thatsvicchan 3,818 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 Have you ever felt like this? It sucks imo... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nev Schulman 7,948 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 Same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
초췌 270 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 luckily im a very self contained person Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ruby Faith 5,082 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 Yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Property of Goddess Irene 9,760 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 There is no reason for anyone to cry. It's a primitive reaction, ever heard of "crocodile's tears", its basically a mechanism to look weak so a larger animal will have pity on you and won't eat you. If you are crying and getting absolutely no gain from it, then you are just pissing in the air. Use that energy instead towards your mind and higher levels of thinking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♥SNS-Shinomiya♥ 420 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 There is no reason for anyone to cry. It's a primitive reaction, ever heard of "crocodile's tears", its basically a mechanism to look weak so a larger animal will have pity on you and won't eat you. If you are crying and getting absolutely no gain from it, then you are just pissing in the air. Use that energy instead towards your mind and higher levels of thinking. you must be a joy at parties, lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allo 351 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 I'm sorry :( Hope you feel better soon. Have a good cry when you need to. It helps release the energy that's built up from negative emotions. Also, get a cat. Trust me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skibop!! 8,585 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 I just hold in my tears and don't worry about it. Listen to music to feel better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boss Bae â™” 49 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 Other people aren't that much of a help tbh, I know from experience all they do is stare at me and it's so embarrassing when I cry in front of other people, just curl under your blanket and cry yourself to sleep bc personally I wake up feeling great afterwards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iiiiiiiii010101101iiiiiii 4,855 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 luckily im a very self contained person what if u snap one day ?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Almondandlime 6,854 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 Yep. Happens to me all the time, including today. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arsinoë 1,188 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 what if u snap one day ?? if you deal with your emotions silently and alone, you wouldn't snap. you'd snap if you don't deal with them at all. on topic: my life. its a struggle but you get used to it. i snap a lot bc i do let things build up without dealing with the problem. that's never endearing lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thatsvicchan 3,818 Posted March 15, 2014 Author Share Posted March 15, 2014 There is no reason for anyone to cry. It's a primitive reaction, ever heard of "crocodile's tears", its basically a mechanism to look weak so a larger animal will have pity on you and won't eat you. If you are crying and getting absolutely no gain from it, then you are just pissing in the air. Use that energy instead towards your mind and higher levels of thinking. I wanna be like you.You're right tho, but some people just need to cry a little bit to feel better... I wish I were more stronger than this ._. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
초췌 270 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 what if u snap one day ?? somehow whatever feelign just defuses as time goes on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 I just get melancholic and keep it to myself Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Property of Goddess Irene 9,760 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 I wanna be like you. You're right tho, but some people just need to cry a little bit to feel better... I wish I were more stronger than this ._. It's all habit. We cry because that's what we did as babies but it still lingers within us because we may not have reflected on it and did something to change it. Once we practice to get rid of impractical and unnecessary behavioral patterns we will notice that they had no positive effect on us at all. You can make yourself feel good just by having your mind do it for you, no rituals or other stimulants are necessary, but this path takes some work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sitaraMVP 1,107 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 yea :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cumberbitch 81 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 I know how you feel, and yes it sucks My parents have never really ever comforted me when I was hurting. My friends have, but that's only recent. I'll be honest here when no one is there to listen to you cry about _______ feelings get bottled up over time and just spill out. Listen to music, talk to anyone who'll listen (remember that these people should be trustworthy or people who you can rant while remaining anonymous) That should help .... well hopefully watch television or drink tea (it relaxes you) but remember you can also just cry your heart out for a while hopefully things will get better and the skies will be clear again for ya stay strong ^_^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ANTI-IKON 1,013 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 There is no reason for anyone to cry. It's a primitive reaction, ever heard of "crocodile's tears", its basically a mechanism to look weak so a larger animal will have pity on you and won't eat you. If you are crying and getting absolutely no gain from it, then you are just pissing in the air. Use that energy instead towards your mind and higher levels of thinking. Psychologically its healthy to cry. Go open a book, will ya? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShawolSONEexo 2,135 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 I just hold in my tears and don't worry about it. Listen to music to feel better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Temptastic VII 6,473 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 All the time. But it's getting better recently. Make a bunch of friends from the forums. You'll be surprised how much they help you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skibop!! 8,585 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 I know how you feel, and yes it sucks My parents have never really ever comforted me when I was hurting. My friends have, but that's only recent. I'll be honest here when no one is there to listen to you cry about _______ feelings get bottled up over time and just spill out. Listen to music, talk to anyone who'll listen (remember that these people should be trustworthy or people who you can rant while remaining anonymous) That should help .... well hopefully watch television or drink tea (it relaxes you) but remember you can also just cry your heart out for a while hopefully things will get better and the skies will be clear again for ya stay strong ^_^ Your Fei siggy! I had the same when I first joined Hallyu8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
North and South 4,680 Posted March 16, 2014 Share Posted March 16, 2014 I wanna be like you. You're right tho, but some people just need to cry a little bit to feel better... I wish I were more stronger than this ._. Wanting to cry doesn't make you a weak person. You just deal with stress differently is all. I always watch cute cat videos whenever I'm like scarily depressed. I don't really have anyone to confide in either. That's what works for me anyways. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'd always be happy to listen btw Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juliette 812 Posted March 16, 2014 Share Posted March 16, 2014 No. When I feel sad I don't want anyone to notice, it's really uncomfortable in my opinion. That's why I cry at night and I usually feel better the next day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Serilost 176 Posted March 16, 2014 Share Posted March 16, 2014 Felt like that several times but at the same time I don't want anyone to see me crying so I just hold it in until I go to bed and let it all out... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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