hotguy69 10 Posted May 29, 2017 Share Posted May 29, 2017 Especially for those who already graduated and has a job, but not limited to them, are you satisfied with how your life is going right now? Do you regret one big thing that you should have done when you where a kid that could have changed your present life? I regret not learning certain instrument, not learning enough in school and not being sociable. I could have known a better choice or a better goal in life.. I mean, I could have done it if my parents and older people beside me pushed me into it.. like a suggestion from them but they don't bother since they are busy with their jobs (?).. I'm not trying to blame them or something but isn't it their "responsibility" to guide you while you're growing up..? I'm not satisfied with my life tbh.. I feel like I want to learn more but I don't know where to start and don't have the motivation.. I want to achieve many things but I just cant do it.. I know everything is not too late but how bout you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arinsen 2,269 Posted May 29, 2017 Share Posted May 29, 2017 I totally messed up a few things the past 1-2 years mainly because I listened to my stupid, optimistic heart instead of my brain. Although I regret it, it is a valuable experience to me and now I'm more focused than ever to head towards my goals and live the life I always wanted to. I am satisfied and grateful because I still have it better than so many people and my mistakes were not fatal for my future, however, I will work hard until I'm fully satisfied. It's never too late to start again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KOREA'S PRIDE BTS 7,389 Posted May 29, 2017 Share Posted May 29, 2017 Yes. Fully satisfied with it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saint Ren 4,272 Posted May 29, 2017 Share Posted May 29, 2017 Finding a job right after graduation was so hard, those were a tough few months, I thing when things aren't working out, you question everything. I managed to get a job in my field, 3 months after and things have just worked out. I bought a camera because I love photography and I do it as a hobby, I travel a lot more now and I'm trying to learn french, which I horribly failed at when I was 14. It's cliche but it's never too late, motivate yourself, do something you like, find enjoyment in the little things, be more social and you will find joy in your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
good_morning 5,035 Posted May 29, 2017 Share Posted May 29, 2017 I'm totally satisfied. the only thing I dislike abt my life can be that my friends are studying abroad and I see them twice a year Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eternal glow 6,196 Posted May 29, 2017 Share Posted May 29, 2017 I'm so dissatisfied with my life. Early last year, I made a huge mistake of getting the wrong part time job and my experience was so bad that it haunts me even after I've quit for almost a year now. It makes me second guess my career choice, terrified to get a new job, fear people, fear mistakes, fear everything. I don't even know what I'm doing anymore. I'm trying to get back up on my feet but I just can't so I'm wallowing in self pity and hatred. It's all a mess really. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Your Juan and only 5,432 Posted May 29, 2017 Share Posted May 29, 2017 No I want more. Also I regret not going straight to graduate school. Also I should've interned while as an undergraduate not afterwards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TickleMePink 17,072 Posted May 29, 2017 Share Posted May 29, 2017 No I want to graduate from high school and start doing what I love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JiMiJu 1,858 Posted May 29, 2017 Share Posted May 29, 2017 In a personal sense, yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chae(forever)young 782 Posted May 29, 2017 Share Posted May 29, 2017 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nayoung's wf 149 Posted May 29, 2017 Share Posted May 29, 2017 no, I fucked things up at the beginning of college (I was just 16 when I entered college) basically out of immaturity, I failed like 4 semesters and now I regret it bc I could be graduated by now but I still have 2 more semesters to go. It wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't because my country is going through a political mess right now so I want to leave asap but I don't want to leave without my degree, this political issue has also caused a lot of protests and riots everyday so my uni is on a strike right now, meaning that the semesters take even longer to finish. Adding that I am already 23 years old so I have adult goals like owning a house, a car and those stuff, which is impossible in my country with this situation. I just wish I had been smarter and more responsible, I could be graduated and living in another country already. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muffjins 101 Posted May 30, 2017 Share Posted May 30, 2017 not yet. i have no idea of what i want to do, or want to be for the rest of my life. i still have a little ways to go before i really need to decide on that, but it kinda sucks to just rely on a backup plan that i'm not completely satisfied with. plus i'm lonely so nah not yet :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SCAK46 423 Posted May 30, 2017 Share Posted May 30, 2017 This is a really tough one to answer... I finished college, have a job that I enjoy, but I don't think I'm satisfied or really happy. I grew up a loner and didn't have any friends or know how to socialize until my first semester in college. As for regrets, I wish I could've learned more languages when I was younger. I'm trying to learn Japanese and Korean now but I luckily learned sign language. I would like to be able to learn how to be more social in person since I over think and can never figure out what to say to anyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trixbox 2,982 Posted May 31, 2017 Share Posted May 31, 2017 I have finished University, got a job and got lucky to have opportunity to work overseas and immigrate. If there is one regret that i carry is that i should have stayed in the states and make it there. It's hard when you are in a different country alone it creeps in the loneliness and all your friends and family you left behind. Good thing that i made new friends and taken me as part of there family. I really miss the the Bay area but i do return whenever i can. But nope I'm not satisfied, i want it ALL!!! I'm greedy till i die. