vocabulary 890 Posted June 15, 2017 Share Posted June 15, 2017 To reject a guy. If you happen to be lesbian, could you tell me if you'll feel offended? Edit: truly genuinely grateful for the responses. I said that when I was nervous then felt guilty towards lesbians. I felt like I was making use of them or somehow not behaving respectfully. But it was too late. In future, I'll 100% refrain even when it gets hard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nsfwwww 5,298 Posted June 15, 2017 Share Posted June 15, 2017 not in that situation imo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NINI 16,268 Posted June 15, 2017 Share Posted June 15, 2017 not in that situation imo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
where my hood unnies at 4,967 Posted June 15, 2017 Share Posted June 15, 2017 not really, but i don't see any reason to lie about something that could potentially put you in danger. i am a lesbian but i just tell guys who come onto me that i'm not interested or if he's the aggressive, macho type i tell him that i'm already in a relationship (using gender neutral terms) since those guys usually see us girls more as "territory" than a person... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honeystan 10,291 Posted June 15, 2017 Share Posted June 15, 2017 They actually stop hassling you when you say it? Cause that hasn't been my experience. Dude's were following me one afternoon and bothering me and I told them I was dating someone hoping they would shoofly cause ignoring them wasn't working, just agitating them more, but they were just like bet he ain't satisfying you like I could. You ain't had a man til you had a man like me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dream thief 2,040 Posted June 15, 2017 Share Posted June 15, 2017 I don't see why you would lie about your sexuality to reject a guy. Just say you're not interested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vocabulary 890 Posted June 15, 2017 Author Share Posted June 15, 2017 I don't see why you would lie about your sexuality to reject a guy. Just say you're not interested. I may have said this before on another thread but there was this one guy who REFUSED TO BELIEVE I wasn't interested in him. Even though I'm a messy hoe on OH, I'm very cold in real life but I respond to his messages. So he thinks he's the only guy I talk to and that makes him something. But I only respond because 1) he will not stop 2) he has a bitch mouth which means he bitches about me to other guys A LOT 3) he is a leader so he has some power I can't just block him without getting into trouble Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CareBear08 7,527 Posted June 15, 2017 Share Posted June 15, 2017 Many guys will view that as being a challenge. I don't know why but they think they can turn a lesbian and it turns them on thinking about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CareBear08 7,527 Posted June 15, 2017 Share Posted June 15, 2017 3) he is a leader so he has some power I can't just block him without getting into trouble leader of what? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dream thief 2,040 Posted June 15, 2017 Share Posted June 15, 2017 I may have said this before on another thread but there was this one guy who REFUSED TO BELIEVE I wasn't interested in him. Even though I'm a messy hoe on OH, I'm very cold in real life but I respond to his messages. So he thinks he's the only guy I talk to and that makes him something. But I only respond because 1) he will not stop 2) he has a bitch mouth which means he bitches about me to other guys A LOT 3) he is a leader so he has some power I can't just block him without getting into trouble 1. i wouldn't care if he is some kind of leader, who is he the queen of england? if i want to block someone then i block the person. he can say about me whatever he wants. 2. what kind of guys do you hang out with wth... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taebb 1,624 Posted June 15, 2017 Share Posted June 15, 2017 not in that situation imo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vocabulary 890 Posted June 15, 2017 Author Share Posted June 15, 2017 1. i wouldn't care if he is some kind of leader, who is he the queen of england? if i want to block someone then i block the person. he can say about me whatever he wants. 2. what kind of guys do you hang out with wth... I don't hangout with that. We're just in the same environment. If anything, I actively avoid males or remain neutral. I dislike that environment too. The guy is extremely homophobic I got some shit after I said that lol but at least he's given up. But I pray he doesn't think I actually liked him because I'm very repulsed by a homophobic and cheating cunt like him. I forgot to add, sis you're hella cool in the first part of your reply hslagakahana Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vocabulary 890 Posted June 15, 2017 Author Share Posted June 15, 2017 Many guys will view that as being a challenge. I don't know why but they think they can turn a lesbian and it turns them on thinking about it. Are you a male? And this overconfidence is very repulsive. I wish they could be logical about it and try thinking from the lesbian's or another perspective. Thank you for replying. He has some kind of position and I'm still pretty new. But I got it. I regret saying that too. I think it's unfair to use lesbian title like this. I'll refrain from doing that in future. I was flustered. It wasn't intentional. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sungjins 676 Posted June 15, 2017 Share Posted June 15, 2017 I personally dont think it's wrong but in my experience saying I'm flat out lesbian doesn't make the situation any better. My friend even pretended to be my girlfriend when we walked a guy who liked me but he still said "I can turn you straight", dont you want some dick etc. Unfortunately, in most cases if a guy is stubborn, he's gonna harass you no matter what. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JiMiJu 1,858 Posted June 15, 2017 Share Posted June 15, 2017 It is best to avoid lying if you can. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CareBear08 7,527 Posted June 15, 2017 Share Posted June 15, 2017 Are you a male? And this overconfidence is very repulsive. I wish they could be logical about it and try thinking from the lesbian's or another perspective. Thank you for replying. He has some kind of position and I'm still pretty new. But I got it. I regret saying that too. I think it's unfair to use lesbian title like this. I'll refrain from doing that in future. I was flustered. It wasn't intentional. Yes I'm a male but I'm not one who thinks like that. I'm just using my experience from what I've seen from other men and how they act. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoonct 9 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 Yeah like a few other people have said, telling guys I'm a lesbian has never made them leave me alone. You're better off telling them you have chronic diarrhoea or something lol. I'm not particularly offended it just doesn't ever work Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vocabulary 890 Posted June 30, 2017 Author Share Posted June 30, 2017 Yeah like a few other people have said, telling guys I'm a lesbian has never made them leave me alone. You're better off telling them you have chronic diarrhoea or something lol. I'm not particularly offended it just doesn't ever work Lmao sis I like your humor. Mine kind of worked because that guy was super super homophobic. He told me he's disgusted and that I really truly am better off with a guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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