do you find it creepy when your boyfriend or girlfriend is checking you out/thirsting for you?

[Kami Love]

i think just because you are in a relationship doesn't give you the right to look and touch whenever you want. 

[!~Aishak~!]

i would feel flattered.. is it weird?.. becuz i would want them to be thirsty for me ...isn't that better than them checking out other people? 

if there is a consent i don't see the problem tbh...

[monochrome.]

not at all 

 

i like it when she's being like that lol

[skythatpourslight 🌷]

As long as I consented to it, I think it's fine

[Sinbessica]

If only I had a relationship.

[modella]

To be honest it's a little off putting depending on the level of thirst. This one guy I used to talk to flat out told me that he would "pleasure" himself while looking at my pictures. Mind you these are totally normal pics of me on my Insta. Like . . . No. Just no.

[Frogurt]

You have to establish boundaries if you want a healthy relationship...

[guava]

You should be with someone who has similar boundaries and level of sexual desire as you.

[Suzy Quatro]

No and most likely I won't even notice.

[PeachyKeys!]

No. But if it's bothering you, talk to him about your boundaries.

[JiMiJu]

No.

[Sana Minatozaki]

no

[NINI]

No lol

[Guitargeekette]

i think just because you are in a relationship doesn't give you the right to look and touch whenever you want. 

 

Well, the looking I'm not sure how much you can help that lol, especially if you're in a relationship with the person and they adore you.

 

But the touching, that standard is up to YOU...but what needs to be done is letting the person know what your standard is. In fact, they should have already known that (or gotten a wind of it, even without you telling them) before they entered a relationship with you.

 

With my boyfriend, he already knew the type of person I was and I reinforced his perception by flat out telling him my standard. So he expressed "normal relationship" things he wanted to do physically, and I told him what was alright, what was NOT alright, and what was alright but I wasn't comfortable with yet. He understood and abided by that. We've been together a year and some now and now that I'm significantly more comfortable, we both enjoy a little bit more physical cutenessities (lol) than before. 

 

So, if YOU do not want the person to be touching you and stuff, establish it. If that can't be respected, get outta there.

[Pyo Hyemi]

If only I had a relationship.

 

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[Diancecht]

[exot9]

Nah

[PrincessYunikoon]

I would expect my bf to thirst for me. I mean. He is my bf after all. I would dislike it he checked out other people instead.

 

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[HoneyBee12]

My guy friend is like that and I think sometimes checks me out when he are alone.. I don't know how to feel and always keeps my guard up

 

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[Jimins Sonyeo]

My exman is discusting and perverted when...No I do t get what his doin. His like "F U N"

[yoonct]

Personally I want my girlfriend to check me out and thirst over me, I want my girlfriend to be attracted to me so I think it'd be weird to find it creepy

[SchoolNote]

No I love it.

[Jiyu]

No.