[pc] [marriage/in-laws] MY FRIEND IS SHOWING HER SEX APPEAL TO MY BOYFRIENDã…‹ã…‹ã…‹

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[marriage/in-laws] MY FRIEND IS SHOWING HER SEX APPEAL TO MY BOYFRIENDã…‹ã…‹ã…‹

 

It’s not to be point that it worries me but it’s like the title says,
My friend is showing off her sex appeal to my boyfriend, so how can I make her stop?
I want some wise advice so I’m writing this.
 
I’m a woman in my late twenties.
Yesterday, I met with a friend I must see once or twice per year and we had a dinner date together.
We were eating pizza and we were also drinking beer togetherã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
Both of us were getting excited so we decided to go to a makkeolli (T/N: Korean rice wine) placeã…‹ã…‹
Usually, we just eat dinner together and then part our ways and my boyfriend comes pick me up to bring me home but this time, I randomly suggested to go drink makkeolli, so my boyfriend just ended up tagging alongã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
So the three of us went to drink makgeolli while having chicken stew.
I’m not a good drinker since I’m only an office worker, so I was drinking moderately,
But my friend is a manager so she can drink pretty wellã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
 
So my friend was drinking a lot and became a bit tipsy. And suddenly she looked at us and said that we didn’t match each otherㅋㅋㅋ
She said that my boyfriend was handsome but that I was too average
 
My boyfriend is 1 year younger than me.
To be honest, his face looks manly rather than handsome.
When he was young, he used to be an athlete so he’s pretty tall and his body is niceㅋㅋㅋ
(But contrarily to his looks, he’s rather timidㅋㅋㅋㅋ)
 
Usually, we just joke and swear at each other for funã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ but this time, she didn’t sound like she was joking. She even said that her boyfriend looked f*cking average and started to laugh.
But after that, she kept saying how my boyfriend was good looking and how he was “her styleâ€.
She  kept asking him to drink with her (without asking me) and be like “one shot~~â€.
At first, she was just under the influence of alcohol and was babbling around but it slowly became worse and worse.
I started to not feel well so I was like “ya, cut it downã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ it’s getting boring and late so let’s just go homeâ€
So we just went home after thatã…‹ã…‹
 
But today…. My boyfriend called around noon and he told something shockingㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
 
Yesterday, I left my seat 3 times.
2 times to go pick up calls and 1 time to go to the washrooms.
 
At first, when I went to pick up my call, nothing happened.
 
But the second time I went out to pick up my call, I was taking a long time.
So my friend did thisã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
She told him that because her chest was too heavy, she has to put them on the tableã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ my friend does have a bigger chest than the average peopleã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
My boyfriend just thought that she must have been very drunkã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹;;; so he said that he will go to the washrooms too and was leaving his seat butã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
My friend said “so you hate chest stories? Then which part of the body do you like?â€ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ what the f*ckã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
My boyfriend didn’t reply her and just went to the washrooms. While he was in the washrooms, I came back and she acted like nothing happened so I didn’t know anythingㅋㅋ
 

When I later left to the washrooms, ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
She was still babbling around my boyfriend so I'm not sure what she said.
My boyfriend was feeling uneasy so he didn't say anything and was just on his phone.
He then asked her "so let's just drink this and go?"
and my friend said ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
"No? Just take XX (OP) home and come back"
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ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
She said thatã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
I'm still dumbfoundedã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
 
To be honest, I was texting with my friend and saying how next time, she just shouldn't drink at all.
I was on my way out and texted her first.
My friend woke up late so she only replied me at around 10AM and she was acting like nothing happenedã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
But my boyfriend told me that story in the afternoon
so I'm still speechless nowã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
 
Is she pretending like she doesn't remember or does she actually not remember?
 
No matter what, what happened happened 
I was so mad and I felt betrayed and I don't think that we can stay friends anymoreã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹
Should I ask her about it first? Or should I not confront her and let it pass?
 
I'm so mad that I can't help but laugh about itã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹

(T/N: pic not included)
 
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• ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ |2017.03.27 17:29 ì‹ ê³ í•˜ê¸°
• You should properly ask your friend about thisã…‹ã…‹Tell her "You were drunk and was talking about your big chest to my boyfriend and put it on the table, you even told him to ditch me and come back by himself?ã…‹ã…‹ My boyfriend was totally scaredã…‹ã…‹ã…‹He said that he can't see you anymore because he's too scared"ã…‹ã…‹
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• íŒ©í­ |2017.03.27 17:01 ì‹ ê³ í•˜ê¸°
• You should tell this to everyone you know. So when they meet with her, they will tell their male friends to be careful. She talked about her heavy chest and put it on the table. OP-ah you're just letting other people know about this b*tch. Cut your relationship, but before let other people know about her
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• ㅇㄱㅇ |2017.03.27 16:45 ì‹ ê³ í•˜ê¸°
• What do you want to ask her? You should send her something like this "I heard everything that happened yesterday from my boyfriend. And our friendship ended since then. I didn't know that you were a crazy b*tch like this."
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[IBetrayedHanbinForSewoon]

Hiss hiss

[Nev Schulman]

She is canceled. 

[aiacandy]

Sounds like she was feeling envious of OP and was having problems with her own boyfriend, so she started snaking yikes! I hope she was just really drunk, but she should be more cautious around possible snake friend if she's not going to confront her.

[Saint Twice]

Your friend is a taylor swift. 

[GalaxunnieSuperOppa]

this tea tho

[Jimin's GF]

This story is pretty sad and hilarious at the same time

 

 

Being drunk makes you do things you would love to and dont dare to do... It's not always directly linked to what you do (a girl may hit on a boy, doesn't mean she likes him, it may "only" mean she needs to feel like she can be liked by a boy, which she doesn't feel when sober...)

 

So idk about her. It feels like she is not satisfied with her boyfriend, though. Calling him "average"? Maybe she wants someone good-looking... Not necessarily her friend's boyfriend but yeah, that was still pretty rude 

[sunshinetrbl]

snake

[Twicebabies]

Gosh, I had a similar friend

 

Get rid of her from your life

 

and warn all your friends who have boyfriends, at least that's what I did. Just told them to be careful around her when you're with your boyfriend.

[roshg]

Girl you gotta cut her. She'll do something and use being drunk as excuse.

[Hello Aya!]

Oh, I had a friend who used to do that. Not to the level of "chest story" tho, but she used to flirt with fellow friends' crush or boyfriends :|

[campfire]

To me she just sounds really really really drunk.

[Black Alien Oppa]

 

why do snakes are trending RN..

[ThatHoeFelicia]

I would recommend confronting her and then cutting ties off, since the op only sees her like twice a year it shouldn't be hard to get her out of her life.

[Serechan]

If it was me, I would stop being her friend. I already had someone similar like her in past and decide to keep being friends but she doesn't value the friendship as much as I did. It's better to cut ties now.

[juicy milky thighs]

I want to hang out with your friend

[kimchi-nyoen]

The boyfriend should have cheated. 

[MinnieMin]

[Orion Is Here]

Drop ha.

[HARAM]

it's really nice of him to make her know about this

[Byakugan]

Whoa, I did not expect this

[Flywithsica]

Kill that bitch

[SteelHeart]

Snakes no longer live in the forest girl, they're in cities too. Protect your boyfriend~

[lolski]

Comment #3 sounds like a good plan

[양 지]

It's my personal belief that alcohol just makes you lose your logic to do the things you actually want to do. OP's friend hitting on her bf is not caused by the alcohol, she just got braver through the consumption of it to actually follow through lol.