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What's the longest and shortest time it took u to get over a breakup?

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shortest i didnt have. i broke up with all my boyfriends so i didnt rly need time to get over it.

 

longest. i broke up recently ( 3 years long relationship) , it was mutual breakup but im still not over it.

its gonna be 4 months now.

im not crying or anything like that, but still i can't imagine myself with another guy and i dont even find guys attractive.

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sis pls!

 

But since we're at it, how bout both imstupid.png

With real people, I cry a river over them for max 2-3 days and then I move on, fully forgetting their existence after a week or so.

 

Now with kpop guys, I'm clingy af, I always wanna rekindle and give him his 50th chance to repair our relationship, it's hard for me to finally put an end and stick with a 'no'.

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With real people, I cry a river over them for max 2-3 days and then I move on, fully forgetting their existence after a week or so.

 

Now with kpop guys, I'm clingy af, I always wanna rekindle and give him his 50th chance to repair our relationship, it's hard for me to finally put an end and stick with a 'no'.

I can relate. With real people, when it comes to love, tbh I only take a few hours :imstupid: I'll force myself to think and be sad and just force the sadness to the max so I can get over it all at one go. But afterwards I may get pissed or annoyed if I see their stuff on my feed

 

For friendships I actually take longer agalaglaga

 

I know what u mean about kpop guys so now I just became a hoe and have like several guys on rotation

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I can relate. With real people, when it comes to love, tbh I only take a few hours imstupid.png I'll force myself to think and be sad and just force the sadness to the max so I can get over it all at one go. But afterwards I may get pissed or annoyed if I see their stuff on my feed

 

For friendships I actually take longer agalaglaga

 

I know what u mean about kpop guys so now I just became a hoe and have like several guys on rotation

Lmao, yes with real people I have tragic outbursts of crying but it's for a very short amount of time. After 3 days I get healed quite easily and in my experience, when you break up you have this feeling that you won't ever love someone as much, or that this guy was so amazing that nobody could ever replace him; it's basically a false and misleading feeling because with time you'll get to meet someone else and love him just as much or even more. Breakups are not the end of the world

 

Yes, for kpop I always recommend the hoe route, mainly for health reasons and also your biases will appreciate some time-off and less pressure, suffocating only one or two kpop guys with constant attention can have negative impact on your kpop emotions and general well-being.

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