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So today the guy I liked came and told me that he didn't like me anymore and wants to ask out someone else. I was totally cool with him liking someone else even though I still kind of like him because it just happened and it's not something I could control. It was all cool until he said something else. He told me that he wanted to ask her out since years ago and said that he has always liked her on and off for a long time......I kind of felt like total shit cause now it makes me wonder how real/legit he was about me :s Then he asked me if I wanted to know who the girl was. I told him no cause I already knew. She's like one of my closest girlfriends so yeah. How would you react if someone said that to you??? Does it make it okay for him to say it because we were never in an official relationship?

 

TLDR: How would you react if the other person in your relationship told you that they don't like you anymore after 1.5 years and they want to ask someone else out because they have been wanting to ask them out for years now and have liked another person on and off during the time with you??? Should this be acceptable if you guys aren't in an official relationship but it's pretty much known that feelings are mutual. Should this be acceptable at all?  

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I feel like he said to make u jealous , his tactics are way too obvious

Really? I never thought of it that way.....Why do you think that?

 

I would drop anyone that said that to me. Easier said than done but that's messed up.

Yeah...it sounds pretty messed up huh? It makes me quite sad that he even said it. I never expected it :/

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its obvious, i do that sometimes too but i make it less obvious, im surprised u didnt notice

Oh...maybe I was too caught up in my belief that he was a really good guy :( Ugh, I'm kinda disappointed. I didn't say anything at the time tho. I was just like "Yeah...I get what you're saying..." Idk if I regret it LOL.

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Oh...maybe I was too caught up in my belief that he was a really good guy :( Ugh, I'm kinda disappointed. I didn't say anything at the time tho. I was just like "Yeah...I get what you're saying..." Idk if I regret it LOL.

 

lol obviously his tactic is working since you're thinking about think xD this is what he wants u to do

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Bitch slap him. 

 

Jk.

 

Obviously he has little respect for you. He likes her for YEARS before, during, and after his relationship with you. 

He didn't have the guts to ask her out, and asking you out instead. That's fucked up. 

Just say bye to him.

Yeah, the more I think about it, the more I feel disrespected and disappointed :/ After he said all that, he asked if we could be friends like how we are now and I just said probably or something. Now I feel like a complete idiot because I didn't even say anything when he said all that...

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So today the guy I liked came and told me that he didn't like me anymore

 

does it means that you were in a relationship with him before???

Uhm...we weren't really in what people call an 'official' relationship but pretty much everyone knew we liked each other and stuff. It was clear as day though he never really asked me out. It's complicated why he didn't because his friend used to like me. This is so complicated oml. Basically, we liked each other but never made it 'official' LOL.

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Yeah, the more I think about it, the more I feel disrespected and disappointed :/ After he said all that, he asked if we could be friends like how we are now and I just said probably or something. Now I feel like a complete idiot because I didn't even say anything when he said all that...

 

You're not an idiot, it's normal to feel shocked in that situation.

 

It's up to you if you want to stay friends with him or not, but i'll stay far faaar away from him tbh.

 

Cheer up !  :chu:

 

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Uhm...we weren't really in what people call an 'official' relationship but pretty much everyone knew we liked each other and stuff. It was clear as day though he never really asked me out. It's complicated why he didn't because his friend used to like me. This is so complicated oml. Basically, we liked each other but never made it 'official' LOL.

 

well, because it's not official yet, i don't really have anything to say....

 

but if it was official i 'd say that you take this suggestion

 

 

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well, because it's not official yet, i don't really have anything to say....

 

but if it was official i 'd say that you take this suggestion

Yeah...that's why I'm not even sure if I'm supposed to feel this bad if it wasn't even official :s It has been so long though so maybe that's why? 

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Did he finally make a move toward your friend?

Well, I assume he hasn't yet because he only told me today. I can't even imagine how I'm gonna react just because while I would like to just get over it...I don't think I can yet. I knew he liked her before but I didn't realise I was an on and off thing since like forever. If I had known, I probably wouldn't have gotten myself into this. I can't even believe he never even said anything about it. Maybe it's my own fault cause I took it so seriously. Guess I can't really say anything cause it's not like he was my boyfriend. 

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Well, I assume he hasn't yet because he only told me today. I can't even imagine how I'm gonna react just because while I would like to just get over it...I don't think I can yet. I knew he liked her before but I didn't realise I was an on and off thing since like forever. If I had known, I probably wouldn't have gotten myself into this. I can't even believe he never even said anything about it. Maybe it's my own fault cause I took it so seriously. Guess I can't really say anything cause it's not like he was my boyfriend. 

 

Then you're a victim of mixed signal i guess,

 

i have been a victim too at least once..... 

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