregnate in their teen years, unfinished their high school years etc.

 

 

To all the victim of bullies here, please seek help, don't allow it like what i did., specially the one that I took knife, oh no that is very very bad idea. You tell it to your parents, friends, siblings, or the one who very cole to you.

 

 

 

To the Bullies ( if any of here): stop it.. you must learn to this quote : "

 

Do not do unto others what you do not want others to do unto you "

[Skibop!!]

I remember in elementary school these guys would pick on me, and I'd call them cowards because they couldn't deal with me one on one and needed their boys to back them up

[heavenandhell]

you're so nice 

[a(mber)]

none thankfully

[pukemo]

no. I never get bullied. And I never bullied anyone 

[Nokuto]

Just rarely, i used to throw them off with one way or another.

[duhleenuh]

I got made fun of as far as I could remember. I was kind of an eccentric kid, so I was kind of an easy target. On top of that, I was black and lived in a black neighborhood, so people would always jab at me because I wasn't enough like them, I guess. In elementary school, I was teased for this and that little thing, and eventually I became a source of entertainment or some play thing that fed their self esteem or something.

 

Middle school was pretty fucking bad. I was going through my goth stage and sometimes I'd hear people talking about me when I walked down the hall. Honestly, at that point, I wasn't even really surprised or hurt by it; I'd stopped caring about what people thought and didn't try so hard to be accepted by anyone, not even the other "goth" or "alternative" kids. I actually hung out with the "nerds" since we usually had the same advanced classes together. The only thing that bothered me was when I was personally harassed. Although it never really went away, it calmed down as years went by.

 

In high school, I really didn't have any issues at all. I think it was the school I ended up going to that had a lot to do with it. I was mostly in honors class so the kids that acted out the most, I never really saw. Every now and again I'd hear someone say one or two things as I walked by (I distinctly remember some gay black guy saying, "The white girl has got to go"), but they never confronted me so I couldn't be bothered to care.

 

College trumps all of them, though. You don't have to interact with people most of the time if you don't want to, and people don't really bother you.

 

Where are you from, just out of curiosity? I'm kind of surprised that it spiraled that far.

[Miyeon]

there was no such thing as bullying in my elementary school ??

[Miyeon]

 

I encounter it specially in my highs school years...

 

 

I remember when I was in primary, few of my classmates are bullies, they targeted those who doesn't know how to fight back. I'm one of them, I'm the quietest in our class, a very very introvert one. I only observes my classmates,..it was like i don't even exist in the classroom, they describe me as a ghosts. Then it comes the day I feared the bullies targeted me, they swear, throw papers at me during class which the teacher ignores it. I even feel most of my teachers annoyed at me because I'm so quiet & I'm only in the corner looking outside the window. 

 

Every day it's like that.

 

 

When I finished my Primary, I thought it's the end of my sufferings, but when I got in High School, it become the worst. Very worst, one day I got depressed, I cannot tell it to my parents, because they keep fighting & I don't want to add burden on them. The same as always some of my classmates throw crumble papers on me even hard books. They even call me Sadako because of my long hair covering my face., but I said to my self it's okay because I'm not the only one who bullied there,.. I just only angry with my other teachers who don't take an action due to that the bullies are rich. One day the bullies dragged me and my friend in the back of gym, they swear at us and hit us until my friend pass out,..our clothes dirty and all., that day I don't cry, I don't know, I don't feel anything but hatred. At night I went to kitchen and took a knife and put it in my bag. 

 

 

My parents shocked when they saw me with all the bruises in my body, but I remained silent,..I don't cry.

 

One day, the bullies are ready to hit me again. I don't stand it anymore, I stood up and got the knife in my bag and step in my chair and jump on her, I banged her head in the floor (she's lucky cause it's wood) and ready to struck her the knife but my classmate stopped it. But I saw the fear in her eyes and she cried hard. I got up, the bullies step back, my other classmates shocked, they don't believe what they saw. The school call my parents and they send me to counselor,..I don't speak to the counselor because she is a gossiper. Rather I went to the library and the librarian comfort me. To cut the story short,  the bullies stopped teasing, hitting, etc. me.

 

 

In my college years, I feel happy because I don't experienced bullies, I have a few friends but I can trust them.

 

 

I accidentally encountered my bullies sometimes when I visit my hometown, they are not the same as when we are in high school, of course the say sorry & I forgive them,..the sad thing is, few of them encountered difficulties in life, like separated, impregnate in their teen years, unfinished their high school years etc.

 

 

To all the victim of bullies here, please seek help, don't allow it like what i did., specially the one that I took knife, oh no that is very very bad idea. You tell it to your parents, friends, siblings, or the one who very cole to you.

 

 

 

To the Bullies ( if any of here): stop it.. you must learn to this quote : "

 

Do not do unto others what you do not want others to do unto you "

 

I'm sorry you had to experience that :(

[Qiong]

I got made fun of as far as I could remember. I was kind of an eccentric kid, so I was kind of an easy target. On top of that, I was black and lived in a black neighborhood, so people would always jab at me because I wasn't enough like them, I guess. In elementary school, I was teased for this and that little thing, and eventually I became a source of entertainment or some play thing that fed their self esteem or something.