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChungJoJo 31 Posted June 1, 2017 Share Posted June 1, 2017 i hate my life, i contemplate suicide everyday, I'm losing my will to live more and more everyday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose. 4,207 Posted June 1, 2017 Share Posted June 1, 2017 Yeah, even though I just broke up with mine last month, I feel like my love life is still doing well with all the dates I go to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bananabrows 2,169 Posted June 1, 2017 Share Posted June 1, 2017 I'd like to get better grades, lose weight, drink less frequently, etc. These are personal ambitions, sure. But I'm still satisfied with where I am in life. I don't think life serves any purpose, so regardless of whatever I choose to do, I can rest assured it ultimately doesn't matter. I'm like ... an optimistic nihilist? Not quite an existentialist? I don't know, but I've learned to find peace with my shortcomings without resorting to becoming complacent about my personal goals. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterOfCider 692 Posted June 1, 2017 Share Posted June 1, 2017 Nope. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kezini 11 Posted June 1, 2017 Share Posted June 1, 2017 Used to think I would be satisfied with my life after I graduated college and got a job. Wasn't true at all, I feel so lost and hopeless now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SCAK46 423 Posted June 1, 2017 Share Posted June 1, 2017 i hate my life, i contemplate suicide everyday, I'm losing my will to live more and more everyday.If you still feeling this way you can talk to me if you ever need someone to vent to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilkay45 147 Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 Especially for those who already graduated and has a job, but not limited to them, are you satisfied with how your life is going right now? Do you regret one big thing that you should have done when you where a kid that could have changed your present life? I regret not learning certain instrument, not learning enough in school and not being sociable. I could have known a better choice or a better goal in life.. I mean, I could have done it if my parents and older people beside me pushed me into it.. like a suggestion from them but they don't bother since they are busy with their jobs (?).. I'm not trying to blame them or something but isn't it their "responsibility" to guide you while you're growing up..? I'm not satisfied with my life tbh.. I feel like I want to learn more but I don't know where to start and don't have the motivation.. I want to achieve many things but I just cant do it.. I know everything is not too late but how bout you? Wow, I feel the same way as you. Except I haven't graduate yet. I'm taking a longer time because it was hard to get classes and I had to take a break last quarter because of personal reasons. About to go into my 6th year of college. But watching almost everyone graduate and/or moving on with their lives like getting into a relationship or whatever made me feel empty. I'm just here almost mid 20s still fangirling over kpop and have health anxiety already and don't have many friends. I'm in a major where it requires a lot of hard work and I feel like I'm not up to par with my skills as a 6th year. I felt like i should of work more and did more side project/individual project. I also wanted to make a lot of stuff like fanarts and more productive stuff but never found the motivation. I was never socialble in high school and in college it's even harder because i go to a college where everyone mainly commutes and just go home afterwards or have jobs and stuff. It was so hard to make friends until I joined a club but I was never really close to anyone besides two people. But im not really close to those two people anymore. and I felt like I didn't really fit in either. I'm also not a party person so I don't like going to parties and socialize. Almost everyone I know in that club graduated and I don't even bother go to club meetings anymore because it's all new people and it doesn't feel the same. I regret not trying harder to maintain friendship. I feel like I'm okay with meeting new people but it's hard for me to maintain it. Sorry if I spill too much about my life lol but I somewhat just wanna let it out. But to answer your question. I'm not completely satisfied with my life but I try to find ways to appreciate it and give gratitude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marie Callenders 30 Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 no tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
livinglifeonpause 388 Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 when i'm alone, yeah completely. when i step outside and reality and society hit, not at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coffeencherry 56 Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 not really, but ive come in terms with myself as of lately, trying to be even though im alone bear things and its hard. i want to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enki91 91 Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 Honestly, no. Just like OP, i still have so many plans but dunno where to start, nor do i have the motivation right now. I sure do regret alot of things in the past, but i think that goes for everyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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