Please help... What should I do?

[windy_dayy]

I've been lurking on OH for years, mostly reading posts and updating news, but now I've decided to make an account just because I'm having this serious mental problem.

 

I'm a fan of BTS (even though I won't admit I'm an ARMY) and my ultimate bias is Jungkook. In the past I just loved BTS as a whole group and I didn't care too much about my bias, but recently I've developed an obsession with him. Everytime I watched BTS's MV and shows, I kept paying attention to Jungkook. My eyes can't leave him. Yes I know this happens to everyone, but in my case it's just something... in a more serious way. It's more than having a crush on him. Now everytime I see BTS, I feel scared because I'm afraid of seeing Jungkook, that makes me feel depressed so much. It's weird that it never happened before, even though I've been a fan for years.

 

So I tried watching other groups (mostly the groups I already knew) to relieve my stress, and yes I tried to find my new bias too, but in the end my mind just came back to Jungkook. I tried to find awkward moments of him to trick my mind that he's not perfect, but everything was still the same in my mind. Going out, playing video games, talking to my friends,... didn't help much either.....

 

Also, it's only about celebrity obsession, but also my addiction to Kpop. Since then, I kept watching Kpop for hours, especially weekly idols and other variety shows. I spend like 3 hours watching them and then 2 hours lurking on OH everyday. I thought I should take a break from kpop for a while, but I just, couldn't. It's weird that the more I watch Kpop, the more relieve I feel. but the more I'm involved to this stuff, the more obsessed I get too. It's like a stupid loop that has no end...

 

What should I do now? get banned from Kpop, or keep watching Kpop? or something else?

I'd appreciate any advice here.

[Soilei]

get a boyfriend :D

[SGT]

get a boyfriend :D

OP negged you lmao

[Soilei]

OP negged you lmao

 

[windy_dayy]

OP negged you lmao

 

I did not

[SGT]

I did not

hmmm you getting -10 won and them suddenly getting a neg are just coincidences then?

[livesfordrama]

how old are you???

[windy_dayy]

 

hmmm you getting -10 won and them suddenly getting a neg are just coincidences then?

 

 

I was in another thread.

I do appreciate any comment here.

[windy_dayy]

get a boyfriend :D

 

To answer that, I do have a boyfriend.

[✧ Quinchana ✧]

Your obsession with Jungkook isn't healthy at all, but you'll probably get over it later.

[Nocturnal Owl]

OP you chose the wrong fandom and wrong board to ask :D   (some)ARMY are just pathetic and dumb as fuck :D

[woooy]

Is something stressful going on in your life? With school or family or work or friends or money or health, etc? Is the only way you can stop thinking about or stressing over this event, to think about kpop instead? It is quite common to replace one stress with an obsession about something else.

[windy_dayy]

Is something stressful going on in your life? With school or family or work or friends or money or health, etc? Is the only way you can stop thinking about or stressing over this event, to think about kpop instead? It is quite common to replace one stress with an obsession about something else.

 

No, nothing's stressful in my life. I'm still a Kpop fan like I've been for years, but Idk why I became like this. I really wanted to be like I was before - a healthy Kpop fan

[delulubae]

It's more than having a crush on him. Now everytime I see BTS, I feel scared because I'm afraid of seeing Jungkook, that makes me feel depressed so much.

this level of obsession is not healthy

 

if you're using this to avoid real problems in life, solve em and get help asap  

[holywater hyung]

Just enjoy it while it last. Usually real life responsibilities will naturally drift you away from Kpop especially when you get a job and face many "adult problems" (true story).

[Zaiku]

I could barely stay here for a couple of minutes. lol

Honestly though, try getting a productive hobby, like a sport, that will take your attention.

[Sana Minatozaki]

get a boyfriend :D

[Soilei]

 

get a boyfriend :D

 

 

 

 

lol i thought you are the same person from the above haha. sorry. didnt mean to quote you :c

[windy_dayy]

lol i thought you are the same person from the above haha. sorry. didnt mean to quote you :c

What are you trying to say here? Lol

 

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[your oppa wants me]

lmao im just gonna rip on u and say how can u like jungkook when youve seen his nose that shit is titanic that shit must be true love

[RIP Shikkie ��]

Yeah... that level of obsession is kinda... iffy.

 

Idk what to tell you other than find something else to do and restrict the amount of Kpop stuff you watch.

 

Also, it could possibly be a prolonged phase. I used to be REALLY into kpop and it was actually really cringy but like 4 years later I'm super casual and don't really pay too much attention to kpop outside my bias group.

 

Anyways, find strength OP, you'll get over it! ~~

 

 

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[windy_dayy]

Yeah... that level of obsession is kinda... iffy.

 

Idk what to tell you other than find something else to do and restrict the amount of Kpop stuff you watch.

 

Also, it could possibly be a prolonged phase. I used to be REALLY into kpop and it was actually really cringy but like 4 years later I'm super casual and don't really pay too much attention to kpop outside my bias group.

 

Anyways, find strength OP, you'll get over it! ~~

 

 

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Thank you, I appreciate that

 

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[Silent Dawn]

Everyone seems make fun of this kind of topic, which they shouldn't have