HATEmeCUZyouAINTme 1,853 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 So I really hate people visiting me or staying at my place for too long or vice versa. I'm not antisocial or anything but I just think that there should be an end to every visit. BUT I have a friend that has been over for a while now and doesn't really showing any signs of leaving when ever he's here. He was over last week Thursday and Friday and on both occasions I had to tell him to leave and he was kept saying how sad he was that I'm kicking him out even tho he's my friend. Now again he came 3 days ago and when I kept reminding him to go, he kept saying later and he ended up staying so late, he couldn't go home and he had to sleep over till Monday and even then he wouldn't leave until evening when I was going to the gym. ( and even then he left reluctantly). I thought it was over but then he came AGAIN yesterday and pulled the same stunt and slept over asdfghjkl. I've been pulling little stunts to get him to freaking leave. Telling him stuff like don't play music loudly, don't sit on my bed, don't use my desk e.t.c. but he was not leaving so I had to use food as a last resort. I didn't give him either lunch or dinner while i pretended not to have any food home so he can get hungry and go to his house to eat. I thought the evil had finally been defeated when I heard him leave and close the door but now I came out to my living area and he left all his stuff there. I saw his laptop, iPad, bag, headphones and stuff and I honestly felt like crying. I msged him hoping it was a mistake but he said he's coming back, that he just went home to eat. I've sat here for like 20 mins thinking of ways to avoid him coming back I need any help OH Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
syricus 2,334 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 tell him you found out you have termites Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StepOnMeJas 3,806 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 "Get out bitch" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Terra 839 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 Yikes I once fought with a friend that was staying at my place and like.... packed ha bags for her and left them waiting outside the door I don't think I'd be much help to you, tbh, but good luck trying to get rid of them. You have my thoughts and prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~CinnamonBuns~ 2,259 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 Any guest who overstays their welcome is not a friend. One or two days is okay, but that's a no no in my book. Just talk to him about saying you want your alone time. He should be okay with this. Just don't be passive agressive. If they don't understand, you should get a new friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BadBadNotGood 11,616 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 There is no nice way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
breadbutter 2,550 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 Lock the doors wyd. Seriously, you don't have to beat around the bush just tell him he can't come over again. Even if he is pressed, it is your home and your space. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YamaChan 11,194 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 Be honest and straightforward. A real friend worth keeping will understand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seven. 504 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 tell them they are being hella rude rent aint free Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hyoyo 108 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 Send him here. No one ever comes to my house even though I have so many nice things :'))))) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
My Everything 23,397 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 call the police Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mami3chan 7,210 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 friends are a burden .......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sammy Lee 2,635 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 Lmao, This is kind of funny especially with that Hyoyeon gif.. I guess the only solution here is to face him honestly, or to at least tell him that he should contribute to the expenses of the house if he plans on staying over for a long time, I think that would get him to leave. Honestly if he's bothering you that much it's better to face him...he ain't worth all that patience tbh . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peachtea 1,885 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 There sounds like there might be an underlying problem in his life? Has you asked him why he is avoiding sleeping at home? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HATEmeCUZyouAINTme 1,853 Posted August 2, 2017 Author Share Posted August 2, 2017 Omg. I'm dying. He just came back and brought cereal for his breakfast tmrw. Howww Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belle. 3,407 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 fight them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nowhere Boy 2,431 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 tell them to get the fuck out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honeystan 10,291 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 Wear three pairs of socks when you boot'em in the a*s Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VIP4EVER 2,297 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 kick his ass out man lock your doors as well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sammy Lee 2,635 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 Omg. I'm dying. He just came back and brought cereal for his breakfast tmrw. Howww Eat his cereal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
halow31 1,137 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 From my perspective you just have two options 1- You confront him and tell him to leave or 2- (the immature one) pretend you had to leave home Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
syricus 2,334 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 Omg. I'm dying. He just came back and brought cereal for his breakfast tmrw. Howww eat his cereal dude. or put a spider in it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HATEmeCUZyouAINTme 1,853 Posted August 2, 2017 Author Share Posted August 2, 2017 Yikes I once fought with a friend that was staying at my place and like.... packed ha bags for her and left them waiting outside the door I don't think I'd be much help to you, tbh, but good luck trying to get rid of them. You have my thoughts and prayers. omg this is so funny because I've done this to another of my friends too. A mess Send him here. No one ever comes to my house even though I have so many nice things :'))))) I wish I could. friends are a burden .......... Some really are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiseLikeACrowTit 862 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 So I really hate people visiting me or staying at my place for too long or vice versa. I'm not antisocial or anything but I just think that there should be an end to every visit. BUT I have a friend that has been over for a while now and doesn't really showing any signs of leaving when ever he's here. He was over last week Thursday and Friday and on both occasions I had to tell him to leave and he was kept saying how sad he was that I'm kicking him out even tho he's my friend. Now again he came 3 days ago and when I kept reminding him to go, he kept saying later and he ended up staying so late, he couldn't go home and he had to sleep over till Monday and even then he wouldn't leave until evening when I was going to the gym. ( and even then he left reluctantly). I thought it was over but then he came AGAIN yesterday and pulled the same stunt and slept over asdfghjkl. I've been pulling little stunts to get him to freaking leave. Telling him stuff like don't play music loudly, don't sit on my bed, don't use my desk e.t.c. but he was not leaving so I had to use food as a last resort. I didn't give him either lunch or dinner while i pretended not to have any food home so he can get hungry and go to his house to eat. I thought the evil had finally been defeated when I heard him leave and close the door but now I came out to my living area and he left all his stuff there. I saw his laptop, iPad, bag, headphones and stuff and I honestly felt like crying. I msged him hoping it was a mistake but he said he's coming back, that he just went home to eat. I've sat here for like 20 mins thinking of ways to avoid him coming back I need any help OH What you need to realize is that you own your life; I literally told my cousin the other day: Do you plan to come everyday to my house without letting me know?", she was shook and even erased me from facebook ( i'm greatful for that actually ), call me telling me some melodramatic sheet, and I cut her act dry telling her she is wellcomed once and again with notice, but I have a life ( posting on OH ) and she needs to respect that, she didn't talked to me for a week and then she called to ask if she can come, and we acted like nothing happened, but bitch knows who's the Queen B now ; long short, do what you gotta do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missa 7,410 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 maybe he has a problem at home ? thats why he avoids it ? if he's okay tho and like just for fun then straight up tell him to getfo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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