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recently came out (not to my family hehe) and have a question...


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Hey there! As you can tell from the title, I came out recently. Honestly, I don't know how to phrase this correctly (if it doesn't make sense, please comment; having many suggestions are nice, and making front page here would be amazing!) Rather than being vague, I'll provide you a (hopefully) short story. Basically, I came out to my club members... and yeah.

While I was saying my speech for an election, I blurted out how I sounded gay and casually mentioned, "Wow, this is my first time speaking on a mic, and I sound really gay," Few seconds later, I paused and said, "That's okay, though. I'm gay." Surprisingly, many people applauded and I decided that I am going to "come out of my shell." Having come out to a group of people (and growing some balls, for that matter), I wanted to ask out a cashier that works at a mall. I'm planning on going to the mall again this week, but I honestly don't know how to ask him out correctly??? Honestly, I don't know if he's gay (his posture is quite feminine, though). That being said, how should I approach him without sounding like a creep? 

:) Thanks!

 

*Probably going to ask him out, if I'm feeling confident (and if the time is right).

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Mmm... Maybe You can try telling him, that he Looks good, and that you would like get to know him, Tell him Maybe at a later time if he has time and wants, you two could go for a coffee or something. If he says Yes well, You can get to know him and later ask him out, if says no, try to be cool about it to avoid make him feel Bad or Attacked, and specially so you don't end up like a weird creepy guy.

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