sunshinetrbl 783 Posted March 17, 2017 Share Posted March 17, 2017 so i have a really close guy friend and we've known each other for a really long time bc we're family friends. He's half a year older than me and we're basically like brother & sister. he's rlly into soccer & they had a game so i went to watch him play for the first time. i sat in the first row of bleachers and the team was just warming up on the field but when the game was about to start they have to take off all their warm up clothes & stuff so he came over to me and just tossed me his sweatshirt and put his watch and bead bracelet thing on my wrist & casually went back on the field when he scored one of the goals he like looked over at where I was sitting and winked and i was like hoooo my gawddd. & they won ofc cuz they're pretty decent of a team so our families got together to have dinner and celebrate & since we live close to each other our parents told him to walk me back home cuz it was dark & i had school the next day while my parents stayed longer at his house. we were just casually talking but right when I was almost to my house he like stopped and was like "how was it to finally watch me play/was i cool/did u fall for me?" and ofc i said "lol hell no." BUT THEN he said "yea right" & kissed me and I DIED. but honestly i just think dating him isn't realistic bc we're both seniors & going to different colleges so y would i start a relationship now when im about to leave & what if there r better guys in college. i don't wanna limit myself to a bf who's gonna be in a different state & i dont trust myself enough to not hook up with anyone else in college. i def like him but not enough to commit to him rn. i said im down to being fwb but he wants an actual relationship.. ugh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Illegirl 1,738 Posted March 17, 2017 Share Posted March 17, 2017 i just think dating him isn't realistic bc we're both seniors & going to different colleges so y would i start a relationship now when im about to leave Tell him this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HardWorkBeatTalent 1,096 Posted March 17, 2017 Share Posted March 17, 2017 i just think dating him isn't realistic bc we're both seniors & going to different colleges so y would i start a relationship now when im about to leave Tell him this. I agree and from a guy pov, we want girl to tell how they feel about the relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
STORM 7,555 Posted March 17, 2017 Share Posted March 17, 2017 Yeah, don't lead him on. Just give it to him straight. It's better for both of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted March 17, 2017 Share Posted March 17, 2017 That's fair enough although it shouldn't have to be a bad experience, you can date him for a year and then switch back to be friends. That way you don't have to end up in bad terms if both are going to different colleges in different cities, so it would be the sensible thing to end the relationship at the end of high school. I kind of did that with a girl I liked a lot, she even lives in a different country now but would still call me to hang out when she comes here. That of course is only a suggestion if you like him if not then it's probably better to leave at it is and not that him and ruin the friendship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IBetrayedHanbinForSewoon 4,294 Posted March 17, 2017 Share Posted March 17, 2017 Lmao that was a cute story! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JiMiJu 1,858 Posted March 17, 2017 Share Posted March 17, 2017 Try to be honest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted March 17, 2017 Share Posted March 17, 2017 Don't let such a gem go tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted March 17, 2017 Share Posted March 17, 2017 Dp Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cymae 646 Posted March 17, 2017 Share Posted March 17, 2017 Why did he wait that long to tell you how he feels? Worst timing ever wth. He told you at the worst possible time. It's going to be hard to make a serious relationship work if you're going to different colleges. You will be really busy and you're gonna meet so many new guys. Such a waste tbh. You guys would have been cute together. If you REALLY care about him then maybe you should try to make it work. But other than that, it's better if you both move on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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