sanityless 327 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 So I read this post over at tumblr: if a friend that you’re romantically interested in asks you out, reject him/her first as a test to see whether he’ll/she'll get angry and accuse you of friendzoning him/her or respect your decision and be willing to carry on being friends Um... I put myself in the shoes of the friend. If he rejected me first I would be feeling pretty down and depending on how much I liked him, really sad, so if after a couple of days he comes and "oh, I'm sorry I made you feel so horrible about yourself, but don't worry it was all a test" I'd be like Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 Then that would be that and I'd prob not talk to that person for awhile to get rid of my romantic feelings. So that would be a bad idea with me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teru 22,363 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 what a dumbass thing to do, what's the point of that I would cease being romantically interested in anyone who wanted to "test" me in anything Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mystiqurez 1,470 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 That's the stupidest thing I've read. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LunarE 1,319 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 If they were romantically interested, why would they need to do a test? That's just messing with somebody's feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash Ketchum 4,333 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 What an awful, terrible, horrendous, idiotic, moronic, stupid ass idea. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iv7 307 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 the poster probably is single and doesn't have much friends then.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sofi 17,143 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 That's the stupidest thing I've read. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Red 1,514 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 That's just cruel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twinky 15,878 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 'test the water' and 'push and pull' are no no when you're not yet a couple some people will be totally turn off if this kind of thing happen to them why mess around when the feelings are mutual Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hwang 77 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 I'd just get really pissed off T-T Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aripod 2,721 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 People are so silly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mgl 5,919 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 What's the logic even? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Taeyeon 340 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 I feel like this was written by an over-dramatic middle school girl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanityless 327 Posted February 20, 2014 Author Share Posted February 20, 2014 I feel like this was written by an over-dramatic middle school girl She's a ninth grader who followed me on tumblr, and I have the follow for follow policy so I had to follow her. Her posts are usually equally stupid and cheesy, but they're really popular. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HotWalkin 965 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 i'm not interested in any of my friends. OPPA! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yerowan 1,006 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 She's a ninth grader... Her posts are usually equally stupid and cheesy, but they're really popular. ...makes sense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prosperity 209 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 If my friend rejected me I'd be crying in my bed lol ~ I wouldn't blame her for anything, I'd be blaming myself because if I was good enough there would be no reason for her to reject me, unless she didn't think she wasn't good enough for me which is highly unlikely, no girl is ever too good for me. In a relationship, no one is better than the other because if one thinks they're better than the other, they shouldn't be a couple in the first place. Just break up! It's all about the mind, what you think is what is true to you. Whether you think that things would work out or not, you are correct. Because you are the one who decides whether anything would work out for you, not other people. I would never reject somebody that I like to 'test' them because that would ruin my life. IF I got rejected as a test, I would try again, I'd keep trying until that friend hated me because until she gets into a relationship with another person I'll still have a chance at her. Lolol jokes, I'm not that persistent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
banis 83 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 I will totally kick him if he said that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuckception 695 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 What a dick move. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delincious 5,654 Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 it's really shitty to "test" people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Wine 1,540 Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 Terrible friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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