Frenchkiss 1,888 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 Let's suppose you met this handsome man or pretty girl and you match out perfectly, things go smoothly so in no time you 2 start dating, everything's amazing, you are in love. but then at the moment of being intimate she/he tells you he/she is trans What would you do, would you not care and continue being couple or would you be mad and end things definitely? I was watching this tv program at home & health about something related and I got curious Also .. what if from the very beginning they tell you they are trans ..? you'll you be interested? Sent from my iPhone using OneHallyu mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dux 3,142 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 no i want kids Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IKKY 6,735 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 Personally, I wouldn't just cause I'm not into that. And a relationship that started out on lies or just not being upfront about things, doesn't end well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happykpopper 967 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 Ditch Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Non. 2,559 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 Ditch Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sumac 1,003 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 Personally, I wouldn't just cause I'm not into that. And a relationship that started out on lies or just not being upfront about things, doesn't end well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiirbii 4,760 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 Personally, I wouldn't just cause I'm not into that. And a relationship that started out on lies or just not being upfront about things, doesn't end well. Not disclosing that you're trans on day 1 isn't lying tho. At least, in my eyes it isn't. As for the question, I have before so the answer is yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheap thriâ„“â„“s 2,846 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 I would only be mad at them for lying to me ; the rest is fine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
25%Cotton 7,133 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 if i really liked him sure, i would consider it. would probably have to be a man because i'm gay. also depends on how well his D works though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raina 61 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 I would, yeah. I mean I guess it depends how long they lied to me. If for some reason we went years without having sex and they lied that entire time I'd question their honesty in everything, but considering how fast I put out... LOL they wouldn't be able fo lie for long. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Phoenix 105 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 So far, you are only required by the PC police to pretend that you would. Some day, there may be mandatory government dating assignments - enforced at gunpoint - so that politically preferred but socially disadvantaged groups can finally get back at Dad and feel better about themselves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starlight 1,108 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 I'm not sure if I would in general, but in this case the most upsetting thing would be that they hid it from me for so long. I would have hoped that they felt safe enough with me and knew enough about me to be comfortable telling me before then. It's fine if they don't tell me immediately, but after a while I would think they should have told me by that point. At the very least, we'd need to have a long discussion after that before our relationship could continue, if it could continue at all. Thinking about it more, I don't think someone being trans is necessarily a deal breaker for me, although I would be worried about how my relatives would treat them. They're not the most open. In the given scenario it's more of a trust issue I feel, and trust is very important in a relationship, so it would have to be looked over carefully. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jinni 4,412 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 I would only be mad at them for lying to me ; the rest is fine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raina 61 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 So far, you are only required by the PC police to pretend that you would. Some day, there may be mandatory government dating assignments - enforced at gunpoint - so that politically preferred but socially disadvantaged groups can finally get back at Dad and better about themselves. of course you are a SONE lmao why does SNSD have to deal with garbage like you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sephiroth 3,892 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 id date either. and to the people above, i dont think not immedaitely saying theyre trans is "lying". unless they explicitly told you they are cis then its not lying lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dolores Haze 3,663 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 it's fine if i really like them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glow 2,321 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 They're not lying to you. If you're more obsessed with their genitals than them as a person, that's your problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoplz 2,333 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 No way Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frenchkiss 1,888 Posted June 28, 2017 Author Share Posted June 28, 2017 It seems like it's harder for straight people to date a trans, seems like almost all G&L wouldn't find a problem with it Sent from my iPhone using OneHallyu mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EmployeeOfTheMonth 141 Posted June 29, 2017 Share Posted June 29, 2017 Hmmmm no to be honest. People don't realize that sex is important in a relationship, even if it's not the most important. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted June 29, 2017 Share Posted June 29, 2017 I wouldn't, I'm too old fashioned in that sense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FanSince2012 247 Posted June 29, 2017 Share Posted June 29, 2017 No, I would want to date someone I can have kids with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cherry blossom 1,121 Posted June 29, 2017 Share Posted June 29, 2017 Nope. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sana Minatozaki 3,305 Posted June 29, 2017 Share Posted June 29, 2017 no It seems like it's harder for straight people to date a trans, seems like almost all G&L wouldn't find a problem with itSent from my iPhone using OneHallyu mobile app it's because some people want kids Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasySteezy 860 Posted June 30, 2017 Share Posted June 30, 2017 Depends. If he got all the surgeries and had a penis I'd be fine with it. If he still had a vagina I wouldn't stay. I have absolutely no interest in having sex with someone with a vagina and sex is probably the second most important part of a relationship for me. If not the most important Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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