WestWorld 1,213 Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 I recently broke up with my bf and it's the first time I've been this heart broken. I think it's the first time I fell for someone so hard so this pain feels incredibly new to me. I feel like vomiting, crying, sleeping, etc I don't have the energy to do anything. How long must this pain last? What can I do to stop being so depressed? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessica's G-string 3,589 Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 you'll get over it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PurachinaDisuko 3,721 Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 It's going to be tough, Op, but stay strong!! Time will heal your heart in this case. I honestly think you should cry it all out when you have the energy, as crying has been proven to have therapeutic effects. Then you can work on "getting back to normal". Don't rush it, but don't let it stop you from doing super important things in your life too (like having fun, doing something for work/school). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gold Digger 200 Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 aw sweetie you'll be okay I would recommend organizing or cleaning your room. On top of that try to talk to someone you're super close to & vent! That usually helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thigh-high feminist 15,771 Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 I recently broke up with my bf and it's the first time I've been this heart broken. I think it's the first time I fell for someone so hard so this pain feels incredibly new to me. I feel like vomiting, crying, sleeping, etc I don't have the energy to do anything. How long must this pain last? What can I do to stop being so depressed?Wait, only time will heal it. (You'll get over him, I promise you.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GalaxunnieSuperOppa 5,997 Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 It's okay to cry and it's okay to be sad. But know you won't feel horrible forever! Don't let this heartbreak take over you! Go out with friends or channel your emotions to make something nice like a poem or a drawing (even if they aren't perfect, it's okay~). Time will heal your heart. Take care of yourself! I repeat: Don't let this heartbreak take over you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LisaVandercunt 19 Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 I recently broke up with my bf and it's the first time I've been this heart broken. I think it's the first time I fell for someone so hard so this pain feels incredibly new to me. I feel like vomiting, crying, sleeping, etc I don't have the energy to do anything. How long must this pain last? What can I do to stop being so depressed? Best way to get over someone is to get under someone new Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daybreak 148 Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 Time will heal your wound. But other than that, you can always distract yourself - such as watching TV or hanging out with your friends. It's nice to spoil yourself after a breakup! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VirtualEscape 3 Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 Watch Anime! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sayuri 762 Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 Break up can be 1 : a good thing for you, time to take care of yourself, reflection, and then get back together even stronger. Or 2 : that just means you weren't meant to be, and something better is coming for you. Honestly, since you said you were really attached and fell for him, that means it was deep. So I don't think you'll get over it quickly. If you need to cry, do it but life must goes on, go out, talk with your friends, family etc. Only time will tell if you and your ex are in the 1st or 2nd situation. Be strong OP, it'll hurt less with time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose. 4,207 Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 You drink it away. Or if you don't drink, distract yourself. Even though it's likely you two did everything together, there has to be something that can potentially get your mind off him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pingas 2,684 Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 It hurts I know it's so painful, but you've gotta find something to take your mind off it, for me I just played guitar and drums all day and drowned myself with sad songs, believe it or not it helped, but just find things to take it off your mind and in time you'll be over it, I know it's easier said than done but it is possible Best way to get over someone is to get under someone new Lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WestWorld 1,213 Posted May 14, 2017 Author Share Posted May 14, 2017 Thank you all for the wonderful advice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 Yeah, you can feel very depressed and in some cases they say breaking up can be comparable to when someone close dies but in either case there's only so much you can't suffer from that and eventually you just get over it. Maybe try to talk about it with someone who can stand you crying and being sad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wonderwice 1,268 Posted May 15, 2017 Share Posted May 15, 2017 Aww OP, I can really relate. I recently broke up with mine and I'm still having a hard time T_T It's harder because we're classmates and I see him every week. I can't even look at him anymore or I would get tears in my eyes. I was so depressed since it was also my first time having my heart broken. The first time I've been in a relationship. Like with others said, I guess my advice is to talk it out with someone or another friend about it in person. Don't keep your feelings bottled up. Try out the no contact rule. Stop looking at his social media posts. Delete his pictures or number if you have to. Keep yourself busy by doing something new, something you like or haven't done in awhile. Love yourself more. Don't waste your time thinking about him everyday. I hope we both can move on with our lives soon! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bom 2,161 Posted May 15, 2017 Share Posted May 15, 2017 I got over my most recent heartbreak by hanging out with friends, drinking alcohol and listening to upbeat K-pop songs. Time also is a big help. Keep smiling OP. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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