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What did you write to get her mad, what finally made her block you?

 

I didn't write mean to her. I was nice to her the whole time. she just blocked me just m=because I was being mean to her friends and that I fetishize korean boys and talk about them like they're accessories. what does she mean talk about them like they're accessories?

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I didn't write mean to her. I was nice to her the whole time. she just blocked me just m=because I was being mean to her friends and that I fetishize korean boys and talk about them like they're accessories. what does she mean talk about them like they're accessories?

Well being mean to someone's friends isn't the smartest idea if you want to become friends with someone and with the accessories thing. It means she thinks you see them as objects to do your will, somewhat like a little lap dog.

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What did you say or do to her friends ?

well, her friend Rachel was acting crazy on twitter because Jiyoung told Rachel that I was stalking Jiyoung and then I wrote to Rachel on tumblr and told her that she's so paranoid and oversensitive. she made Lena and her other friend Erin block me on facbook. so I'll just talk to Rachel, Lena and Erin when I meet them at KCC. I don't care what they think anymore. Jiyoung told them and her other friends that go to NCSU block me on every social network, and ignore everything I say. that's just so irritating. 

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Well being mean to someone's friends isn't the smartest idea if you want to become friends with someone and with the accessories thing. It means she thinks you see them as objects to do your will, somewhat like a little lap dog.

 

see them as objects?! then how do I talk to my friends about celebrities?

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What did you write to get her mad, what finally made her block you?

Gurl, you should've read ops past threads. They're deleted doe and I'm assuming it was done under the OPs request because of the backlash she received with her previous threads.

 

 

Ot: she has every right to block you. I've seen enough of your threads to assume that you're obsessed with Jiyoung and her brother.

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see them as objects?! then how do I talk to my friends about celebrities?

Like they're musicians?

 

Obsession, both 'positive' and negative is bad for you. Objectifying and worshipping idols isn't good for your health and will turn people away from you.

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Gurl, you should've read ops past threads. They're deleted doe and I'm assuming it was done under the OPs request because of the backlash she received with her previous threads.

 

 

Ot: she has every right to block you. I've seen enough of your threads to assume that you're obsessed with Jiyoung and her brother.

 

I'm not obsessed with her and her brother anymore. I think my obsession with kpop is stealing my friends

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Like they're musicians?

 

Obsession, both 'positive' and negative is bad for you. Objectifying and worshipping idols isn't good for your health and will turn people away from you.

ohhh. :( I'm sorry. I'll stop obsessing with kpop and move on with my life. :) I apologized to Jiyoung on her twitter and to her friends on tumblr.

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ohhh. :( I'm sorry. I'll stop obsessing with kpop and move on with my life. :) I apologized to Jiyoung on her twitter and to her friends on tumblr.

There's always the possibility of just following it as a fan or with general interest. Like, look up the latest releases and see if they're any good.

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well, her friend Rachel was acting crazy on twitter because Jiyoung told Rachel that I was stalking Jiyoung and then I wrote to Rachel on tumblr and told her that she's so paranoid and oversensitive. she made Lena and her other friend Erin block me on facbook. so I'll just talk to Rachel, Lena and Erin when I meet them at KCC. I don't care what they think anymore. Jiyoung told them and her other friends that go to NCSU block me on every social network, and ignore everything I say. that's just so irritating. 

 

You should care. There is really only one acceptable option left: leave them alone (online, offline, at KCC, everywhere). Apologize if you feel that is the right thing to do, then leave them. Most people don't want to be friends with people who don't respect them. Then, for your own sake, learn what is and isn't acceptable social behaviour, so that you don't drive away the next person you try to befriend.

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You should care. There is really only one acceptable option left: leave them alone (online, offline, at KCC, everywhere). Apologize if you feel that is the right thing to do, then leave them. Most people don't want to be friends with people who don't respect them. Then, for your own sake, learn what is and isn't acceptable social behaviour, so that you don't drive away the next person you try to befriend.

ok thank you. i apologized to them on twitter and tumblr

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