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do you think idols really date each other based on visuals alone???


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  1. 1. do idols mainly date each other based on visuals??

    • no, they may be attracted by visuals but after getting to know each other they choose based on personality
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    • no, they always look at personality first and most of all
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    • it's 50/50, half personality and half visuals
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    • yes, idols mainly care for visuals in their gf/bf, not personality
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    • idols only care for each other's visuals
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  2. 2. can a relationship based on physical attraction alone, truly work out?

    • short term, yes, but not long term
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    • not at all
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    • yes, you can even last through marriage based on physical attraction alone, no need to like each other's personalities
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  3. 3. are most idols in serious relationships or fwb/physical relationships?

    • serious, long-term relationships
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    • casual, short-term relationships
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    • serious but short-term relationships (serious but due to schedule, it gets difficult)
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    • fwb/physical type of relationship
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when discussing crack ships (which is what any ships that mix members from different groups are, mostly) a lot of people say things like "X idol would obviously rather date Y idol instead of Z, bc Y is much hotter/prettier" 

 

but do idols really date based on visuals alone??? 

i mean, if they're boning or have a fwb relationship, it makes sense....

but for a real relationship, does dating on visuals alone make sense, even if your personalities don't match/one person has a bad personality/don't like each other's personalities/etc??? what would they talk about??? how would they manage to date, unless it was purely physical, in which case it's more fwb/sex than a real romantic relationship????

 

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of course they're human just like us we date who we think are attracted except if you both knew each other for long time

but most humans dont date based on visuals alone, right?

being attracted to someone doesnt mean you will date them....you might find someone hot/cute/sexy/handsome, but if you dont get along with them or your personalities dont work well together, a relationship will be difficult or wont last.

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yes actually

sorry to burst some delulu bubbles but most of those 'personalities' we see on camera are fake as fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck imstupid.png

oppar/unnir didn't eat that leaf that fell from the tree above his/her head because s/he is 4D

it's because there are fansites who'd gobble that shit up

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Honestly obviously visuals play a part for everyone, not just idols. However it's probably mostly due to the fact that idols understand the industry and how to keep relationships secret and low profile whereas an average citizen might not and it could be messy real fast if the relationship ends and the average citizen decided to spill details. Whereas idols would keep it low profile even if they broke up for mutual interest and public image. Just my 2 cents on it.

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Idols aren't removed from being human. They use the exact same criteria as most human beings in the developed world which may or may not include visuals just like most people you know. Besides, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, this applies to idols too. Some idols may not consider some of the popular visuals in Kpop as good-looking as others do.

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Idols only know each other real personalities after they are dating them in the first place (cuz what they got on TV is just general perception of that idols) unless they date someone that they already friend with in long term or at least known them enough in personal level.

 

So it isn't uncommon of wanting/asking to date someone cuz you are physically attracted to them first (usually that is a first criteria...but whoever they are attracted to, we don't know) and then decided to continue dating them in long term or not later. If not match, they broke up and if they do, they going deeper into relationship. Dating is the process of getting to know each other.

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Attracted and start having more interactions due to visual.

Become bf/gf because they do seems match each other personality wise.

How long they last will depend on how well their personality match each other.

 

I can see them dating someone they are not as attracted to. The teammate of the idol they are interested in. They will realize the teammate is not bad and they will have more interactions due to the 1 they are originally interested in.

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but most humans dont date based on visuals alone, right?

being attracted to someone doesnt mean you will date them....you might find someone hot/cute/sexy/handsome, but if you dont get along with them or your personalities dont work well together, a relationship will be difficult or wont last.

 

No I think we date on looks even if it's not serious you probably date them and it's pretty easy to get along with many people I feel like most of the world are nice people. Also once you see someone has a bad personality that is all you see and you won't find them attractive anymore.

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You need to be physically attracted to someone in order to love em romantically. if you love someone but are not physically attracted to em it's a different kind of love, mostly a brotherhood. Hence looks are soooo important

 

 

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I don't think they care about who the public thinks is hotter. like if idols only chose the most attractive(according to Korean standards ofc) idols to date then there would be very few relationships. With that logic Nichkhun would have dated Yoona instead of Tiffany,or Kai would have dated Sulli instead of krystal.IU would have been caught with Siwon instead of Eunhyuk. But then again the members considered visual holes/ugly hardly ever get caught dating. So I'd say that hot idols date other hot idols,but they don't necessarily date the 'hottest' ones,

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