GrumpyCatt 374 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 I talked to this person for a while... but suddenly they disappeared. At first they replied less, and then they didnt reply at all. I tried texting them again but I got left on read. Ouch. I guess I enjoyed that person's company too much or smtn, because I can't stand anything now. So i kind of want to pretend that they didn't go.. and that they're still here. But I feel like that's a bad idea. What if I never forget them that way? Honestly it's pretty clear that I'm not important to them, but still... they were one of the most amazing people I've ever met. I obviously don't have any hope that they will ever reply back or anything like that.. But I feel like just thinking that they didn't completely ditch me and that they're still there but stopped replying or smtn. Like how with some friends you dont talk all the time but you're still somehow in touch. I feel like that'll cause more suffering, but it's somehow calming....Sorry about the long post btw ^^ So... is it a bad idea? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yahtzee 70 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 yikes... i'm real sorry u feel this way... ;_; i think its best to try an let them go... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raina 61 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 Yeah it's a bad idea. That's how those people who keep sending messages for months on end without reply end up, because they don't want to accept the truth. Sorry it happened but it'll be better for you in the long run to accept that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalii 1,874 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 Sometimes it's okay to be delusional as long as you know that you're being delusional. But in the long run, it's probably better to just recognize things for what they are, especially when it comes to relationships. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarlingII 840 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 They don't sound that amazing to me You'll move on don't worry! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GrumpyCatt 374 Posted June 27, 2017 Author Share Posted June 27, 2017 They don't sound that amazing to me You'll move on don't worry!I'm the one that's not that amazing... Not them :( Sent from my SM-G935P using OneHallyu mobile app yikes... i'm real sorry u feel this way... ;_; i think its best to try an let them go...How do I do that? :o Sent from my SM-G935P using OneHallyu mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JiMiJu 1,858 Posted June 27, 2017 Share Posted June 27, 2017 It usually is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roamingcat 767 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 It's a terrible idea actually because it keeps you from reality, which is what you live in; and in your specific case, it keeps you from moving on and finding someone who is worthy of your time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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