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[pannatic] Today, I met the kid who bullied me for the first time in 6 years


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Today, I met the kid who bullied me for the first time in 6 years


I was in the library and looking for place to sit. I accidentally made an eye-contact with her. She seemed to be surprised when our eyes met, but I acted as if it was nothing. I squinted my eyes, pretending as if I couldn't see her clearly from where I stand because I have a really bad eyesight, and then I left to see if there was place for me to sit in the library.



 

I wish I could do some revenge, maybe later if we meet again on our way back homeã… ã… ã… 

 

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-Oh.. If you really meet her on your back home, just stare at her from head to toe and put something like I-pity-you kind of expressions!!
 
-The most important thing is, don't avoid her eyes! Prove her that you're stronger now!
 
-I've encountered the same thing before.. I met the kid who bullied me in a cafe, she was talking to her college friends and when she saw me, she pointed her finger at me and said "Look, that's the kid I used to bully back then. She looks stupid, doesn't she?" And laughedã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
 
-If you walk past through her, snort in front of her. Stare at her from head to toe, laugh in disbelief and walk away in a really chic and cool manner. 
 
-It must be really uncomfortable for you..ã… ã… ã… 
 
-The kid who bullied me studied abroad and now she's already back in South Korea. I heard her dream is to be a stewardess, which means, we have the same dream. But she's really good at English, and it makes me feel uneasy and upset at the same time. A few days ago, we met in front of our school and I just walked pass through her as if I didn't see her.. I wonder if she saw me and what was she thinking at that time..
 
-A few days ago, I was on my way home and I saw this woman who went to the same college as me. We made an eye-contact and she pointed at me, and talked something about me to her boyfriend, and they both laughed after that..
 
-Just ignore her. Don't let her have a big impact in your life. Don't pay any attention, ignore her. Sometimes that's how you win over someone else.
 
-For me..ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ I met the kid who bullied me in the street, and she said to her boyfriend "That's the girl I'm talking about" and they both laughed.. Is that something that you should be proud of? That's really pathetic..

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-If you walk past through her, snort in front of her. Stare at her from head to toe, laugh in disbelief and walk away in a really chic and cool manner.

 

This. But if she talks to you call her a dollar hoe that wears crocs in fall.

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-I've encountered the same thing before.. I met the kid who bullied me in a cafe, she was talking to her college friends and when she saw me, she pointed her finger at me and said "Look, that's the kid I used to bully back then. She looks stupid, doesn't she?" And laughedã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹

 

Why was the bully so proud she bullied someone??? That's so gross especially considering Korea's bullying problem and suicide rate, I would have pistol whipped that heffa.

 

 

-If you walk past through her, snort in front of her. Stare at her from head to toe, laugh in disbelief and walk away in a really chic and cool manner.

This. But if she talks to you call her a dollar hoe that wears crocs in fall.

 

^^this

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Just don't do anything. Try to look down on her in your head. You are better than her. She doesn't deserve your revenge. And I mean it's already 6 years ago, if she still laughs at you, she must me really mature and intelligent.

From my experience I had something like the same, I just met the people in the university again. But this time i was way stronger and i had gained confidence throughout the years. I just smiled and laughed. Life is to short for this shit, keep going and smile and take everyshit with humor even tho it hurts. :)

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Act as if you have never seen them. Doesn't matter what kind of reaction you might trigger, it doesn't matter. People like those are less relevant than the least relevant thing in the world. You are better at any aspect simply because them acting like that made themselves worthless on their own.  

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-I've encountered the same thing before.. I met the kid who bullied me in a cafe, she was talking to her college friends and when she saw me, she pointed her finger at me and said "Look, that's the kid I used to bully back then. She looks stupid, doesn't she?" And laughedã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹

 

Why was the bully so proud she bullied someone??? That's so gross especially considering Korea's bullying problem and suicide rate, I would have pistol whipped that heffa.

 

 

 

^^this

What's a heffa?

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I remember I saw my bully once in a restaurant. He was the server and I was the customer with my mom. So many thoughts crossed my head like "should i be rude?" "he has to be nice cause im the customer" but in the end, I didn't do anything. Sometimes its just better to let it go. I think karma got him in the end though because at that time, I was about to leave for Japan to start a job and he was working at a restaurant. Not that that is a job to look down upon but I felt good that I didn't have to work in one. Service jobs suck.

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Just don't do anything. Try to look down on her in your head. You are better than her. She doesn't deserve your revenge. And I mean it's already 6 years ago, if she still laughs at you, she must me really mature and intelligent.

From my experience I had something like the same, I just met the people in the university again. But this time i was way stronger and i had gained confidence throughout the years. I just smiled and laughed. Life is to short for this shit, keep going and smile and take everyshit with humor even tho it hurts. :)

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  • 3 weeks later...

I have encountered that experience. I meet her in public transportation, she was so close. Weirdly, I don't have any bad feeling to her anymore. It's the opposite from revenge, at that time I really want to befriend her. But she avoid my eyes.

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