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me:

 

When I was 15, I learned that I was a daughter of a mistress (my mom)... and my username isn't related to that coz I've had since I was in 5th grade because I love Mistress9 from sailormoon. LOL

Well, it didn't affect me THAT much though since I never, even once, felt unwanted (people around me during my childhood always made me feel like I was special) or something but I'm just amazed at how both my parents' families were able to keep this secret from me. My mom just felt that I was ready to know the truth I guess...

 

After learning about it, I suddenly realized why I never saw a wedding picture of my mom and dad, my father works at some other province and I see him only during vacation or special occasions. There were some people who would talk to my father away from me when I go to the province and I thought they were just his staff from his office - they were actually my older half-siblings. :derp:

 

edit: I didn't know that things I saw in dramas would actually happen in my life.

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Well I wouldn't say this was a lie, but I only learned that I had a half-brother, my dad's son from his previous marriage, when I was like 11 or 12. It doesn't bother me or even pique my curiosity in the least.

 

I guess what came as a shock to me more was the fact that my dad had been married before and that he was on his second marriage with my mom.

 

Rather than people lying to me, I know one of my grandma's secrets that she made me promise I wouldn't speak to anyone about, especially my mom, and it makes me feel like I'm the liar. It's too much of sensitive topic to tell and I know it could hurt a lot of people in my family if it were to get out.

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One of my family members accused another family member of molesting them. This person has maintained this for almost 40 years and has convinced themselves that it really happened (because they have a victim complex). Whenever this person meets new people, they try and squeeze their 'terrible molestation' into the conversation to get sympathy. What really gets them off, though, is when people commend them on being a survivor and making it through all of the 'abuse' and 'neglect'. It's so absurd.

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Well I wouldn't say this was a lie, but I only learned that I had a half-brother, my dad's son from his previous marriage, when I was like 11 or 12. It doesn't bother me or even pique my curiosity in the least.

 

I guess what came as a shock to me more was the fact that my dad had been married before and that he was on his second marriage with my mom.

 

Rather than people lying to me, I know one of my grandma's secrets that she made me promise I wouldn't speak to anyone about, especially my mom, and it makes me feel like I'm the liar. It's too much of sensitive topic to tell and I know it could hurt a lot of people in my family if it were to get out.

 

wow.. you must be really close to your grandma then for her to entrust you with that secret.

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OT:

Omg we have both names related to Sailor Moon lol

 

 

Btw I have always thought hair grows from the tips

It was shoking knowing the truth

 

oh we do? :happy:  Which part of your username is related to sailormoon? I forgot about 90% of the anime since it was more than a decade ago. Is it related to sailor venus (your dp)?

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My friends lol

 

Like in nyc, kids go to one school for k-5, then a different school for 6-8, and then finally a different school for 9-12. Each time I graduate me and my friends would always say that we are gonna hang and still stay bff even though we are in a different school and stuff.... Well, I havent heard from those people in years. Its not like they (or me lmao) even try to stay in contact. Like once I graduate high school and go to college, I'm not going talk to my friends anymore and I dont even care lmao

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You're a bad person, you're crazy, you're stupid, something's wrong with you, etc. Fortunately, I never believed it for a second. And the older I got the more I realized that my personality and the way my mind worked was substantially different from other people, and that's why I couldn't get along with my family, because they didn't want to understand me.   And it was a good thing as well. The psychologist was pretty disconcerted when she heard only a part of my story, and she heard my family's side as well. I didn't tell her much about my home situation, but she said that I was very smart and perfectly normal, but because of my suffocating home, I was having a few issues, which I already knew. Basically the problem was with my family, but they didn't take me to her to hear that evaluation, so that changed nothing. And so the lies continue, but I ignore them, as I've done from Day 1. They're amazing people and love me very much, they put themselves on the block for me, but they're very narrow minded, so we could never have a great relationship. It's their way or the highway, and if you disagree, something must be wrong with you. 

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wow.. you must be really close to your grandma then for her to entrust you with that secret.

 

Honestly, we're not even that close so I was surprised when she told me. I think she just really wanted to tell somebody the secret that she kept for over 50 years. Honestly there are a lot of secrets in my family because my grandma got pregnant young and had 9 children with the same man, they never married, and then one day he just got up and left. He left them the house and sent my mom (a child then) out to buy an old cassette the day that he left and that's all he left behind. It was such a complicated time back then, lots of psychologically taxing events happened that left scars and resentment. There are so many rumors and speculations, that could change the family dynamics, and my mom has a few secrets that she's shared with me, but only my grandma and I know the secret she told me that one day.

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when my little brother was little,i told him that my mom found him in the back of a taco bell dumpster but not to say anything because it's a sensitive subject,it eventually came out when they were arguing and he yelled "Why do you care,you found me in the back of a dumpster"...yeeeeeeep :._.:

 

also my little brother was looking for something in my moms room and found he's birth certificate and realized the day he celebrates his birthday isn't the actual date of his birth... :ninja:

 

me and my little brother are 5 years apart,so when he was like 3..my mom was doing laundry and she told me not to pick him up because he's not a doll,but i didn't listen and i ended up dropping him,he had to get stitches,he didn't remember the story when he got older and always wondered why on his eyebrow he couldn't grow hair in certain parts...i told him it's because when your born that's how they identify the babies who have a different father from there other brothers and sisters... :wth:

 

 

im such a horrible older sister... :shock:

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After dating/being involved with seriously my girlfriend from a super religious, homophobic family (her dads a pastor) for a while she told me she never loved me although she told me otherwise countless times and she wasn't gay although pretty gay things happened and that she dated me to 'cheer me up.' I was distraught at the time but now I just laugh.

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