 

Middle school was pretty fucking bad. I was going through my goth stage and sometimes I'd hear people talking about me when I walked down the hall. Honestly, at that point, I wasn't even really surprised or hurt by it; I'd stopped caring about what people thought and didn't try so hard to be accepted by anyone, not even the other "goth" or "alternative" kids. I actually hung out with the "nerds" since we usually had the same advanced classes together. The only thing that bothered me was when I was personally harassed. Although it never really went away, it calmed down as years went by.

 

In high school, I really didn't have any issues at all. I think it was the school I ended up going to that had a lot to do with it. I was mostly in honors class so the kids that acted out the most, I never really saw. Every now and again I'd hear someone say one or two things as I walked by (I distinctly remember some gay black guy saying, "The white girl has got to go"), but they never confronted me so I couldn't be bothered to care.

 

College trumps all of them, though. You don't have to interact with people most of the time if you don't want to, and people don't really bother you.

 

Where are you from, just out of curiosity? I'm kind of surprised that it spiraled that far.

 

From South East Asia...

[Knee]

Sorry to hear that about you :/ Hopefully things are better now~

 

 

Anyways for me, middle school was hell. I was bullied and I bullied other kids.. Idek why looking back. All kind of pointless crap. 

 

I'm thankful for my high school cause we don't really have a bullying problem. 

[Qiong]

Sorry to hear that about you :/ Hopefully things are better now~

 

 

Anyways for me, middle school was hell. I was bullied and I bullied other kids.. Idek why looking back. All kind of pointless crap. 

 

I'm thankful for my high school cause we don't really have a bullying problem. 

 

I'm okay now  

[Sa1zo]

Not really just the normal stuff some bullied me and I bullied them back nothing serious just a joke level name calling and stuff like that.

[elolery]

Name-calling mostly =(

[sitaraMVP]

I'm okay now

 

I'm glad you're doing well, today.

I was mostly bullied in middle school. It was a lot of name calling and picking on. And even when i did try to be social, i was ignored. People I thought were my friends did the same. 

[llamaswag]

Maybe Kindergarten?

I remembered few of my classmate said that they were going to beat me after school, so I would go home by the back door of the school not the entrance

I remembered hating going to kindergarten. After that, I don't think I'm actually experience being bullied.

[eternal glow]

I was bullied a little in my last year of Primary School when people used to purposely exclude me and basically loner me. I didn't hang out with anyone in my grade and basically hung out with some nice people in the grade below. I never fought back but pscht, like I give a single crap about those bitches anymore. I moved away for High School and now I have some real friends. Don't need them. EDIT: Despite this, my bullying wasn't as serious compared to others so yeah...I was just made a loner in my grade so it was a bit shitty during class time. 

[Cleopatra25]

I've never been bullied, more like teased for looking like a prepubescent child and being too skinny. *rolls eyes* I've had times when girls would say something outlandishly stupid as a passing comment to my face, but this only occurs when they're surrounded by their friends because they think it makes them cool or something. Then I would look at them with the "Lmao, you think that's an insult loser? Want a free punch?" face and I would see their confidence shrink right in front of my eyes! Then they just walk off like, "Yeah that was meant to happen *shifty eyes*" It's very amusing. People know not to mess with me when I'm angry. If bullies perceive you as weak they'll keep targeting you. 

[heartbreakx2]

Yes.Like basically the whole darned school bullied me for no reason because I'm the nerd (classic reason),and because I'm introverted.Things got worse at the second year,and I'm still pretty timid and I didn't fight back (How can I fight back against a whole school?) but the good thing is I was transferred from there at my third year to another school,though it costs me an extra year at junior high,but still,those bullies won't stop coming,but I did fight back now.If I can say a thing for them,I will say what Johanna Mason said at her Quarter Quell interview.

[Niujirandeu]

Of course man, pretty much erryday man since I was 10. Not now in uni though.

[Legacy1223]

I got made fun of as far as I could remember. I was kind of an eccentric kid, so I was kind of an easy target. On top of that, I was black and lived in a black neighborhood, so people would always jab at me because I wasn't enough like them,

 

 

This.

 

Growing up watching Anime, reading manga and listening to J-Pop, most other inner city black kids don't know anything about personal preference. They don't get it, and they'll judge the shit out of you because of it, it can make you stronger, or it can break you. I never tried to impress people because I never cared what people think, hanging out with the nerdy kids all we did was play video games all day and talk about anime stuff.

 

Last time I faced any kind of bullying was when i was 17, kid i went to school with lived in this area that I had family in. Him and his people were on their porch talking shit and they came down and started following me as i was walking. Being in the most dangerous city in America, and knowing that people have been jumped on this side of town, I took no chances. I took out my Glock and shot at them. Didn't even hesitate about it, I know a few of them got hit, I saw a lot of blood on the sidewalk.

 

To this day, I still take no chances when it comes to things like. 

[Insane]

kids made fun of me since the first year when I was only 6 years old until 9th grade

[fgt]

A little bit through the earlier part of primary, then some on and off shit since middle school till now.

[2501]

Haven't been bullied at all.

[SouFiel]

thankfully i never was