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Do you stay friends with someone after you find out they have a crush on you?


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It makes me uncomfortable for a little bit. I get over it quickly and still hang out with them though and act like it never happened. I just don't go into their house or car. That's my rule with all guys though. Never go into their house or car unless I'm dating them.

What about you guys? Is the awkwardness too much to handle for you guys?

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Yes same. I pretended like it never happened and continued to talk in the same manner as before. He got the hint and went along. Then after 1-2 months we are good friends!


No same. I pretended like it never happened and continued to talk in the same manner as before. He got the hint and went along. Then after 1-2 months we are good friends!

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my best friend in high school confessed to me and for like 2-3 weeks afterwards it was awkward because i felt so bad about turning her down

 

but we went back to normal afterwards and remained friends for years, just like nothing happened

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Only if they do nothing weird. For example I remember a girl who at one point was acting funny around me, and trying to get closer and having more physical contact with me, I just played it dumb and eventually nothing happened and we remained as friends.

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This happened to me once before when a guy I was best friends with for years suddenly came out with the whole "I love you more than a friend should" speech.

 

Anyway, my feelings for him really were just platonic... I never once looked at him and thought, "I want to date you". We had fun and had great conversations, but I just wasn't attracted to him like that. And he kept on telling me his feelings, and I felt terrible every time I turned him down, but he was just overly persistent which just ruined our friendship in the end. When he got his friends to talk to me and pressurise me even more, I just had to end the friendship, even though it was harsh for him, I didn't want him to think I was leading him on or for him to get his hopes up that there would ever be a chance for us.

 

In an ideal world though, I'd love to still stay friends with someone.

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