Why are females more sexually picky?

[Property of Goddess Irene]

There was a topic on another forum that said men are more 'equal opportunity' when it comes to sex. For example, if a man really needed sex he would even bang a woman he found sexually unattractive. On the other hand, a woman would almost never attempt sex with a man she didn't find attractive just to get off. This example doesn't include sex for money or another type of advantage, just purely for momentary physical pleasure.

In other words, men would have sex with ugly or overweight women just to get rid of the 'poison', but women would rather go lesbian than have a scrawny or ugly guy inside them.

 

The difference might be that men are more horny and don't care how they get off. And also due to the mechanical differences of both genders, men are 'releasing' stuff out, while subconsciously women may feel they are 'absorbing' the inferior qualities of the men they find unappealing.

 

If you were really turned on, but only an ugly person was available to you, would you still have sex with them or abstain?

[ArseneLupin]

I personally wouldnt have sex with an unattractive or fat girl in my whole life

[oppa's]

I would not abstain but I'd rather have sex with my hand than with a random unattractive man.

[Your Juan and only]

Virgins answer this sorry jk I rather have sex with someone I'm attracted to

[LoveYooJiae]

Even amongst animals it's normal for the females to only want to mate with the best males. That's why males have things like colorful plumage and dances and whatnot to attract the females– they need to prove their worth.

[mgl]

I would have to be attracted to the woman. I'm not that horny to go for the first one that I see.

[TheProphetLaLa]

Why would you fuck a person you found unattractive just because you were horny?? idgi...No need to mate with the fuglies when I can just take care of it myself.

[Grape Soda]

Gotta be attracted to u sorry dude.........and I'm still with my card so yea not giving that to just anyone

[Hoplz]

I think so tbh

[Irrelephant]

The generalizations here are way too broad. 

 

Are there not women, after long periods of no sex, who decide to lower their standards a bit when an opportunity comes by?

Are there not men who have any standard at all? 

 

I'd like to think that there are people out there who measure their self worth with who they decide to have sex with regardless of their own gender. Or just something as simple as being attracted to them in the first place......

[Almondandlime]

There's more orientations out there than just gay/straight btw.

[Jon Snow]

No I would probably lose the feeling of wanting to get off looking at an unattractive person.

[Midna]

 

 

im not straight or lesbian tho

 

and attraction is important when sex is involved...

[kpoop]

i'd bang her lights out

 

as long as she doesn't smell.

[denizen mars]

sex isn't that great for me, so that's why I don't try to bang people I'm not attracted to. I sense this may be a factor for other female-bodied people, too. trying to orgasm/enjoy sex is hard for a lot of people

[jeong jaehyuns boyfriend]

it's an adaptation because females invest more in reproduction lol.

males invest less time and energy into reproduction and can afford to be promiscuous (im not joking).

 

females have to set aside a lot of resources and dedication into having just 1 child so she has to be selective to ensure that her child is successful.

[Property of Goddess Irene]

I don't think it has to do with 'worth' but preference. Many men find fat women unattractive or women who have ugly faces, but there's that saying they all produce the same feeling with their vagina, u just bend them over or put a bag on their head. Women probably are more conscious about it since they are on the receiving end.

[초췌]

um because guys that sleep with a bunch of girls are not really looked down upon

girls that do so, on the other hand......

[denizen mars]

um because guys that sleep with a bunch of girls are not really looked down upon

girls that do so, on the other hand......

also a big factor. but doesn't explain why other lesbians still don't want to bang me....sigh.

[21jumpstreet]

Because humans are still animals.

Reproduction is guaranteed by males trying to fuck every hole they see. Gene selection is done by female being picky about who they fuck.

[Property of Goddess Irene]

um because guys that sleep with a bunch of girls are not really looked down upon

girls that do so, on the other hand......

 

That's because men are hypocritical. They don't have much standards for themselves, but want women to have standards and be chaste.

 

On the other hand women usually don't care if a guy slept with a lot of women before. Instead that usually means that the guy is a catch for being wanted by many women and has more sexual experience. Those as seen as positives.

[aripod]

If he's not sexy and abs don't show we are not doing anything.

[twinky]

i think because somehow when it comes to sex, for some women it's not just purely enjoyment of sex. attraction and feelings are important factor to them as well

[Seto]

Well what defines ugly? If that means someone I'm personally not attracted too (which someone else might find attractive) then I'd say no.

When i was deprived of sex for months, I still couldn't find the most unattractive guy attractive enough for sex.

 

There is just way too much that goes into sex for me and a lot of women I know. Attraction is the BIGGEST ONE!

Body chemistry then package. I'm very picky with package as well all due to comfort and more etc etc.

 

Having sex with someone I find unattractive only benefits them.

I'm just not wired to want to fuk anything walking.

[Property of Goddess Irene]

It's also important for guys to realize that they cannot 'win' women over. If they are just not attracted to you, they will never like you for a legitimate relationship so move on. They would only use you for support or as a provider but not a person they like in that way.