TrueColors 582 Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 So here is the back story: I'm talking to this girl right now and we were supposed to go on a date Friday, but she had to cancel because she couldn't find anyone to take her shift at her job. I said cool let's reschedule for next week, she agreed. Well, I saw her today on campus sitting with some friends and I didn't really want to interact with her, so I did the pretending to look at my phone thing, so I wouldn't have to say hi to her, which was really stupid of me but I did it. Well she saw me obviously and now I feel like a fool. She probably thinks that I'm mad at her for canceling which I'm not. I just looked like crap and I wasn't feeling well; I didn't really want to be seen by anyone in public but I wanted to get food... What should I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Her 445 Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 Just tell her the truth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaehyunnies 3,170 Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 Just tell her the truth. ^ Agree. Id tell her the truth but in a subtle way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theidolcyborg 383 Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 Just be HONEST with Her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sana Minatozaki 3,305 Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 that was a bad move , you should apologize Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrueColors 582 Posted April 16, 2017 Author Share Posted April 16, 2017 ^ Agree. Id tell her the truth but in a subtle way. How can I be subtle about it? that was a bad move , you should apologize Yeah I'm kicking myself right now trust me. I really like this girl too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaehyunnies 3,170 Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 How can I be subtle about it? Yeah I'm kicking myself right now trust me. I really like this girl too. Im not sure if subtle is the best word. Even when I regret things deeply I try to seem calm and not desperate; make sure to let her know that you truly regret this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cymae 646 Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 You're probably overthinking. Next time you see her, say hi and if she's acting normal then no need to mention it. But if you feel like she's acting weird then definitely talk about it and say you didn't mean to ignore her or whatever you've done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrueColors 582 Posted April 16, 2017 Author Share Posted April 16, 2017 You're probably overthinking. Next time you see her, say hi and if she's acting normal then no need to mention it. But if you feel like she's acting weird then definitely talk about it and say you didn't mean to ignore her or whatever you've done. Yeah I probably am. She probably thinks that I probably didn't notice her, because I usually say hi to her when I see her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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pumpernikiel 1,277 Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 As someone said - I would just say "hi" next time and observe the reaction. If you are impatient you should write to her. Not asking about the situation - just usual thing - how are you or sth. If you notice that she is acting colder or more tense than usual just mention the situation, said if this is a reason for that behavior, say you didn't mean it, it just happened like that and say you're sorry. It is no big deal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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