CrayCray 2,636 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 So I have a friend that is "in love" with her manager/friend. Every time she talks to me about her manager, I could see stars in her eyes. Let's call my friend S and her manager C. S met her manager a few months ago at her new job and I guess they seem to have hit it off pretty well. C is engaged but her fiance lives in another city 8 hours away. I have a feeling C probably likes S more than she should... the reason I think so is because a couple weeks back, S told me that C planned to throw a party with 4-5 friends for S's upcoming birthday, S asked something along the line of "only a few friends?" and C replied with "we'll hang out with just the two of us afterwards". Today I took S out to eat sushi and when we got our fortune cookies, hers read "the fun side of a relationship begins to unfold". She took a picture of it and sent it to C. When I asked if she was sending it to her manager, she replied with "who were we just talking about?" while smiling brightly (right before we got our fortune cookies, we were talking about C). When I said "doesn't she have a fiance?", my friend gave me a smiling crying sad face saying "why do you have to remind me??" I just sat there like but in my head I was screaming *SHE HAS A FIANCE! YOU WANNA BREAK UP A RELATIONSHIP BITCH?!* S even changed her Facebook dp to a selfie of her and C recently. Lookie here, I don't like to butt into relationships and friendships and buttships but cheating is a big NO-NO for me. I detest people who cheat on their partners and even more than that, I despise people who are the "other person" that person cheated with. I have a strong gut feeling those two are going to go further than "friend" status. Do you think these are signs of an upcoming relationship cheating affair or am I just reading too much into their "friend" business? Edit: I forgot to mention that S recently got out of relationship because her bf cheated and broke up with her so she was really hurt but now she's very happy because of C. (Both S and C are girls btw. Not that gender has to do with anything. ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onieyez 425 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 was going to say "if they're not married, then all game" but he has a fiance... and that's not cool korean drama in the making Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
�� tzuyu eevee �� 1 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 stop her. she gonna end it for sure if she wont stop Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcey 7,752 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 Slap your friend back to sense please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hola_ 312 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 If I were you, I would stop her. And once her manager ends the relationship he has (if he ever do) I would let her free Please, stop her as soon as possible before she do something dumb. Oh, and you should go to that birthday party. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeoMania 3,433 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 Ew, your friend sounds like a skank. And they're both girls btw? Not that it matters but yes, I would advise her not to do anything she might regret. Why are you friends with this girl? SMH Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NARA. 1,708 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 Call tne firefighter and let them splash a dozen of water onto your friend's face Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atreyuavenged 162 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 Some people say it's not over til they are married. The onus is on the manager to notify the fiance that something on the side is going on and the friend I think has to be reminded as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stylish 533 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 please stop her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sunnydumplings 129 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 Try to keep S from crossing the line without breaking up your own friendship as I can see you care a lot about her. If she just broke up this might be a rebound which isn't good for either of them. Trying to keep her from dating by having fun would make her take time to properly get over her ex and then she could end up in a better relationship. Next to that breaking up a relationship is very disrespectful towards the fiance and I think she should know just how much it hurts when someone cheats on you. What's she's doing is wrong in a lot of ways and I hope she understands. Usually I'm against office romance as well for the sake of your work but also for the sake of your relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrayCray 2,636 Posted June 9, 2017 Author Share Posted June 9, 2017 Some people say it's not over til they are married. The onus is on the manager to notify the fiance that something on the side is going on and the friend I think has to be reminded as well.My friend said that she talks to her friend's fiance sometimes too so idk.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluebells and Snowdrops 3,574 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 Tell her to let it go. It is gonna end badly for at least one of them, and she shouldn't be the one to break up a relationship/engagement. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sana Minatozaki 3,305 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 No Sent from my iPhone using OneHallyu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danee Danee 5,179 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 Stop her. She will end heartbroken. If that other girl would want to break up with her fiance, she would already do it. Now she seems just like the type who wants to have some fun before wedding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yagura 12,799 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 please stop her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deviandrepepe 6,559 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 I hate cheaters. But i also hate homewrecker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JiMiJu 1,858 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 Well, you can try. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TickleMePink 17,072 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 Stop her please Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eternal glow 6,196 Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 You can try to stop her but ultimately, there's only so much you can do. I personally cannot respect someone who is aware that someone is in a relationship and goes for it anyway. It's not right. Same goes to the person that is in a relationship btw. I don't think I could stay friends with someone who is a homewrecker. Forgot to mention that you're obviously very concerned about her and your gut tells you that something is going to happen. So I'd say try to stop her if you can. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 We're talking about two girls, right? If so maybe they both think it isn't as a big deal to mess up between girls or something like that with them not thinking is that serious. Also I think the girls that has the fiancee is the one that should be more responsible in all this, you're friend is single (I presume) so she really couldn't care less if she likes this girl so bad so I think they're both doing something wrong but her manager is the one that has more things to lose and therefore should be acting in a more mature fashion about this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chae(forever)young 782 Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 was going to say "if they're not married, then all game" but he has a fiance... and that's not cool korean drama in the making Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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