As a lesbian , do you find difficult to find someone ?

[Overthesuun]

Hi ~

 

I'm lesbian, i find very difficult to find another lesbian especially in my country ( France ) , do you ever feel this feeling too ? Did you have a relationship ? ^^

[518]

It would be hard if i wanted to find someone

[Fool for WINNER]

Thats your fault for being a Lebanese

[PaboWasseo✩]

theres apps for us and also clubs and bars for gays/lesbicans

 

idk about france but it isnt that hard in the uk, takes a lil effort to find one to click with but theres lots of options

 

and yep ive had a quite a few relationships

[starsocks]

If you're finding it hard to meet someone, online dating might be a good option to consider

[Hqnnik]

Yes very, where I live.

[Nayeonnie]

Yes, even more when you don't "look" lesbian or don't want distance dating. 

[denizen mars]

yeah

 

but I mean, right now it's because I'm making approximately 0 effort to find anyone. 

[baechulgi]

yeah but then again im not really putting the effort to get myself out there since i have other priorities. also im ugly af lol

[HoneyBee12]

I really want to ask something.. I have this friend who has really short hair and does like engingeering and would hangout with guys.... because thats what her class is made up of.

And then me, my girl friends and her were hanging out... she gave me a hug and said I was bony because I am a skinny person.. and then later on she tells others... isn't it nice hugging me etc.. and then her chin was like put on my shoulder and gave me a back hug with her body put really close to mine.. after a quick few seconds I kind of like pushed her away in a nice way.... omg.... what do you think about this?

[Pyo Hyemi]

no

[Marluxia]

Yeah but I've started signing up for dating sites/apps.

[Nev Schulman]

As an asexual (ugly) straight person I struggle as much you

[SCAK46]

You would think living in Los Angeles would make it easy to find someone, but nope. I had to give up years ago.

[exot9]

I'm bisexual, but yes. Not that I'm looking for someone.

[PeachyKeys!]

Where are you looking? Have you tried online?

[Kayden411]

It can be hard, a lot of it is just self doubt but everyone experiences that

 

To be honest, if you are having no luck with your current attempts then change the environment you are in. If bars, clubs, etc don't work then try a coffee shop, or library to meet someone like minded.

 

I met ma girl online talking about Mamamoo though so not sure if I can be trusted....