YNRA 1,082 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 so ive always lived at home and now i live in my university 3 hrs away from home they call me everyday and get mad at me when i dont answer but ill be busy or i wont see my phone ringing how can i tell them nicely that we dont have to talk everyday and im really enjoying life away from my family? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mei Matsumoto 2,562 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 Tell them "This is my life and not yours." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angy 5,950 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 "Don't worry, we dont have to talk everyday and im really enjoying living here " Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baeks Flat Ass 1,172 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 just say that you'll call them instead? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bromiscuous 1,178 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 So maybe next time you get off the phone to them say something like 'I'm really busy the next few days, I'll call you *insert day*' And then slowly wean them off daily calls Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monika 3,152 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 erm..I think they're simply concerned about you and want to know if you're okay or not I understand that you're busy,but take a little time to call them first instead! And this way they won't be bothering you anymore Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fatalite 6,078 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 If it's your first year, they probably jus tmiss you and are worried about you. At the end of your next call, try scheduling it on your terms like. "Hey, I'll be busy tomorrow because of studying, can we talk at (whatever time is convenient for you) instead?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atsuko 216 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 you're rude choke on a 12 feet clit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onieyez 425 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 just think of yourself lucky atleast your parents are making an effort Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YNRA 1,082 Posted August 28, 2017 Author Share Posted August 28, 2017 If it's your first year, they probably jus tmiss you and are worried about you. At the end of your next call, try scheduling it on your terms like. "Hey, I'll be busy tomorrow because of studying, can we talk at (whatever time is convenient for you) instead?" its not my first year, im 21 the thing is i dont know when ill be busy and when ill be free and they work so they only call me at night but im busy/tired every night Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cheese_it 8,304 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 Tell them honestly you are tired at night and to call them at the morning instead? Or at lunch? You can suggest to text them so it wouldn't be inconvenient its not my first year, im 21 the thing is i dont know when ill be busy and when ill be free and they work so they only call me at night but im busy/tired every night Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 Sorry, I am not sure what is making you so busy, that you cannot speak to your parents for a bit. I don't think you would do this, if it was your boyfriend or something. They're just worried, since this is your first time living away from home. Still, if you don't want to talk, just be honest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capricorn 356 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 You could point out that there is no need to be hostile or mad, since you didn't ignore their calls deliberately. You were tired or busy and they should understand that. If you missed a phone a call again, ask them politely if both of you could have a calm conversation. Then, explain your side--politely and calmly. After that's sorted out, give them assurance that you're fine all by yourself, and that they don't need to call you everyday. Give them "receipts" so they don't have to ask more annoying questions. Wish you luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vip ex-Elvis 597 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 Just tell them to stop bothering you and regret until the end of your life that you were such a bitch to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wild 856 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 You should establish boundaries, but understand that they are your parents. If this is your first time living away from home, it is understandable that they would want updates. Texting them updates throughout the day should suffice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JihyoStoleMyHeartAYAYAY 22,189 Posted August 29, 2017 Share Posted August 29, 2017 "Don't worry, we dont have to talk everyday and im really enjoying living here " Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JiMiJu 1,858 Posted August 29, 2017 Share Posted August 29, 2017 When I was first away from home, I called them every day. Then maybe reduce it over time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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