Couple with Down’s syndrome defy the odds and all the doubters to celebrate 22 years of marriage

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A COUPLE who both have Down’s syndrome have proved doubters wrong by celebrating 22 years of wedded bliss. Maryanne and Tommy Pilling were thought to be the first Down’s couple to tie the knot in 1995 but were hit by a wave of criticism.

 

The pair dated for around 18 months before Tommy popped the question and the couple went on to tie the knot at St Mary’s Church in Shoeburyness, Essex, in July 1995.

 

Now, 22 years later, Maryanne, 45 and Tommy, 59 are still going strong and a Facebook page, set up by Maryanne’s sister, Lindi Newman, which follows the couple’s romance has racked up over 6,000 followers.

Lindi said: “The day Maryanne met Tommy she came home with the biggest smile on her face. She couldn’t stop talking about him and asked if he could come for dinner.

 

“They dated for about 18 months and then he approached my mum, Linda, to ask if he could propose. He had a toy ring from a vending machine.

 

“My mum immediately said yes but wanted them to do it properly so took him to a jewellery shop to buy a proper ring. She received a lot of flak at the time for letting them get married but she insisted it was their decision.â€

 

Maryanne had dreamed about a big white wedding since she was a little girl, which is exactly what she had on the beautiful day.

 

Lindi said: “When they walk down the street holding hands they make a statement but in a good way. Some people stare, they assume people with Down’s syndrome and learning difficulties can’t get married. But we also get so many lovely lovely messages from people who are inspired by their story. People worried about their own children or grandchildren with Down’s syndrome get hope from Maryanne and Tommy’s story. Hope that their children can also fall in love and live happily ever after.â€

 

Maryanne added: “My wedding was the best day of my life. I was shocked when Tommy proposed but I didn’t have to think twice about saying yes. Tommy and I never argue. I love my husband very much. He is my best friend.â€

 

The happy couple live independently, with family next door to help out when needed.

 

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[lovenatu]

Such a beautiful couple

[Lorenza]

That's sweet! Not sure why anybody would be opposed to it, though, seems strange to me.

[UniKormz]

awwwww

[jellymelly02]

Oh gosh...why is my heart getting warm? 

[Cheshire Cat]

Awww 

[HardWorkBeatTalent]

Love

[Pinkika]

so sweet

[Thatoneuser]

I have actual tears in my eyes. So sweet. 

[aiacandy]

Aww that's just so beautiful, I may have shed a tear or two.

[terrifiedwolves]

oh, man that is so freaking cute

he had a toy ring

[♥SNS-Shinomiya♥]

I am happy they have been married for so long, but please don't reproduce...adopt

[JENNIE'S OPPA]

That's sweet! Not sure why anybody would be opposed to it, though, seems strange to me.

Some people just want to watch the world burn

[Lorenza]

I am happy they have been married for so long, but please don't reproduce...adopt

 

 The odds that these two might have a child together are very low. A third of women with Down's are infertile, and the numbers are much higher for men. 

[PeachyHearts]

Aw~ This is so touching!