shade 112 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Took me out for makeup shopping today. I'm a guy that wears makeup, my dad is very supportive of me and during a gay rally, he even went as far as to wear a shirt that says "My son is gay and normal". But today, I was buying makeup in Sephora and these bunch of guys (with their girlfriends) were laughing at me and my dad. And one of them went along the lines whispering to one of his friend "is his dad gay too?". I think my dad heard this and I felt bad for him. We were driving home and he told me "don't worry bud" and I think he knew why I was quiet during the entire journey home. I feel like people look down on my dad and I feel like I'm a huge embarrassment for him, I don't know what to do. Should I stop him from accompanying me to go make up shopping? My mom usually follows me too but my mom is back in her hometown to settle family issues. The thing is I don't do manly things... and there's hardly any manly stuff that I do with my dad other than rock climbing and stuff. He seems to enjoy scouting makeup with me and even knows some brands and the shades that I like but I don't want him to go through that torment of having other people look down on him for having a gay son. Idk what to do... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Real Juu 367 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Your dad is the best. Tell him he is the best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pingas 2,684 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 I read the title and I thought you were saying you're gay and your own dad, was confused nah fam, they were cunts, your dad seems proud of you no matter what, don't let some dropkicks put you off doing those things with your dad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
otter. 3,413 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Your dad is amazing. You're so lucky to have him. Just ignore that kinda people. Your dad is a grown up man so i don't think he cares about that kinda stuff as much as you do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nein 64 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Your dad is amazing. Ignore those losers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red 3,379 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Stick around your dad He is goals Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aliza 985 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Make sure to show your dad that you appreciate him honestly because he sounds like a wonderful person and parent. I still haven't told my parents that I'm bisexual because I know that my mom would be fine with it but my dad wouldn't be okay with it at all. It's really nice that your dad is accepting of you and even goes out of his way to spend time with you like that. Don't let nasty people like the ones in Sephora ruin spending time with your dad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twiceandfire 923 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 your dad just became my bias. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mischo 7,462 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Your dad is amazing. Fuck those guys bunch of low losers.. dont let them bring you down.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapmon's Ahjussi Husband 2,299 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Took me out for makeup shopping today. I'm a guy that wears makeup, my dad is very supportive of me and during a gay rally, he even went as far as to wear a shirt that says "My son is gay and normal". But today, I was buying makeup in Sephora and these bunch of guys (with their girlfriends) were laughing at me and my dad. And one of them went along the lines whispering to one of his friend "is his dad gay too?". I think my dad heard this and I felt bad for him. We were driving home and he told me "don't worry bud" and I think he knew why I was quiet during the entire journey home. I feel like people look down on my dad and I feel like I'm a huge embarrassment for him, I don't know what to do. Should I stop him from accompanying me to go make up shopping? My mom usually follows me too but my mom is back in her hometown to settle family issues. The thing is I don't do manly things... and there's hardly any manly stuff that I do with my dad other than rock climbing and stuff. He seems to enjoy scouting makeup with me and even knows some brands and the shades that I like but I don't want him to go through that torment of having other people look down on him for having a gay son. Idk what to do... This for that; swalow ur vomit and try to do something "manly" with ur dad like rock climbing or some other weird straight thing so u make him happy, and be a trooper about it, there will always be idiot, but they didnt stopped me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcey 7,752 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Fuck them. If its something that you and your dad enjoy doing together then don't let others ruin it. Next time if you hear idiots like them don't be afraid to speak up to them. You and your dad have been so so brave. You can't back down now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimchidiablo 6,189 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 looks like god sent you a gift, your dad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpaceDaddyCutieSmoochSmooc 1,078 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Your dad is the best. Tell him he is the best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GalaxunnieSuperOppa 5,997 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 You are lucky to have such a supportive dad. So many don't have this luxuries. Don't let these strangers who know nothing about you and have no right to judge you for expressing who you are think you need to hide yourself. Go shopping with your Dad. Be proud of yourself and flaunt who you are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shade 112 Posted April 6, 2017 Author Share Posted April 6, 2017 Thanks so much guys, I won't let this beat me up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarukaNanase 377 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Your dad is great, ignore those idiots. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eternal glow 6,196 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 You have an amazing dad who is so incredibly supportive of you! From the way you're describing him, the last thing he would feel is embarrassed from going shopping with you. If other people look down on you, then they're the ones with a problem and not you or your family. Keep doing you and going shopping! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skythatpourslight 🌷 821 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Your dad is a gift. Don't worry about them irrelevant assholes, you have your life to fulfill Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnny_9ss 1,338 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Your dad... man. I'm almost having tears in my eyes as I'm writing this. What a great guy. God bless his heart! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sakura IS FEARLESS 192 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 seriously fuck those ignorant asshats dont ever let them overwhelm or influence you! Your dad is soo great and supportive not every parents has the big heart to take such initiative you should be soo proud of him,not feeling pity,esp not just because some fools opinion and i think what would help him is if u becomes confident in who u are Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dbellvm 766 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Tell him he is the best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kstarnet 1,502 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 I'm glad that you have an understanding dad. Make sure to treasure him as parents like yours are hard to come by Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Heavenrise 357 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Your dad wants to be part of your life and you want to shut him down? Why would you think that'd be a good idea? Go out there and just give him a big hug, bro. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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